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    Today I have accepted money from my parents to be able to pay my rent. So ashamed of myself
    Magna Veritas


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    Re: Confess something that might surprise others or damage your reputation on JUB - 2012

    OK, a few confessions.

    1) I normally frequent this site and one other so I can keep up-to-date with recent pictures of hot celebrities I finally registered last night because if there's one thing in the World I hate more than anything, it's people that lie. Not just lie, but tell pointless lies. I noticed one person posting lies both here and on that other site, so I called him out on it. Apparently this makes me a stalker If you want to know more, check out the Tom Daley thread....

    2) I have since decided to start posting here, and so thought this thread would be a good start. I've read it in its entirety (took an age) and now I feel like I know you all a bit better than y'all know me

    3) I really, really, REALLY fancy Tom Daley

    OK, that's my first 3 confessions. I'm sure more will follow. I tend to go online when I'm drunk, so will no doubt say a whole load of stuff that will embarrass me

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    Welcome LOL !
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    Mon Ami,

    Trust me on this. (My baby boy is over 30) To accept occasional aid
    from parents is nothing to be ashamed of. It actually validates them
    and makes them feel like a bit more important to you/your life.

    We, parents in general, now our off-spring are going to hit an infrequent
    rough patch. We hit them (hell, we still do at times) and are just very
    pleased when we can help.

    It's not like you camp on their doorstep begging all the time (that does
    get ld and stays old too) Your parents love you. A few bucks is not
    going to change that. Just don't get in the habit of expecting them to
    bail you out every time things get a bit sticky.

    When this bad patch is past, take them to a dinner and/or a show.
    Have their re-payment in a white envelope (maybe even a bit of extra
    for interest), Slip it to them with a quiet thank you for their generous
    help. Everyone will be happy and your parents will know that the son
    they love is respectful and responsible...just as they already knew.
    Last edited by Lefty; June 4th, 2012 at 07:12 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oakpope View Post
    Today I have accepted money from my parents to be able to pay my rent. So ashamed of myself
    Families take care of each other, my friend. Stop feeling ashamed. One day, you will return the favor to them. Maybe not in money, but in giving of yourself to them somehow.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Welcome LOL !
    Hello! And thank you

    One more confession - I also read the thread regarding sexual fantasies just to see what kind of kinky bastards I was dealing with here

    I'm slowly trying to build up profiles of you all in my head

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    had a horrible dream where i got so desperate looking for work that i applied for this stripper job. the only good thing was seeing other hot guys strip down to their draws and etc. when it came to my turn for the audition, i felt really embarrassed because i had a boner for one which was showing through my briefs which i think belonged to my father and the women that were there were all making tons of noise like "ohhhhh" and "awwww" and "dayum". i held my head down in shame because i was humiliated and very embarrassed. don't know if i got the job or not but i felt like i was exposed. i felt like i was being reduced to an object. it all took place outside at night in what seemed like the hood where there was flaming night sticks that you might see in somewhere tropical like hawaii and i remember seeing a brown picket fence so i guess it was in someone's backyard.

    and yo..... i think i'm developing something for kevin gould. dude is HOT. i've been wanking off to some of his pics for sometime. bet he would feel really uncomfortable with a gay guy jerking off to his pics. he might want to knock me out. haha.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    i guess i'm the type of guy that will jerk off to anything that gets him off as long as i bust a nut because i tried to get off to a gay porn i got off to before but i couldn't so i decided to jerk off to kelli staxxx doing muscle control with her asscheeks. doesn't change the fact that i'm not attracted to women or pussy for that matter.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    just jerked off to this pornstar bouncing her boobs around.

    for some weird reason, i don't feel like talking about gay porn or anything like that. it's almost like i'm moving away from the light of the creak of the closet door and back into the closet. i don't know wtf is going on. i started jerking off to women because i got bored with gay porn and i also felt weird jerking off to guys. like they're hot and i like them and all but i just felt weird in doing so. i also was having trouble getting off to especially to this gay porn brandon jones and gabriel.. whatever his last name is. i was trying to but i just couldn't get it there. said the same shit earlier.

    i think i'm confused with my sexuality again. am i really gay if i'm jerking off to women to begin with? can't jerk off to straight porn but i can't help but get off to women bouncing their boobs and shaking their asses. is it just me trying to get off or a possibility that i'm sexually attracted to them.

    another thing too. when i was taking the police exam or whatever yesterday, i was sitting directly across this woman that was taking the test and for some reason, i wanted to fuck her even though i smelled the same weird, nasty smell of the skin of a woman or sweat if that's what it is like how those strippers were in the strip club. fuck it, i wanted to fuck her. uhhhhh... confused about my sexuality indeed. am i still gay or just letting my masturbatory episodes get me all confused? someone help me put my head on straight.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    My oh my, looking at my posts today it would appear

    I was polishing my philosophers stone and opening the

    opinion closet door a bit wider than is my wont. Time

    to revert to type and image before someone accuses me

    of being capable of sentient thought. LOL 8^)

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    I iron dishtowels.

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    for some weird reason, i don't feel like talking about gay porn or anything like that. it's almost like i'm moving away from the light of the creak of the closet door and back into the closet. i don't know wtf is going on. i started jerking off to women because i got bored with gay porn and i also felt weird jerking off to guys. like they're hot and i like them and all but i just felt weird in doing so. i also was having trouble getting off to especially to this gay porn brandon jones and gabriel.. whatever his last name is. i was trying to but i just couldn't get it there. said the same shit earlier.
    You seem pretty intent on porn proving your sexuality, but I think that's sort of backwards. I'm not gay because I watch gay porn and masturbate to it. I masturbate to gay porn because I'm gay.

    Have you tried taking a break from porn temporarily? Maybe just stick with your imagination for awhile? It's probably a good idea to do, anyway. If you get a guy (or girl) back to your place, your dick is going to think it's not porn time because you're not sitting in front of your computer.

    Oh, and if you don't feel yourself getting to orgasm, stop. Seriously. Don't force yourself to the orgasm - those orgasms aren't ever worth it. Just stop, zip up, and go do something else. Then the next time you get horny, you'll find getting to orgasm a lot easier - and a lot more pleasurable.

    Lex

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    As one of my side jobs, I do the books for a friend who owns a bar. Since "losing" my job, he asked me to take over as a bar manager. I knew he wasn't that good with numbers but I at least thought he had some managerial skills. Over the past few days I realized how inept he is. I'm at that awkward point where as I friend, I want him to succeed but as a business person, I want to berate him and point out how bad he is at running a business and probably should not be doing so. He is amazing with customers and knows the bar quite well which are his redeeming qualities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohannBessler View Post
    I can top that one.

    Sometimes, I iron my money when it has too many wrinkles.
    Money laundering?
    Blah blah blah, something enigmatic sounding...

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    Re: Confess something that might surprise others or damage your reputation on JUB - 2012

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    You seem pretty intent on porn proving your sexuality, but I think that's sort of backwards. I'm not gay because I watch gay porn and masturbate to it. I masturbate to gay porn because I'm gay.

    Have you tried taking a break from porn temporarily? Maybe just stick with your imagination for awhile? It's probably a good idea to do, anyway. If you get a guy (or girl) back to your place, your dick is going to think it's not porn time because you're not sitting in front of your computer.

    Oh, and if you don't feel yourself getting to orgasm, stop. Seriously. Don't force yourself to the orgasm - those orgasms aren't ever worth it. Just stop, zip up, and go do something else. Then the next time you get horny, you'll find getting to orgasm a lot easier - and a lot more pleasurable.

    Lex
    i have a weird way of thinking. maybe it's part of the whole denial process. even when i tried to jerk off solely to women for all those years after i realized that i might have been gay because i realized that i really did like guys romantically apart from masturbating them, it was like "you're not gay, you masturbate to women". my feelings towards guys haven't changed and i haven't grown anymore romantically interested in women since then.

    i've tried to take a break from porn temporarily between the years 2001-2005. i tried to stop masturbating and i only found my mind because i had to do it. i went through great lengths to stop such as throwing away all the porn i printed from the computer and brought. it was stupid. i'm actually scared to take a break from porn and masturbation fearing that i'll go through the same disasterous experience i went through about 10 years ago when i was both sexually frustrated and in denial about my orientation. i think that holding back a nut would make me actually search for someone to fuck.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    I actually went out and purchased the CD version of Cristina Agiulera's Bionic the day it came out (before we knew it was a flop). And I defended it afterward.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    i've tried to take a break from porn temporarily between the years 2001-2005. i tried to stop masturbating and i only found my mind because i had to do it. i went through great lengths to stop such as throwing away all the porn i printed from the computer and brought. it was stupid. i'm actually scared to take a break from porn and masturbation fearing that i'll go through the same disasterous experience i went through about 10 years ago when i was both sexually frustrated and in denial about my orientation. i think that holding back a nut would make me actually search for someone to fuck.
    Well, I didn't say take a break from masturbation. I said take a break from porn. Stop letting the porn drive. Let your brain take over for awhile while you masturbate. See where the fantasy takes you.

    Lex

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    Quote Originally Posted by yeahright1991 View Post
    I actually went out and purchased the CD version of Cristina Agiulera's Bionic the day it came out (before we knew it was a flop). And I defended it afterward.....
    "Who's embarrassed?"
    "You are, mommy."

    Lex

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    Quote Originally Posted by yeahright1991 View Post
    I actually went out and purchased the CD version of Cristina Agiulera's Bionic the day it came out (before we knew it was a flop). And I defended it afterward.....


    Oh my fucking God.


    I have a physical copy of Bionic as well!


    Want to know the sick part? I was purchasing it for one track and that was "Little Dreamers" I find out later it was an Itunes exclusive.... So I bought a digital copy too.


    Fuck the Police.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Well, I didn't say take a break from masturbation. I said take a break from porn. Stop letting the porn drive. Let your brain take over for awhile while you masturbate. See where the fantasy takes you.

    Lex
    sounds like a plan that will work. i have one particular guy on my mind that i saw on another web forum that happened to be a male stripper. i'ma jerk off to him in my head tonight when i go to bed.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    So three former coworkers showed up at the bar I'm currently working at and it was amusing to watch them in a different atmosphere, particularly an inebriated one. One guy "K" was a happy drunk and would gladly go out drinking with him. He is a bit incompetent at his job but still fun. Another guy "J", was an asshole drunk but not obnoxious. He is a bit OCD like me but pleasant. Then there is the female "J". She was obnoxious sober but dear god I never used the phrase "cunt punch" before about a woman until she got drunk. It takes a lot to piss me off but I seriously had the urge to well, cunt punch her. Her man must be completely pussy whipped to put up with that bitch.

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    ^Is that the one from that thread the other day?
    You show courage the brave dream of

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    I have been to the gym every day this week, some days twice. I plan on going every day until I have the body of an Adonis. Everyone thinks I just want to get fit, but I am actually doing it to show my ex what he's missing out on. When I see him in a few months he is going to regret walking out on ALL THIS UP IN HERE!

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    It shouldn't take too much work - I'm in alright shape as it is.

    He wanted us to start going to the gym together just to get in shape, but he's a stoner and could never be bothered going. So, not only am I going to look AMAZING, he is still going to look exactly the same.

    Holla.

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    Wait until you see me in a few months

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    The amount of works and texts that I have to read before my next examination is so immense, since it covers two terms and not just one. I find the task so daunting and impossible, that I can't seem to find the energy and pull myself together and do it, which pisses me off.

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    ^ get off the interweb, silly. We're only holding you back

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    ^^Thanks, that's just what I needed. See ya on my break jubbers

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    DON'T FORGET TO WRITE!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaughOutLoud View Post
    I have been to the gym every day this week, some days twice. I plan on going every day until I have the body of an Adonis. Everyone thinks I just want to get fit, but I am actually doing it to show my ex what he's missing out on. When I see him in a few months he is going to regret walking out on ALL THIS UP IN HERE!
    And as usual, I'll play devil's advocate and say, don't be surprised if he doesn't care that you got buff. I've had ex-es pull that shit over on me and I just roll my eyes.

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    Oh he'll care. He's kinda shallow (one of the few things I disliked about him).

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaughOutLoud View Post
    Oh he'll care. He's kinda shallow (one of the few things I disliked about him).
    The fact that you're doing this specifically to "show him up" suggests...well, suggests a few things, I guess.

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    Lex,

    Do you mean things like 'the pot calling the kettle black
    or maybe one of those old schoolyard childrens taunts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    The fact that you're doing this specifically to "show him up" suggests...well, suggests a few things, I guess.

    Lex
    No no, nothing like that - I'm not doing it to show him up, part of me is doing it because I want to get fit, and if I hit that bird with the same stone, then bonus

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaughOutLoud View Post
    No no, nothing like that - I'm not doing it to show him up...
    Can I be accused of mining if it's on the same page? I hope not.

    Quote Originally Posted by LaughOutLoud View Post
    Everyone thinks I just want to get fit, but I am actually doing it to show my ex what he's missing out on.
    Look, I get being mad at your ex. I get the desire for revenge - I've been there. But this just seems...well, I was going to say "petty" but "petty" is sending him a drunk text or something. This is a lot of time and effort expended to show up some guy who's ostensibly not in your life anymore. No, nothing wrong with getting into shape or buffing up, but not when the reason is (as you said) to show up your ex. That just shows you're not over him. There's a reason they say the best revenge is a kick-ass life - that way, even if he doesn't notice, you're too busy living your kick-ass life to notice or care.

    Lex

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    Thanks for the support guys. I managed to get through 16 pages - wuhu!
    Now I'm off to a dinner party where I'll be getting' my red on.
    Forgive me if I'll type some semi-drunk posts later tonight (did you get that Jason? ;-) )


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    man, sometimes when i look at the way things are going with my life, i wonder what the fuck is going to happen in my future or for that matter, what will i be doing in the near future? i have a college degree and it seems like every avenue or opportunity i take, I JUST KEEP SLIPPING. i just hope that i don't end up getting desperate to the point where i have to resort to crime just to put food in my mouth because if i do, i'm going all out and there's going to be a lot of sorry people outthere. i'll do whatever because right now, i'm just fed up with shit. i'm literally tired, dude. it's becoming really personal.

    it's like my time in the closet has been prolonged. i can't come out with a job that can put food in my mouth. i literally got shut down for a FUCKING job that could have changed my life fo rthe better. boy, am i mad at myself and i'm getting madder thinking about how everyone besides me is eating and how i'm broke, struggling and shit. i'm tired of having to go for ragtag ass jobs and then getting shut down doing some real money in my pocket. WHAT THE FUCK!
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post
    ... And I know it's easy to see how prosperous and "successful" some people appear to be...but remember, you're only seeing the surface. You don't know what battles they're facing. You also don't really know what some of these people are having to deal with just to be where they are. They could be miserable in their jobs, their relationships, or life in general. I've learned that money doesn't solve everything...and it can't buy everything....


    Yes we live in a material world which loves conspicuous consumption. Rich successful people don't like to show their private unhappiness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Can I be accused of mining if it's on the same page? I hope not.



    Look, I get being mad at your ex. I get the desire for revenge - I've been there. But this just seems...well, I was going to say "petty" but "petty" is sending him a drunk text or something. This is a lot of time and effort expended to show up some guy who's ostensibly not in your life anymore. No, nothing wrong with getting into shape or buffing up, but not when the reason is (as you said) to show up your ex. That just shows you're not over him. There's a reason they say the best revenge is a kick-ass life - that way, even if he doesn't notice, you're too busy living your kick-ass life to notice or care.

    Lex
    Who said I was over him? He broke up with me. 8 days ago.

    I'm nowhere near over him. I haven't even started trying to get over him.

    One flaw he had that I had a serious dislike for was how shallow he was. He was obsessed with looks. And now I plan on using that flaw to my advantage. He was always moaning about how both of us should go to the gym, get in shape etc. Now I know (because I have knowledge of his circumstances) that due to cost and his new location, he can't get to a gym.

    The intention was always for us to join a gym, get in shape etc. It just never happened. Us breaking up has just been the size 9 up the butt that I needed to kick start this process for me. He hasn't had that size 9, and even if it was a size 20, I know he would never do it. He's just too much of a couch potato.

    I'm not mad at him, I pity him. I know what he has gone back to (in fact he text me on Monday night saying he realises how much he hates staying at his apartment), so yeah, I'll give myself fuel to pity him even more.

    The difference between him and I is that whilst he may "move on" emotionally quicker than I do, I will actually seize the moment and do something with it. I will use it to better myself. And if it means I get to make him regret things, then so be it.

    Anywho, in any case I agree with what you said RE: kick ass life. I'mma make that for myself. And I hope to fuck he's miserable with his. Again, not because I hate him or am mad at him, but because I want him to see what could have been, had he actually given the relationship a chance

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    Re: Confess something that might surprise others or damage your reputation on JUB - 2012

    Quote Originally Posted by Huntneo(PT) View Post


    awww...well i understand where you're coming from. You just have to stay positive as much as possible. Some things just take time...unfortunately, too much time for our patience. I am in a similar situation career-wise, but it's through my own fault. I'm also not sure what I want to do with myself at this point--so I'm stuck working a part time job with no chance for advancement just so I can make some money.

    And I know it's easy to see how prosperous and "successful" some people appear to be...but remember, you're only seeing the surface. You don't know what battles they're facing. You also don't really know what some of these people are having to deal with just to be where they are. They could be miserable in their jobs, their relationships, or life in general. I've learned that money doesn't solve everything...and it can't buy everything. I know to many miserable "successful" people to think otherwise. Not to mention...the examples are everywhere. Just because someone has their own home, a nice car, an awesome job, etc. doesn't mean they are happier than you are, or happy in general for that matter.

    When you get really down...remind yourself of just how much is going right for you in your life at this time. There are people out there going through things you and I could never imagine. That is what helps me...remembering that I just need some 'perspective' regarding my situation.

    A lot of what you're going through is truly temporary.Remind yourself of that every single day. And while you're on that journey, just do what you can and the best that you can to help things move along a little faster.
    i feel you, man.

    but i'll be lying to myself if i said that i'm tired of being broke, working a wack ass job that pays 8 dollars an hour and constantly having to get shut down and struggle through life especially in a system that doesn't want to see me succeed already. it also doesn't help when you have your own family basically pushing such as my mother which it's like "you have to get a job, do anything". it's like damn, you think i went to school to quit taco hell to go clean out toilets or to work at whole foods. and i'm tired of people telling me to be happy about my situation like this one customer talking about "thank god you have a job" or "things could be worse". yeah, he may be right comparing myself to other people's situations but it still doesn't change the fact that i have to l-i-v-e. dude pisses me off when he says that. dude coming in wasting 40 dollars with whatever he's doing on some bullshit and he''s telling me to smile while i'm getting slave wages and have been getting the same bullshit money for the past 6 years. FUCK THAT. bad enough, i'm dealing with personal issues already with myself. it's like do i need worse.

    and yo.. i just hope that it's temporary because the way things are going. they're not looking to good right now. i've been rock bottom way too many times and i don't want to go back to where i was. i'm still cringing at how i had only 8 dollars in my savings account with NO job. yeah, i was living with my parents and was in school at the time but still, as a man, i was broke. i don't care about having a shitload of clothes, a nice car, although i do care about having a decent place to lay my head and whatever. i just want to be able to take care of myself and survive.

    i know that there's many people that are unhappy with what they have whether it's a job or whatever but honestly, i would rather be in their shoes than where i'm at right now. you know, if they're unhappy with life, they need to exercise, go to the shrink or whatever, you know, they can be broke and unhappy if they want. being broke and unhappy is the worst feeling ever especially when you have issues going on and you have to worry about tomorrow because at anytime, you can be out on the streets, homeless, with NOTHING and people basically not giving a flying fuck and whatever. all i just need is a simple car, a decent paying job and that's it. i can work my way to being okay BUT i can't do so if i don't have shit to start with.

    man, seriously speaking, whenever i get the chance to move out of this state and i'm dead serious about this, i'm moving and i'm going to really start living my life because over here really isn't going to do it for me. i'm trying BUT fuck it.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Re: Confess something that might surprise others or damage your reputation on JUB - 2012

    My friend Kat got my sick and I'm supposed to march with the HRC tomorrow and then volunteer at their boot from 2-5. I would go if I was feeling better but my nose is all stuffed up and I sound wicked nasally.

    Edit: dear God the ipad sucks at grammar.

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    I'm not the hugest fan of the HRC either. Any NPO that big has a lot of overhead that does not directly go to causes. I would much rather give a homeless person food than money that could be spent who knows what. I'm only volunteering to avoid getting trashed like last year. I've done the soul soliciting back in high school

    They thankfully did ditch Joe (a lot of people didn't like him) and the new guy Chad Griffin is pretty good.

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    I can't figure out why Kim Kardashian is famous and I view her fame as an outward symbol of the decline of civilisation as we know it. Personally I can't wait to meet our new Alien overlords.

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    My opinion of the New JUB is ....

    continuing to deteriorate.

    See you all later.....maybe

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    Turns out the HRC is officially endorsing elizabeth warren so I will be about marching with her.

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    As we are in the field of online dating..
    When I came home early this morning from a night out with my friends, a little drunk, I turned on my computer and went on the dating site that I'm a member on. I finally wrote to a guy that I've been planning to write to, since I thought he looked cute and we have been checking each others profiles so for ages now.
    Now that I have finally written to him, I'm afraid to go online, since it was a drunk message (still sweet, as far as I remember, but maybe a bit aggressive though) and see his reply

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    So apparently im gonna be on local fox news tonight. Im posing behind Liz warren wile they interviewed her. Poor girl, she marched 2 miles in a black and turquoise pant suit.

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    Loki,

    My bet is it is an ex who still aches for you butt, can't bring himself to reveal his true identity.
    How else would he hit almost 100% on your compatibility/affection chart?

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    Re: Confess something that might surprise others or damage your reputation on JUB - 2012

    Ugh just read Loki's story and it reminds me off my ex Eddie. He dumped me because he said I was immature. I was 19 and him 21. Two months later, he shows up at my doorstep with guys saying he just got dp'ed by them and was proud of it. Again jealousy is not a word in my lexicon and I just shrugged at him. He cried and I told him to get fucked again.,

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