I'm 31, and not really old enough to be a "daddy." I'm hairy all over, so I guess I fall into the category of "big brother bear." I'm 5'10", weigh about 230 - 240 (I do work out, so my weight fluctuates), and am pretty handsome.
One thing I've always struggled with is the whole stigma of not chasing after guys because I fear they won't want me due to my looks. We all have our insecurities, and we're all a work in progress. That being said, at the end of the day, the kinds of guys that I'm attracted to are more on the athletic/twinky side - smooth, young-ish bottoms. And I often feel I have to apologize for it, because I guess it's seen as hypocritical in the gay community to chase after something you're not and never "can have." But, after reading many messages on this board, it does seem that there are quite a few guys that would interest me who like a bigger, hairy, masculine man such as myself.
So....where do you go to find your "opposite" who's looking for you? I tend to do the online dating/chatting thing a bit. Are there websites where opposites go to find each other? Any leads would help greatly. I don't date a whole lot, but as I get older, I'm starting to want to branch out, date more, and find a very special guy to call my own.