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    Men concealing their age

    I find it really weird for men not to tell their age. Not accusing women to be not confident about aging, but it's just that women usually conceal their age, not men.

    But two weeks ago, when I was interviewing a man whose mother was a patient, it became a strange experience.

    Me: "Your age, Sir?"
    Him: "I'm old."
    Me: "How old?"
    Him: *chuckles* "You need not know."
    Me: "I have to. I need to make a pedigree."
    Him: *chuckles again* "All you need to know is I'm definitely older than you."
    Me: *frowns*

    For me it's weird. A man, afraid to let people know him age? Puzzling

    How about you? Do you know any man or guy who refuses to disclose their actual age?
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    Does a number on a birth certificate evidence the medical condition, or biological age of a human person?

    I know men in their twenties who as a result of their smoking, drinking, eating habits and lack of physical exercise are already demonstrating illnesses associated with people who have passed the half century.

    When I have been asked by a potential sexual partner for my age, I reply that my age does not determine my aptitude for a healthy sexual encounter.

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    i think honesty is more attractive. don't conceal what you think should be hidden, it just makes you look insecure.


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    ^Yeah, revealing age can be quite bad in business world, where age can be a strong determinant of your employment. Still, age concealing in casual situations is uncommon for men---to me, they're just mere numbers. Perhaps it's just me
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    You know, I used to think you were beyond 50
    *squeals in maturity*
    come now, my child. if we were planning to harm you, do you think
    we'd be lurking here beside the path in the darkest part of the forest?

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    We would be deceiving ourselves were we to ignore the reality that the so called gay scene is youth orientated, leading me to believe that appearance is all important.

    A quick glance at the numbers viewing the porn galleries, or the celebrity forum indicates that intelligent discussion is not the primary reason for the existence of this site.

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    Re: Men concealing their age

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    We would be deceiving ourselves were we to ignore the reality that the so called gay scene is youth orientated, leading me to believe that appearance is all important.

    A quick glance at the numbers viewing the porn galleries, or the celebrity forum indicates that intelligent discussion is not the primary reason for the existence of this site.
    Really?





    I have to agree with some of my fellow members here about age as a number.

    I was told by this "kid" 19/20 the other day that the shirt that I was wearing wasn't appropriate for my age.

    I was wearing an Abercrombie & Fitch t-shirt that was given to me as a gift by a guy friend who's 26.

    I'm not completely an Abercrombie & Fitch model, and the shirt fits me really well, and friends of mine tell me that I look great in it.

    Now if I had a complete head of grey hair, and looked like a 10lb bag of potatoes stuffed into a 5lb bag he might have had a point.

    When asked my age my first response is typically, "old enough to know better, but still young enough not to care."

    Most "men" in the 20's are proud to be in their 20's so that don't mind telling anyone.

    After 30?

    Well even some of those hot guys that I know in their 20's think that they're 30th birthday is "over the hill."

    When I tell those "kids" again 19/20 that I'm old enough to be their father, well unless their into "Daddy Figures" that's when the conversation, discussion, and in some cases any interest on their part ends.

    Which is sad because I'm not some "dirty old perve" interested in having sex with every 20 something that I meet.

    It just seems like if you're not 30 or younger, some of us don't even get the time of day anymore.

    So for me age is just a number, and so long as you continue to take care of yourself mentally, physically, and spiritually I'm sure that there's something that I can find attractive about you.

    But to tell you my real age?

    Really how attractive is it to hear, "You look really good for your age," with that being the caveat expression as they walk away?

    IOW I am attractive enough for you to come up and talk to me, so why are you walking away now that you know my birth age?

    So it may not be so much an attempt to "conceal" but rather a defense mechanism.
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    Re: Men concealing their age

    Quote Originally Posted by Hard-up1 View Post
    Respectfully, this seems inconsistent. Now, why is it you want to be appealing to a young person who is automatically dismissive of someone over 30? Over 40?
    That's a damned good question.

    I guess in reality I don't.

    When I look in the mirror I see a much more attractive "physical" person than I saw when I was in my 20's.

    Sometimes I look in the mirror and ask myself, who's that old guy?

    For a guy "my age" I'm still considered attractive by a lot of guys; both younger, my age, and older.

    So it's not that I want to be appealing to shallow individuals; younger or of any age for that matter.

    Those aren't the types of people that I would even want as friends to be honest.

    What happened to keeping fit spiritually and mentally? Is disregard for mature people fit?
    I wouldn't think so.

    For me, I am attracted to people for many things, and I don't have the prerequisites of being healthy physically, spiritually, and mentally. Health is a luxury, not a requirement. Age will teach all of us that over time, else our partners will jettison us when we grow ill in any of those dimensions, no?
    Which despite how hard we or they might try, age isn't something that we can hide indefinitely.

    For example, there's a difference between someone suspecting that you're Gay and their knowing that you're gay.

    Just like there's a difference in someone thinking that you're in your 40's, and knowing just how close you are to 50, or 60, or 70, or whatever.

    I have a female bestfriend who I've known for more than 20 years now. To this day I honestly don't know how old she is in birth years.

    I've got an idea, but I could still be off by as many as 20 years.

    Seriously!

    Do I find her any less attractive because of that?

    Is she any less of a friend to me?

    The answer is no on all accounts.

    Youth is fleeting, and always will be.

    I don't tell people my age for the same reason why I'm selective about who truly knows that I'm Gay.

    Both have been used as reasons to discriminate against me, and unless they have any true or honest reason to know, it's none of their business.
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    Admitting your real age to someone else is an admission of your real age to yourself, and a lot of people don't like to do that.

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    I use botox to conceal my age. I like the statue-esque frozen in time look

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    I'm 27. Couldn't be arsed to care enough about peoples' thoughts on that.

    If you care that much, it's time for a change in how you handle yourself.
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    Fuck them all, if they can't take the truth.....

    Age is just a number.....

    I am 48, and I earned every one of those years!

    I probably just alienated half-the JUB populace, who don't speak to any gay man over age 30.

    Their loss.....

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    Re: Men concealing their age

    A lot of men in the gay world conceal their age because age bias is so rampant in the gay world...like it's some badge of honor to be under 30 and a badge of disdain to be over 30. Nowhere, except in the gay world, is the first thing said after "Hello" is "how old are you?". No group of people are as hung up about age as gays and that's a sad testimony to a group that cries for tolerance and equality.

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    Well I'm 70 and have no problem revealing my age!

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    This reminds me, I've got to get another box of Just For Men.

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    I think it's understandable that some guys do it, but it's unfortunate that they feel they have to.

    Excellent point, Naughty Arousal!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Orlandude View Post
    A lot of men in the gay world conceal their age because age bias is so rampant in the gay world...like it's some badge of honor to be under 30 and a badge of disdain to be over 30. Nowhere, except in the gay world, is the first thing said after "Hello" is "how old are you?". No group of people are as hung up about age as gays and that's a sad testimony to a group that cries for tolerance and equality.
    dear Orlandude,

    I am 55 and I am living in The Netherlands. I don't hide my age and I also don't hide that I am gay. I feel very sorry that you have suffered so much problems with age, whilst making contacts with other gays. I don't have this problems, and I am somehow sceptic if your views (as expressed above) are real and valid for all gays.

    I have no idea about your age (no need to tell us if you don't like), and I also have no idea how and where you meet other gays (your profile indicates that you are "Out at home, in the closet at work.")?

    Any idea if there are other gays at your work, and any idea how these guys will treat you (when they will find out that you are gay as well)?

    I tend to think that you are somehow struggeling with this 'problem'. Any plans to be out at work? Any idea of one of your straight work-mates might have a gay brother?

    Are you sure this 'age-problem' is as well the case in any 'gay-group' (can be anything, from a hiking group, a local queer group, etc) in and around Orlando?

    Best wishes, and feel free to react.
    I am Dutch, so please excuse me for my low level of English.

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    Quote Originally Posted by altlover85 View Post
    I think it's understandable that some guys do it, but it's unfortunate that they feel they have to.

    Excellent point, Naughty Arousal!
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    i suck at guessing someones age by appearance. so i take what i am told. lie to me about your age. i don't care. as long as its not illegal and will get me put in jail. i am 32 by the way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by freefall View Post
    How about you? Do you know any man or guy who refuses to disclose their actual age?
    I must confess that I have been concealing my age. I am not 24 like my profile indicates, but just turned 21. I was born in 1990.

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    con < plus a man plus a wipe asshole ans discova OY parkin meter DUDE!!
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    Maybe he is attracted to you and want to be your boyfriend, yes ?


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    Anybody can see that I'm old, and worn out. No use in me hiding, or lying about my age...

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    im 21 and some people tell me that i look older. ever since i was 19 people have been ell me that i look older. kinda bothers me. but im 21 and working out. so i'll look my age. ^_^

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hard-up1 View Post
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    Haha! Yup!

    I'm sorry for the confusion.

    Excellent post WagWag!

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    Well, I am 42.. I think when I was younger I always worried about getting older... But so far all that worry has been for nothing. I am better off now, than I ever was and I hope that trend continues for many many years to come.

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    Ageism is not exclusively inimical to the older male. How often is it assumed that the young are lazy and incompetent? How often is it assumed that the young value excessive inebriation and nights out hooking up over sustaining their responsibilities and forming legitimate relationships? How often is it assumed that the young are narcissistic, immature, and incapable of showing respect?

    Yes, there are the young who carelessly dismiss the aged, but there are also the aged who thoughtlessly dismiss the young. Ageism is indeed parochial, but many people seem to forget that it goes both ways; I know this from experience, but I will never hide (nor apologise for) my age. Nobody should.

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    A lot of people even on here hide their age. At least they don't mention it in their profiles. And they should! I also don't like it when people hide or lie about their age. I don't care if you are older, just tell me if I ask! XD
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    I just don't feel like age should be an issue. I've always been the youngest in my group of friends (having graduated high school at 16 and college at 19). When an older guy tells me his age it isn't an automatic turn off. . .just don't be creepy about it. Age is just a number in my mind.

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    Well, I guess the fact that I am getting older creeps me out. Hence, I don't like to review my age. I am 20 by the way.

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    Well, I used to worry about my age. But then I realized that I am in fact aging better than a LOT of my younger friends (who are married, btw) and am generally in great shape. So I wear my years with pride, as I wear them WELL. 47 now, and damn proud of it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ronboy View Post
    I probably just alienated half-the JUB populace, who don't speak to any gay man over age 30.
    You remind me of a friend of mine. She has this weird thing that men look best before the age 25. Once they pass 25, not matter how handsome or attractive they are, they go dim before her eyes. Dreadfulness...

    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    Maybe he is attracted to you and want to be your boyfriend, yes ?
    He looked around 35 and was apparently still single with no indication of having a relationship with a girl (I know it from the way he told his routine ). And he only wanted to speak with me (the other guys and girls tried to talk with him but he always returned to me). To be honest, I think he is gay and you may have a point

    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    I really don't see why people should mention there age if they don't want to,
    Not that it's not allowed; it's just weird coming from a man.
    come now, my child. if we were planning to harm you, do you think
    we'd be lurking here beside the path in the darkest part of the forest?

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    Quote Originally Posted by glasvegas View Post
    Well, I guess the fact that I am getting older creeps me out. Hence, I don't like to review my age. I am 20 by the way.
    You're still young at 20.

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    I've had the opposite problem. I usually have to convince people I'm older than I look or come across. It's not that I'm immature or anything but the majority of company I keep is older and I have to fight against being discounted for always being the younger one. Incidentally I'm 27.
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    Quote Originally Posted by evilest View Post
    I've had the opposite problem. I usually have to convince people I'm older than I look or come across. It's not that I'm immature or anything but the majority of company I keep is older and I have to fight against being discounted for always being the younger one. Incidentally I'm 27.
    I used to pass for 18 at 27..... I matured very slowly and hated it.

    But I love it NOW!!

    Enjoy it, you'll age well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    I really don't see why people should mention there age if they don't want to,
    In real life? I mean, it can depend on the context, but if someone is genuinely asking in a normal way then I see no reason why not to say it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by evilest View Post
    I've had the opposite problem. I usually have to convince people I'm older than I look or come across. It's not that I'm immature or anything but the majority of company I keep is older and I have to fight against being discounted for always being the younger one. Incidentally I'm 27.
    One of my lecturer has the same problem. Currently he's in his late 40s but people always assume he's a bit older than 30. To many people, this wouldn't be a problem. but usually younger doctors or lecturers are underestimated, so he doesn't like it. He usually wears a blank spectacles to create the impression he's old.
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    Quote Originally Posted by evilest View Post
    I've had the opposite problem. I usually have to convince people I'm older than I look or come across. It's not that I'm immature or anything but the majority of company I keep is older and I have to fight against being discounted for always being the younger one. Incidentally I'm 27.
    I've got the same problem. Being a twenty year old chef is not easy in a field where a common misconception is that more years make you a better cook. So not true!

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    when u walk in a club does everyone have their age tattooed on their forehead? wouldnt it be horrific if someone actually found someone attractive outside of their concrete age of acceptable dating potentials - omg what if they were actually 10 years older than you could possible fathom and yet you couldnt take your eyes off of them - shoot yourself - go ahead just kill yourself - you actually judged someone on their attractiveness as oppossed to your preconcieved foolish little notions...

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    I don't care who knows my age ... 52.

    I expect some people think I am a few years younger and some people think I am several years older ... so I guess I look about 52.

    Age is one of the least bothersome life-issues for me.

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    I really don't get it if anyone wants to conceal their age. For girls they tend to mind a lot when they don't look their age or get told they look old. But I thought that for guys it was the other way round? The older the guy the hotter Some of my friends always gets so sensitive when we talk about age + dating.

    It's kinda annoying when they can only see themselves dating someone their age or just one year of difference. then they judge you when you don't feel the same way.

    This is why you have so many silly high school dramas when you only limit yourself to dating someone your age

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    Quote Originally Posted by tombastep View Post
    I don't think being hung up on age is that exclusive to gays. I have friends of mine around my age who get hung up on it. My best friends g/f tends to comment on age difference, even when it comes to a difference that I tend to think is relatively small. Like 20-30.
    It most certainly isn't limited to gays, for sure. Has no one heard of a midlife crisis? Has no one SEEN a midlife crisis? When your overweight 54 year old boss starts gelling his hair and gets a ferrari and starts going on joyrides? It's embarrassing. But it's normal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    It most certainly isn't limited to gays, for sure. Has no one heard of a midlife crisis? Has no one SEEN a midlife crisis? When your overweight 54 year old boss starts gelling his hair and gets a ferrari and starts going on joyrides? It's embarrassing. But it's normal.
    May I have a ride in your ferrari?
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    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    May I have a ride in your ferrari?
    In 20 years sure.

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    I am proud of my age...55...no effort at all to conceal a thing. I earned it.

    One more thing...I hear alot of people say that life is over after 30 when you are gay and someone needs to call that what it is...a complete load of crap.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eastofeden View Post
    I am proud of my age...55...no effort at all to conceal a thing. I earned it.

    One more thing...I hear alot of people say that life is over after 30 when you are gay and someone needs to call that what it is...a complete load of crap.
    I know it can't be true for me because I didn't have a life before 30 either!

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    I know it can't be true for me because I didn't have a life before 30 either!
    Me too haha and I am 22. My friends are telling me to get laid now/ go to a random gay club and pick a guy or I will be single for eternity.

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    I have no problem telling my age, though I do have a problem being my age. As for life being over at 30, I have no idea how that works out for most people. Never had a life before 30, and haven't had one since either...

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    Quote Originally Posted by freefall View Post
    I find it really weird for men not to tell their age. Not accusing women to be not confident about aging, but it's just that women usually conceal their age, not men.

    But two weeks ago, when I was interviewing a man whose mother was a patient, it became a strange experience.

    Me: "Your age, Sir?"
    Him: "I'm old."
    Me: "How old?"
    Him: *chuckles* "You need not know."
    Me: "I have to. I need to make a pedigree."
    Him: *chuckles again* "All you need to know is I'm definitely older than you."
    Me: *frowns*

    For me it's weird. A man, afraid to let people know him age? Puzzling

    How about you? Do you know any man or guy who refuses to disclose their actual age?
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    Quote Originally Posted by freefall View Post
    I find it really weird for men not to tell their age. Not accusing women to be not confident about aging, but it's just that women usually conceal their age, not men.

    But two weeks ago, when I was interviewing a man whose mother was a patient, it became a strange experience.

    Me: "Your age, Sir?"
    Him: "I'm old."
    Me: "How old?"
    Him: *chuckles* "You need not know."
    Me: "I have to. I need to make a pedigree."
    Him: *chuckles again* "All you need to know is I'm definitely older than you."
    Me: *frowns*

    For me it's weird. A man, afraid to let people know him age? Puzzling

    How about you? Do you know any man or guy who refuses to disclose their actual age?
    Seems like he's not even willing to tell his age for the benefit of his mom (if that was the case)?

    And pardon my ignorance, but why do you need to know the exact age to do a pedigree? Isn't it just a family tree?

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