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    Re: letters To Your Younger Self.

    Don't stop practicing the piano an hour each day because you're exhausted from swimming three. You can do both. You're never going to be either Aldo Ciccolino or Matt Biondi and you're not going to make either Carnegie Hall or the Olympics, but playing an instrument for the rest of your life will bring you greater pleasure than seeing a few trophies sitting in your old room at your parents' house.

    Forget being embarrassed. Speak French and Italian every opportunity you get, and continue the Brazilian Portuguese class that you're going to drop after two months. For that matter, vow to learn a new language every five years and do it!

    Don't wait so long to get to Hawaii. Be serious about surfing for six months, but six months only.

    Make as much money as you can as quickly as you can. Hire an accountant you trust the first time you get a serious job.

    Don't do favors for rich people unless you're certain of the reward.

    Contain your anger at your parents, brothers and your (eventual) partner. It rarely makes anything better and is a waste of precious time.

    You prefer men. Admit it to yourself. You may not know it now, but soon enough you'll be happy you prefer men.

    Buy Apple when it first occurs to you. Forget what your (eventual) partner thinks.
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    I already wrote a note to my pre-1985 self, covering the years of high school and undergraduate.

    To my post-1985 self...
    -Vincent is gone, but it's not your fault. You tried to tell him to stay home that night. Fuckin' icy curve in the road...
    -Do anything but don't go into teaching. It's fun now, but there are dangerous curves in the road ahead...
    -Don't start hanging out at adult book stores and being a total cum slut for any half-way decent looking guy who smiles at you. -Don't turn yourself into a sex pig.
    -Don't get involved with Gary from Virginia. he may be handsome, and have a huge cock, but it's not worth it....


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    Additionally:

    Don't ever get fucked without a condom, no matter that you think he's the hottest guy you've ever met. There will always be other "hottest guys you've ever met", and in the meantime you'll have saved yourself a lot of anxiety.

    Go ahead and do the porno you'll be thinking about doing in a few years, when you're in your early twenties. You have no idea how much the world will change by time you're in your thirties. No one will really care, and if they do, they'll write it off as a youthful indiscretion.

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    Dear Young Bill,

    You did good my friend. You left that small town and went to college clear across the country all by yourself at only 17. You weren't away from home 2 days that you met the man of your dreams and pursued him at all cost to make him yours for life and succeeded. You should have gone a little easier on the drugs and partying but you grew out of it and moved on with your man. You will find the two of you have a great life ahead of you filled with the love of each other and that of family and friends. Be prepared, you are going to see alot of this world by the time your 50, enjoy the travels. If I could tell you what to change that would be easy, nothing.

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    Dear younger self: Try to put yourself first a little more often. I know you feel like you're supposed to help everyone. But, sadly you won't receive the same support that you've given so freely. Just try to be a bit more assertive and take care of yourself a bit more.

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    Dear 13-year old Brian,

    No matter what they say to you or about you, no matter what they do to you -- believe in YOURSELF. Speak up for yourself. FIGHT for yourself. Let your voice be heard. There's no need to be afraid of them or their threats -- they have no power over you. Tell your parents what they're doing to you. Tell your teachers. Tell anyone who will listen. You have nothing to be ashamed of. "Faggot" is just a word, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with you for being gay. There's something wrong with them for treating another human being so horribly. Your life has value and you have a lot to offer the world.

    There's no need to isolate yourself out of fear. Go out & have fun. Socialize. Be a teenager.
    Don't keep potential guy friends at arms length, because of what other kids might say about them for hanging around you. You don't have to try to protect them.

    And, whatever you do, when J.B. tries to get closer to you -- LET HIM!!! That boy has a secret you don't know yet. Otherwise, when you're 40, you'll still deeply regret that you missed your chance with him.

    Love,
    Yourself in 27 years
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    (Thank you for this thread, BENDERBOY. Writing that was very cathartic.)

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    dear 14 year old self

    what the fuck are you thinking talking about quitting masturbation for? ARE YOU CRAZY? you better fuck that bed like there's no tomorrow or i'll fuck you up. there's way too much porn material to say you quit. you may feel dirty but something so wrong feels SO right because it is right and was never wrong to begin with.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Dear Ram,

    There is this website called JUB. Don't join it.

    Regards
    Ram

    P.S. there is a creature called Lil Bit. Learn to hate it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    This topic has probably been done before, but then what hasn't.

    What advice would you give to your younger self if you could from the age you are now. my advice to my younger self, even though i'm only 21 now would have been don't waste the beginning of your teenage years anguishing over what peoples reactions to you being gay would be, because your true friends stay your true friends and your parents, always suspected and were ultimately happy that you were happy with who you were. now what about you guys.
    You are only 21?
    wow, i thought you are much more mature than that.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    You are only 21?
    wow, i thought you are much more mature than that.
    1st, read the date
    2nd, age and maturity have no relation

    =======

    Dear younger self;

    Don't change the way you are because of what other people or society think. Be who you are and love the fuck out of it.

    Signed,
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    Dear eight year old self.

    Take dad's gun, kill your parents and siblings. Go live with the wolves.

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    82 posts isn't bad.
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    He really did love you,and you should have realized it before he died.It will be so hard to love another.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    Can someone explain to me why this isn't this a hit thread again?
    Maybe some were afraid to get too deep by replying. But I think it was a brilliant idea for a topic. Thanks again, Bendy!

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    Dear younger self,

    Stop being Republican.

    kthxbye,

    Current Self.

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    Just come out of the closet.

    Put yourself out there some, when you do come out of the closet.

    Don't go to Syracuse... go to Ole Miss.

    Stop pining after straight boys.

    Stop listening to Travis. Their music sucks bro.

    Don't buy any more cargo shorts, beanies, or walmart shirts.

    Don't get so concerned with achieving what your family wants for you.

    Start drinkin' some.

    Ger more iron in your diet.

    Start drawing more.

    Keep playing sports.

    DON'T EVER FUCKING TOUCH A CIGARETTE
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    Dearest Liam,

    Don't start smoking. Aside from that, do it all; do everything; do everyone. Enjoy. I'll see you in a few years.

    All the best,
    Liam

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    Give a man religion, and he'll starve praying for a fish.

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    EXP=10 ten

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    Hi Danny,
    I know you hate being called that, it makes you feel like a little boy, but one day you are going to fall in love and he is going to call you Danny. You're going to love it.
    I wish I could tell you that your fears won't be realized, but some of them will, sadly. I wish I could tell you to take down those walls you put up between yourself and others, but I think you needed them at that time.
    You know how your spine always turns rigid when someone yells at you? Or how you refuse to let anyone see you cry when they hit you? I wish you could know that is just you being strong the only way you know how.
    Do you remember when the neighbor, old Mrs. Jacobson, asked you why you were always singing? She told you that you had no reason to be happy because of the kind of people you came from. I've got news for you, little one, one day you are going to sing to your own babies. Can you believe it??
    Though you may not understand this now, I would not change anything about your life and growing up. I know it is hard and painful,
    but stay strong and hold on until you get away from home and you will find out that you don't need those walls anymore with the real friends in your life and that you won't need to hide those tears because those friends will share them with you as you will share theirs. And remember that anyone can sing when the sun's shining bright, but you need a song in your heart at night.

    One more thing, my little hormone soaked young self---you know how when you try to imagine sex with a boy, you think it is just two guys getting together and jacking off, and that's it? Boy, have you got a lot to learn! One day, when you are 19, and so in love with this exotic Greek boy, instead of humping your pillow, you are going to lie naked on him, hardness against hardness, and experience something beyond imagining...and all because of love.

    I know you often hate yourself now, but that will soon change. Trust me.

    I love you. Dan
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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothershyguy View Post
    1st, read the date
    2nd, age and maturity have no relation

    =======

    Dear younger self;

    Don't change the way you are because of what other people or society think. Be who you are and love the fuck out of it.

    Signed,
    a happy Matt
    umm young play stupid games.
    Mature age doesn't play much games anymore ...


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    Hey there Big D

    So...

    Listen, kid, if you don't even back yourself to get it done, there's no way you'll convince anyone else to back you. But that ties in with actually getting it done, so quit fucking around and finish the sodding thing already. And then, when you start doubting yourself down the line with other things, you can look back at it and say "but I got that one done and done well, so I can do this one too. And I can do it even better." But you've got to get the first one done, and properly, so get to it.

    While I'm at it, you'll regret not travelling. Sure, you can do it later. But you can do it now and do it again later and see what's changed, or you could do it now and do somewhere else later. Trust me on this, take a year out and see something else of the world and learn about yourself the way that a change of circumstances will bring about. You're strong enough to get yourself back into things if you take a bit of time out, so take the time out. You won't be able to later, because circumstances will change and you'll have other duties which you need to honour.

    And lastly, kid, do us both a favour and get into shape. No, it's not bad at the moment, but it's not great. And it's much easier to stay the same shape than change it. Believe me, you'll look the same in 20 years' time if you don't get on your bike and sort this out for us.

    One more thing - it'll all turn out okay in the end, okay? So start living already.

    cheers
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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    umm young play stupid games.
    Mature age doesn't play much games anymore ...
    I play stupid games. And I would put it to you that you sir, play stupid games.

    And just to stay on topic.

    Youger self, I know you don't really care what people think of you so... Good guns mate, it's serving us well
    You show courage the brave dream of

    Gallop on my old warhorse

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    I'd want to give a letter to myself and my father. Me to not give up going to the swimming lessons three times a week to play sodding video games, I won a Junior Olympics freestyle event once, if I stuck with it who knows where I could be now, I'd give one to my father to make sure he'd never let me play computer games. That does counterbalance though, as without the video games I'd have never gone into the area of experise I am in.

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    early teenage me: it gets better (cliché of clichés by now, but its true.)
    early 20es me: yeah, this is all well and good, but a) get a job, b) dont spend all your money, and c) think seriously about your career.

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    Get out a bit more. Don't let people get you down. Be happy and don't lose touch with your friends.

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    Dear Younger self...

    You know those guys with the crazy eyes? AVOID THEM!

    When you meet the mass murderer...keep your mouth shut. Really. Pretend you don't sense anything is wrong with him and dont' try to warn anyone about him because it will be a complete waste of time. It really IS awful that people are so swayed by appearances but it isn't your problem so dont' worry about it.

    STOP with the Ronald Reagan hate fest. It will take up way too much of your time and energy and you are going to embarrass yourself badly...there are much easier ways to learn that particular life lesson.

    Don't smoke...really...just stop it now.

    When you hear OJ Simpson's name outside of football...turn off the TV and dont' turn it back on again for at least two years. If they talk about it on the radio...change the channel...if you read about it in the paper...skip that article.

    One day someone is gonna ask for a volunteer to pour 7 Up at a Kung Fu exhibition..do NOT...I repeat...do NOT raise your hand and volunteer even when you know the alternative is shoveling shit off the beach in the blazing sun all day.

    Don't kick the cop in the balls...you will regret it.

    Oh yeah..when you are offered calamari the first time..take it.

    (PS...Good Luck with G...it might seem like you are in hell but trust me...it is a necessary evil and you dodged a much bigger bullet)

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    ^Gosh.

    Details please! It sounds like your life was as interesting as a barrel full of monkeys high on crack.

    -d-

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    Quote Originally Posted by blackbeltninja View Post
    ^Gosh.

    Details please! It sounds like your life was as interesting as a barrel full of monkeys high on crack.

    -d-
    LOL....ahhh...the details....there are so many....

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    Your friends are not your friends. They are destroying you, and you are letting them. Don't spend another Friday night hoping they'll return your calls. They wont. And you'll have to sit there again on Monday morning listening as they reminisce about their weekend together. Don't do this to yourself. It's not that you're a terrible person, or a terrible friend, or that you lack wit and charisma; they're just not right for you. Stop trying to force it, and stop hating yourself for failing. Let them go. You will be better for it, I assure you.

    In the future, you will be surrounded by people who love you, but you'll still feel like an outsider; like you don't belong. These people you call friends will scar you, and it's going to take a lot of work to move past it all. Get out now. Get out before you lose what's left of your self-confidence. Your intuition is strong, so fucking listen to it. You will be better off alone than with these people who make you feel worthless. It may seem daunting, but you wont be alone forever. You will be loved, and I want for you to be able to appreciate that love instead of doubting it.

    Get out. Trust me. Just get. Out.



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    Dear Younger Me,

    Try not to stress too much, everything isnt as serious as you can make it out to be.
    Spend more time with the people that you love. They will not always be here.
    Value yourself. You're great! Only surround yourself with people that appreciate and respect you.
    Be more paitient with yourself and others.
    Listen more.
    Stick up for yourself.
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    Don't start smoking.

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    Dear younger me,

    Don't listen to what society tries to pound into your head. You like boys. That's just how it is. ACT on it, despite your crippling fears of rejection and being thrown out of your family. You could not be more wrong. Don't wait until you are 45 to finally break and come out. You will have missed the best time of your life.... your youth.

    You know, that guy you go swimming with that's so friendly to you? He's trying to tell you. Take the hint, you idiot!

    Don't fall in love with that guy at your first job. It seems wonderful at first, but will nearly destroy you later. Find a gay boy instead, stick to your job even though it sometimes sucks and get that 401K. Buy Apple and Microsoft stock when you have the chance. Retire at 45 and do something else you love.

    And next months winning lotto numbers are........

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    Dear Young Lex,

    Good news. It all works out.

    Love, Old Lex

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    To a much, much younger me.

    Dear Gar, a few words of advice, how ever bad things seem, don't ever sell any of your guitars just to pay a few pathetic bills.

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    dear younger self

    you should have beat up, stomped out, robbed or terrorized whoever you wanted to terrorize when you were a juvenile. that way you would have no regrets now because your record would be expunged. then you wouldn't have so much built in frustration and hostility right now where you're at the fringe of whipping somebody's ass if you get mad.


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    To whom it may concern,

    Love, happiness, and acceptance is paramount.

    Yours truly,

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    To my younger self,

    Realize that just because you are genetically related to someone, it doesn't mean that you have to love and respect them unquestioningly: these things have to be earned, and you shouldn't give them without expecting nothing in return... Also, do not take in people's emotional detritus. They are THEIR own issues and there's no reason why they should use you as an emotional toilet. Let them deal with them on their own. You don't have the obligation to be anyone's saviour.

    Try to cultivate a better, more balanced relationship with your mother and your brother - after all, they are the only two people in life who truly love you, and deserve your love in return. Do not take them for granted so often and do not resent them so much. They may be older, but they are doing what they can given their circumstances. Treat them with the care, love and consideration that they respect at all times, cooperate more with them, and you will all be happier.

    Sever all ties with your father much sooner than you will do and remember that violence is not acceptable in any way. He may be a bastard and I know that you want to murder him, but constantly insulting, hitting, spitting, kicking, punching and trying to bash each other's brains in won't lead you anywhere but prison. If he tries to assault you again, do not get hold of any blunt or sharp objects: just call the police. Remember to tell the same things to your brother, because he is even more hot tempered than you are and the piece of shit you have for a father isn't worth ruining your lives over, nor is it fair to cause your mother so much suffering.

    Send the rest of the family to fuck off already, and ignore whatever stupidities they tell your mother on the phone. They are definitely not worth the time you'll waste being angry and upset.

    Concentrate much more on your studies and do not be so overconfident. You'll reach a point where commitment and discipline will be necessary much sooner than you think, and the anxiety you will feel over these issues once you reach university could have been avoided with a bit of constancy every day.

    Be a bit more selfish with others and try not to be so solicitous and generous - I know you think that you are evil and that people will dislike you instantly, but overcompensating won't really help you to overcome these feelings. Only therapy will. Also, remember that believing in God and feeling guilty over everything are two different things, and that a morbid sense of duty and martyrdom are not healthy things. Oh, and if anyone tries to take advantage of you, send them off. You deserve better and if they don't respect you, the don't love you.

    Enjoy life more, love yourself much more and don't take things so personally - there are far more important issues than the ones you're facing now, and they will all bring happiness into your life.

    Sincerely,

    Your older, wiser Self.

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    Dear younger self;

    Don't worry about what other people think of you. What you think, what your friends think, what your family thinks, and what all of your other loved ones think is much more important. If someone doesn't like who you are, then too bad for them. You are a good person, and you should do good things. Treat everyone with respect and it will be reciprocated. If you falter, they won't.

    Sincerely with much love,
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    Dear Bronzeboy,

    No you are not crazy tho you do get misinterpreted alot stick to what you believe but dont be afraid to have sn open mind. People hate, people love, it is all apart life. Accept yourself for who you are. The quicker you can the stronger you get. Spend more time with your parents for they are loving, and they accept you no matter who you are and what you become. Stop Smoking. Work on you bball game, you never no how far you could have gone if you had better stamina. Continue to do the heroic and stand for what you believe in. Take a close look at you friends, you have great ones who will accept you no matter what and if not to hell with them.

    Love, Bronzeman
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    dear p

    keep masturbating. fuck going on a jerk off strike. masturbating is natural. don't ever keep yourself from yourself.

    thank you, p.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Among other things, I'd tell my 18 year old self not to date that girl. That was a hellish experience. Not only because I was living in denial that I was gay, but also because she was a psycho controlling bitch!
    (I managed to get rid of her though. I didn't have the heart to straight up dump her, so I just acted like a bit of an asshole, which I also feel bad about doing.)
    Oh well, at least there were some good times in that experience. Also, I'm glad to say that I'm still a gold star gay!

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    Dear Chuck,

    Don't sweat the petty stuff, and pet a lot more of the sweaty stuff!

    And, Yeah! ... no matter what ...

    Keep smilin'!!
    Chaz
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    Time for an update.....

    To my post year 2000 self...
    -love Dave but don't give all of your heart to him...he doesn't deserve that much of you...
    -teaching is turning into a political fiasco...consider leaving and moving on to something else...
    -continue participating in Link Me All Over, you never know where it will lead to...
    -if you run into Clancy at your college reunion in 2005, proposition him (you know that you still want him...)
    -be strong for Dad, because he's going to need you to be strong...


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    Dear younger me -

    I just wanted to give you the following advice:

    1. In 2001, you should just tell him you like him.

    2. In 2004, you should accept the first offer that is made.

    3. In 2011, you should accept the second offer that is made.

    4. In 2012, the first division lottery numbers are [...]

    You're welcome.

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    The saddest are these, 'It might have been.'


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    Dear Pete.

    Whatever your shortfalls and whatever you will encounter in life they will strengthen you. You will cry a lot and a lot of your friends will die too early but grow from that and help others with the same illness cope. There will be a cure someday.

    love Pete




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    Dear Younger-me,

    Yes, you are gay and, yes, mom and dad are going to freak out exactly the way you're think they're going to freak out when you tell them, but still come out to them as you planned it (more or less) and the universe is going to align itself to force them and you to reconcile quickly and you'll all benefit from it.

    Apply to college immediately after high school and don't move to Phoenix with that douche bag you call your best friend... he'll drop you faster than a hooker drops her panties on payday once he realizes you're gay.

    Live on campus instead and when you get your first real roommates, tell them you're gay; you'll have nothing to lose from it.

    Ignore that little voice in your head that's telling you you're too fat to have a boyfriend. Go out to every bear and chubby chaser event you hear about and your dating card will be full with the kind of hotties you think you could never get.

    And finally lay off on the credit cards!!!

    Love Older me.

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    Dear 16 year old me,

    Write these down, or you'll forget, and they're important.....

    1-There's no such thing as a 'hot to ugly' scale, it's all about individual tastes and different 'types' of guy. Believe it or not, some people DO find you attractive, so don't be shy about hitting on the cute ones. They might actually like you too.
    2-You have your good points, and talents, and skills, so don't doubt yourself or do yourself down all the time. You are capable of making it in the world, and doing yourself proud.
    3-Don't ever date anyone who's name starts with N, as he will fuck up 5 years of your life, then cheat on you, and dump you.
    4-Canadians are hot and you're going to marry one.
    5-I know you're starting to come out to people as gay, but in fact, you're bisexual. That's right, you like girls too. Don't wait until you're 28 to realise that, just because you're struggling with the same-sex attraction part right now.
    6-Don't feel like you have to fit in: Being liked by people you don't care about, for being something you actually are not, is a waste of time. So forget Gender roles, school, popularity, all that crap. Just be yourself, and hang onto the real friends who love you for who and what you are (which is a kinky, weird, but hopefully decent, guy)

    Take care kid.

    Love, older you

    PS: Befriend a musician named Elliot Gleave, aka Example: he's hot, so get in good with him before he makes it big.
    Last edited by MarcForExample; February 24th, 2013 at 06:39 AM.

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    When I was in 6th grade, our social science teacher had us write ourselves a letter that we would get upon graduation. Well, I ended up graduating two years early, so it took over a decade later for me to receive mine. Lol ... my grammar was atrocious, but I actually did succeed in accomplishing what I'd set for myself back then. I did just read that again a couple of days ago, so this thread is somewhat serendipitous.

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    Younger self:

    Apply yourself more. Good doesn't have to be good enough.
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