JustUsBoys.com gay porn forum

logo

remove these banner ads by becoming a JUB Supporter.

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 50 of 64

Thread: chatting with older men

      
   
  1. #1

    chatting with older men

    I'm not sure if it counts as a fetish but lately I've been enjoying finding random older men (I typically look for 50+) and initiate conversation with them on apps like jack'd. Typically it starts out with me asking if they like younger guys and how young. Then I go into a role-playing scenario and hope they play along.

    "What if I was your paperboy and I came to your door with your delivery in the pouring rain. What would happen next?"

    So far I've gotten some pretty fun scenarios. But my question is, do you think most guys like this or would they find it annoying? The distance is usually in the thousands of miles and I've no intention of hooking up with them. I also like chatting with older guys on squirt who do live very near to me but I don't really have any intention of hooking up. I just like playing out scenarios. Maybe if I met the guy that could come up with a scenario I found hot enough, I'd go for it. I also especially enjoy when they tell their own experiences of being with younger guys.

    Are there any guys interested in this? Maybe we can email back and forth? Or know of anywhere a younger guy like me can go for this type of online role playing with much older guys?

  2. #2
    JUB Addict anchihiro's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    1,268

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I'm sure there's lots of older guys who'll be interested in getting off with you.

  3. #3

    Re: chatting with older men

    some older men would really enjoy chatting with you, while others would not get into it. that's just because everyone is different.

    as for me, who is close tp 50, i would enjoy it if the action isw give-and-take. i wouldn't want to write a long narrative for you to simply read -- i would want both of us to contribute about equally to the scenario. if you're open to that idea, send me a pm.

  4. #4
    On the Prowl Gnarlibar's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Orientation
    Curious
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    55

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Sounds fun to me too, but not just one way...

  5. #5
    Evolving...give it a try. Críostóir's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2006
    Location
    Hoboken
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    10,515

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I agree that it's not fun if I (the older guy) do all the work. That's exploitive, especially if they think they're working up to a hookup.

    If you're truthful with them from the start and pull your weight in the conversation, no problem.
    ____
    If we believe absurdities, we shall commit atrocities. -- Voltaire (1694-1778).

  6. #6

    Re: chatting with older men

    I'm in my fifties and have never turned down a younger guy who wanted to hook up. even if he wanted no strings attached. I'm always looking for a young guy who wants to fuck me

  7. #7

    Re: chatting with older men

    So, let me ask this....

    I used to do webcam shows on WCN (old site similiar to cam4) and I still have messenger conversations with a couple of the guys who are much older then I am. Some conversations are me doing private shows (mostly jo) while other conversations are two sided. I am not sexually attracted to any of them and I would never meet up with them. I just enjoy doing it. Actually been looking for another guy to do this with.

    Is this odd?

  8. #8
    A Total Bottom mbamike's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    14,614

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    FYI. . . Silverdaddies.com is a hookup site for young guys looking to hookup with an older guy and for older guys looking to hookup with younger guys.

    Homophobia kills!

  9. #9

    Re: chatting with older men

    It would definitely be a two sided conversation. I like to exchange (true) stories with the guys I chat with and from there, go into fantasies where I write what I would do and he write what he would do. We would speak for ourselves in the situation we came up with so it would be rather equal, until someone takes charge and then the other person responds as they would if it were real life.

    Someguy5, that sounds fun. I'd be willing to cam for older guys too. How old are you?

  10. #10
    ( ̄(エ) ̄) GamerBear's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Portland
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    11,571
    Blog Entries
    4

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    When I was single most older men rejected talking to me, it's strange to why they told me to fuck off. I was young maybe not young enough.

  11. #11

    Re: chatting with older men

    I like all types of men but i love talking to guys in their 40s or 30s, i get a tingly feeling inside.

  12. #12

    Re: chatting with older men

    I love chatting with older guys but since I don't have a cam, I can't enjoy it as much as I would like. It's been broken for over a year and I still haven't gotten it replaced.

    Time to invest I suppose.

  13. #13
    Slut Tiger3334's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    257

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    i love chatting with older men. im totally with you on this fetish

  14. #14
    HA! ;-)
    Kyanimal's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2004
    Location
    Milwaukee
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Open Relationship
    Posts
    16,288

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I'm one of those older guys, and I can 't quite accept what I've morphed into as I've aged!

    My "inner guy" still thinks he's 25, or so, until I do something stupid like look in a mirror, or try to skip a few stairs!

    I can't imagine a younger guy finding anything about me attractive, in any way!

    However, if that might ever be the case, who am I to discount his feelings?

    In short, it is what it is! And if it should happen, who am I to question someone else's feelings?

    Keep smilin'!!
    Chaz
    WISDOM is the Knowledge you've gained ... After you could have used it! _Me

  15. #15
    Porn Star UncutBrit's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2009
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Open Relationship
    Posts
    321

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Into this but because of my age, my fantasy is to have a threesome with an older man and a younger guy. All sorts of scenarios are possible!

    (PS paperboy in the rain? Hell yeah!)

  16. #16
    holeconfusion
    Guest

    Re: chatting with older men

    Sometimes I think about getting with a really old guy in his 80's and giving him one more good time before he kicks it.

  17. #17
    JUB Addict FanofFiction's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married (to a man)
    Posts
    4,334

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I love chatting to older guys on silver daddies. Some cool guys on there, but also a lot of pedos. Hard to find quality sometimes.

  18. #18
    Evolving...give it a try. Críostóir's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2006
    Location
    Hoboken
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    10,515

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I'm an older guy too (52), and I love chatting with younger guys (18+).

    I'm also kind of a dom, and I like telling people what to do...I try to restrain that tendency in ordinary conversation, though! "Um...do you want my opinion?" is a common line in my chat conversations.
    ____
    If we believe absurdities, we shall commit atrocities. -- Voltaire (1694-1778).

  19. #19
    A Prolific Love Maker!
    Shepherd 2's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    The Shepherd's Arms
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    245,936
    Blog Entries
    38

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Quote Originally Posted by holeconfusion View Post
    Sometimes I think about getting with a really old guy in his 80's and giving him one more good time before he kicks it.
    Hope this helps you. Please never say you want to fuck me because I might need one more good time before I kick it. It might just be your butt. You see, I am the man who likes to fuck good and hard the man younger than me from forty to seventy, and if they are really good, I may return the favor.

    I am a rough fucker, and I like the fetish some people have, but life is about mutual relations in relationships. That is a recurrent theme here, and I agree with it.

    Lover of Mature Men,
    Shep+
    Touch, Arouse Me, Kiss & More!
    My signature picture was designed for me by Reone.

  20. #20

    Re: chatting with older men

    Older guys are the hottest. Always dreaming about them.

  21. #21
    On the Prowl gaybard's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Bisexual
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    50

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I have been enjoying fantasies of younger men since turning forty-seven last month. I could have a lot of fun with a paperboy

  22. #22

    Re: chatting with older men

    Sounds like there's a lot of guys then.
    Maybe I should set up an msn to have some of these chats, eh?

    Quote Originally Posted by UncutBrit View Post
    Into this but because of my age, my fantasy is to have a threesome with an older man and a younger guy. All sorts of scenarios are possible!

    (PS paperboy in the rain? Hell yeah!)
    That's another fantasy of mine!

  23. #23
    Virgin
    Join Date
    Feb 2012
    Location
    NYC New York
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    20

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Not really a fetish. It sounds like you enjoy talking with older men. Hey, nothing wrong with that. Older men have a lot of experience to share.

    Remember, not ALL older men chase after younger men.

  24. #24
    Joe06877
    Guest

    Re: chatting with older men

    I am relegated to chatting with younger men by default.

  25. #25
    Slut
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Location
    Oakland
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    170

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I'm 48 and my partner of nearly 13 years is nearing 31. I can't say I don't like you younger men, though - fortunately for me - so does my partner

  26. #26
    Sex God Darted's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Montreal
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    564

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Where do you typically find these men?

  27. #27
    ( ̄(エ) ̄) GamerBear's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Portland
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    11,571
    Blog Entries
    4

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I figured most would be found at silverdaddies. But some of the older men there sure have a fucking ugly attitude, I like usually making chat buddies but all of them either want to fuck a skinny 18 year old or don't find you up to their standards.

    I sure missed back in the good ole days of when Yahoo Messenger had those custom chat rooms and I always find older men to chat with, but now that one grows old you become less attractive to them. It seems they always want teenagers to chat with, why I have no freaking idea. Maybe for youth, no wrinkles, smooth ass or perhaps their age has the word teen in it I have no clue.

  28. #28
    JUB Addict FanofFiction's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married (to a man)
    Posts
    4,334

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Yeah, the men at silverdaddies are terrible... Nasty nasty nasty attitudes. And even when you are nice to them, they just respond with negativity.

  29. #29
    Virgin Daithi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Berlin
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    27

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I deleted my profile at Silverdaddies because, after five years as a member and hundreds of communications, I had zero actual meetings.

  30. #30
    ( ̄(エ) ̄) GamerBear's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Portland
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    11,571
    Blog Entries
    4

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Damn seriously Daithi? Why would people not want to meet you? You look amazing in your avatar picture.

  31. #31
    Virgin Daithi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Berlin
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    27

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Quote Originally Posted by GamerBear View Post
    Damn seriously Daithi? Why would people not want to meet you? You look amazing in your avatar picture.
    Thanks! But maybe it was due to living in Berlin. There weren't many young guys listed for the city and none was interested. In general, I think dad/son interest is mostly in USA, though I have no idea why.

  32. #32
    ( ̄(エ) ̄) GamerBear's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Portland
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    11,571
    Blog Entries
    4

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Quote Originally Posted by Daithi View Post
    Thanks! But maybe it was due to living in Berlin. There weren't many young guys listed for the city and none was interested. In general, I think dad/son interest is mostly in USA, though I have no idea why.
    Not really sure I see other places in different countries where I see the Dad/Son stuff in porn. Not sure if in other countries of real life relationships end up playing out like that but I know that very few of those relationships exist in the U.S. I know I'm in a relationship right now of my husband who is going to be 52 years old this year. Though we don't have a Dad/Son relationship I am sure a lot of gay men will assume that our relationship is made up of that.

    Besides I am sure that some young guys do it for the wrong reasons and that's usually never worth the pain of having to get with a younger guy if the only reason they are having sex with you is because you have money. Just the company of being able to talk to someone older is usually always a joy for me because I can talk to them about their experiences and be friends with them at the same time.

  33. #33
    Virgin Daithi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Berlin
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    27

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I enjoy relationships with younger guys because I like to pass on life experience. But dad/son is special for me. I want it to have a reality. That is more important for me than the sex side.

    Pleased to hear you are in a successful relationship. As am I except he lives in Melbourne so we only get to spend about four months of each year together. But maybe that is why it works

  34. #34
    ( ̄(エ) ̄) GamerBear's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Portland
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    11,571
    Blog Entries
    4

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Quote Originally Posted by Daithi View Post
    I enjoy relationships with younger guys because I like to pass on life experience. But dad/son is special for me. I want it to have a reality. That is more important for me than the sex side.

    Pleased to hear you are in a successful relationship. As am I except he lives in Melbourne so we only get to spend about four months of each year together. But maybe that is why it works
    You're right, I live in California and my husband lives in Oregon. It's difficult to live in separate areas or even countries but usually it all works out because if you are serious about the relationship then you will make it work no matter how long you've been together with them. I usually spend about 2 months in total with my husband each year and we are trying to work things out on moving in together but with a bad economy it tends to get a bit difficult for both of us.

  35. #35

    Re: chatting with older men

    yes. FoF, I am an older man and just listening to others talk, the older guys have agendas and problems with the truth - married, cheating on partners, forgotten their age, recent pics (20 yrs ago) - a predatory attitude and on it goes.
    To my utter surprise I can still win a heart. I am on no sites and just go with the old fashioned meet and greet.

  36. #36
    JUB Addict WIZZARD101's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2005
    Location
    DFW
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    1,646

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    as a guy 53 i like talking to younger guys and playing out different scenarios. it is not as easy to find younger guys that like to do that, but anyone that like to play games like the paper boy scenario sounds like a hole bunch of fun to me.

  37. #37
    ( ̄(エ) ̄) GamerBear's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Portland
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    11,571
    Blog Entries
    4

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Role playing is fun, but I usually keep those kinds of scenarios for stories I write. My favorite one is where the older neighbor asks the younger neighbor if he can come over and fix his computer because he thinks he might of had a virus. Young guy comes to over and looks over his computer and while the older neighbor goes into the kitchen to get some drinks, the young guy finds the porn stash on the desktop and gets caught when he opens one of the pictures...

  38. #38
    Virgin Daithi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Berlin
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    27

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I suppose, strictly speaking, dad/son counts as role play though I like to keep it as real as possible. Sometimes a guy in his 40s or 50s will ask to be my son but that just doesn't work for me. I am in my late 50s (oldest picture of me is a couple of years ago) and so prefer my son to be plausibly mine. Yet my 'son' is Persian and has quite different skin colour. And I would have no problems with a son of any race or colour. So how real is real?

    Moreover, as my brother remarked to me, it is not considered good form generally for a father to fuck his son...

  39. #39
    ( ̄(エ) ̄) GamerBear's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Portland
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    11,571
    Blog Entries
    4

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Quote Originally Posted by Daithi View Post
    I suppose, strictly speaking, dad/son counts as role play though I like to keep it as real as possible. Sometimes a guy in his 40s or 50s will ask to be my son but that just doesn't work for me. I am in my late 50s (oldest picture of me is a couple of years ago) and so prefer my son to be plausibly mine. Yet my 'son' is Persian and has quite different skin colour. And I would have no problems with a son of any race or colour. So how real is real?

    Moreover, as my brother remarked to me, it is not considered good form generally for a father to fuck his son...
    Yeah but the thought of the whole dad and son role playing is a huge turn on, but then for me I just enjoy having sex with an older man. If you and the other person are happy then why would it matter for someone else to be upset about what you do in bed with your man.

  40. #40
    Huntneo(PT)
    Guest

    Re: chatting with older men

    I can understand where you're coming from, OP.

    I definitely have a 'thing' for older men, and I find it hard to resist flirting with some of the 'older' members here on JUB. It's quite fun!

  41. #41
    JUB Addict FanofFiction's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married (to a man)
    Posts
    4,334

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    You're such a flirty fun guy, Huntneo. I bet older guys love chatting you up.

  42. #42
    Evolving...give it a try. Críostóir's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2006
    Location
    Hoboken
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    10,515

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Quote Originally Posted by FanofFiction View Post
    You're such a flirty fun guy, Huntneo. I bet older guys love chatting you up.
    I can attest to that.
    ____
    If we believe absurdities, we shall commit atrocities. -- Voltaire (1694-1778).

  43. #43
    Huntneo(PT)
    Guest

    Re: chatting with older men

    ^ awww...thanks, you guys! Be on the lookout for an increase in naughty comments and such from now on.

  44. #44
    JUB Addict FanofFiction's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married (to a man)
    Posts
    4,334

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    A few friends and I just deleted our profiles at silverdaddies. Got tired of the way it is moderated. That site has been a pain for a while, but within the past few months it has seemed to really take a nose dive. I would nominate it for shittiest site for chatting.

  45. #45
    Old Fashioned Gay ravenstar's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2011
    Location
    Gosford
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    4,200
    Blog Entries
    12

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I'm always happy to do the work in coming up with a fantasy story. Probably because I'm a writer and it's a fun way to experiment with erotica. The codicil to that is if you want me to come up with a fantasy to make you cum you better get your cock on skype so I can watch the reaction to what I'm saying.

  46. #46
    Slut Tiger3334's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    257

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    does anyone else do more than just chatting with older men? when i cam for guys, it's only for older men. (not for lack of a asme age audience...i just prefer older men)

  47. #47
    A Total Bottom mbamike's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    14,614

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    I rarely hookup with guys my own age or older. Most of the guys are 10+ years younger than me.

    Homophobia kills!

  48. #48
    Evolving...give it a try. Críostóir's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2006
    Location
    Hoboken
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    10,515

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Quote Originally Posted by Tiger3334 View Post
    does anyone else do more than just chatting with older men? when i cam for guys, it's only for older men. (not for lack of a same age audience...i just prefer older men)
    Quote Originally Posted by mbamike View Post
    I rarely hookup with guys my own age or older. Most of the guys are 10+ years younger than me.
    Now see, neither of you said how old you are! I'm betting I'm older than either of you, but either way I don't know if I should try to chat with you or not.
    ____
    If we believe absurdities, we shall commit atrocities. -- Voltaire (1694-1778).

  49. #49
    A Total Bottom mbamike's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    14,614

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Quote Originally Posted by Críostóir View Post
    Now see, neither of you said how old you are! I'm betting I'm older than either of you, but either way I don't know if I should try to chat with you or not.
    Hello Críostóir. I am 52 yo and that is my ass in my avatar.

    BTW, my youngest guy ever was a 27 yo back in March of this year.
    Last edited by mbamike; July 11th, 2012 at 01:41 PM.

    Homophobia kills!

  50. #50
    Slut Tiger3334's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    257

    Code of Conduct

    Re: chatting with older men

    Quote Originally Posted by Críostóir View Post
    Now see, neither of you said how old you are! I'm betting I'm older than either of you, but either way I don't know if I should try to chat with you or not.
    im 23 but i look younger.
    Last edited by Tiger3334; July 11th, 2012 at 03:42 PM.

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
Terms of Service | Privacy Policy | About JustUsBoys.com | Site Map | RSS | Webmasters | Advertise | Link to JUB | Report A Bug on this Page

Visit our sister sites: Broke Straight Boys | CollegeDudes.com | CollegeBoyPhysicals.com | RocketTube
All models appearing on JustUsBoys.com were over 18 at the time of photography. The records for sexually explicit images required by U.S. 2257 are kept by the
individual producers of the images. The location of the records is available by clicking the Custodian of Records link at the bottom of each gallery page.
© 2012 JustUsBoys.com. The JustUsBoys.com name and logo are registered trademarks. Labeled with ICRA and RTA. Member of ASACP and The Free Speech Coalition.