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    Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    Domination and Submission is about the oldest kink/fetish there is, but it seems to be almost always about a dominant older man with a submissive younger man. But for me, I am so powerfully aroused by the thought of enjoying a submissive relationship for a dominant younger boy ("boy", of course, refers to legal age or above - for an older man like me, a young man of 18 - 25 or so is definitely a "boy").

    Most of my life I have felt like I was one of a kind - are there other men who relish the thought of being used and dominated by younger men? I would love to hear from other men who enjoy these fantasies, or who are able to experience them in reality.

    I would also greatly love to hear from young men who either enjoy fantasies of dominating an older man or who actually experience such a relationship!

    For me, personally, I prefer oral service -- I want to suck, lick, massage the body of my dominant Boy Master, bathe his whole body with my tongue, kiss and lick his feet -- but the kink is really the same no matter what kind of sex you enjoy.

    For me, there are two ways which make the fantasies even better -- if I can enjoy being the submissive sex slave for not just one boy, but a whole gang of horny boys! I love the party atmosphere where the boys share their submissive older sex toy with each other, watching, laughing, commenting on all the action, and just enjoying a whole party. The other turn-on for me is being watched while serving my boy or boys. If there are a whole gang of boys, they can all watch while I am serving any of them, but any other audience is all great -- somehow it intensifies the submission if there are witnesses to it watching it all.

    It even continues -- for the fantasy to reach fully intense orgasmic levels, it is best if the relationship is not just a one-off event, but an ongoing relationship, in which I enjoy regular submission to my boy, or gang of boys. It just gets better and better with every day's service! In some of my fantasies, I imagine being kept in some young men's basement all the time so that I can be used for their pleasure any time of the day or night they want it. Perhaps they might host frequent parties in which I am offered to any number of their friends to play with and to use for their pleasure.

    I have had occasional experiences that have come close, but my desire to serve a young Master (and his friends) so greatly outstrips any experience that I could never imagine being able to completely satisfy this desire!

    I wonder if I am not alone with these fantasies and desires, and if young men realize that there are, perhaps, lots of men like me who would like nothing better than the chance to offer unlimited and unconditional service to some young boy?

    Since I have started having these fantasies, the desire just gets more and more intense, and no other sexual fantasy really comes anywhere close to the kind of excitement I enjoy when dreaming about finding a boy who would want to own me as his personal sex slave, to use when and where he wishes, to share with his friends, without any limit, and forever.

    Now I need my towel!

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    I am in my sixties and you just made this old boy's cock as hard as it has ever been before!!! A dominant young boy (over 18, of course.....legal) and a guy my age would be sooooo hot. I need one of those boys!!!

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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    So rare to see this kind of stuff in the gay world. It's always the older guy dominating.

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    Precisely, GamerBear, that is what makes it so erotic!

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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    I have played with a 23 yo black guy who really enjoys dominating, using and abusing an older sub white guy like me... He really gets off on humiliating and degrading me and making me grovel and beg naked at his feet for permission to worship and service Him. Young and hella HUNG, He knows that He is in control and that I will do anything he wants to be his personal white pig. He is really creative and very confident as he teases and doles out reward and punishment His white sex slave scum. I am a lucky white pig bitch to be allowed permission to serve Him.

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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    Hi Beanstalk,

    After reading your words I can certainly understand where you are coming from. It definitely adds a new twist to this kind of fetish. So often it is the older male who does all the dominating. Most of the time this is done because he is presented as the master and the one who "knows more" when it comes to sexual expression.

    If I let my mind wander I feel the same way you do. Younger partners have a lot of built up energy they are looking to release and I know that they are always looking for new ways to release it.

    Thanks for starting this thread I am looking forward to what other JUB members have to say.

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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    Quote Originally Posted by careandrespect View Post
    Hi Beanstalk,

    After reading your words I can certainly understand where you are coming from. It definitely adds a new twist to this kind of fetish. So often it is the older male who does all the dominating. Most of the time this is done because he is presented as the master and the one who "knows more" when it comes to sexual expression.

    If I let my mind wander I feel the same way you do. Younger partners have a lot of built up energy they are looking to release and I know that they are always looking for new ways to release it.

    Thanks for starting this thread I am looking forward to what other JUB members have to say.
    Hey CARE...
    yessir, an older sub is more experienced, grateful and willing to obey, submit and be used to satisfy a younger DOM / MASTER who has more stamina. a lot of guys who say they are sub have fantasized, but not really done it enough, and freak on the reality of what it means to be a true, unquestioning sub. This is a frustration for any DOM, unless patience and training are part of the deal. If the DOM wants satisfying action and follow through, having a willing, experienced sub that knows what the deal is and is prepared roll with the punches and go with the flow to satisfy a REAL MAN is what will work for Him.

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    That is true. The one thing that will make such a situation more enjoyable for both partners is being open with each other and willing to share the thoughts and desires.

    Thanks for raising such a good point.

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    I have done this Im 23 and in shape. Im top. On the downlow. Met up with MANY Old guys like 50s and stuff 40s
    Im very picky as they gotta have a banging ass!! And in great shape. Just my luck too cause when I do them its some of the best sex Ive had. I Love dominating MUSCLE!

    However I stopped doing that with older guys man I been on a fuck binge for 3 months straight no lie I lost count how many pple I been fucking...with condom of course so IDK what to do now as I seem to have lost intrest in all men. Guys my age older in their 30s 40s great shape as Im not conceited just know what I want. But now I want to like I guess have an off season

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    Thanks for all the input. I guess I can't think of much to add from my point of view. But I would still love to hear from other young guys to hear what they think about it? Are there young guys who would get into this if only they realized how many older men want it so bad?

    Just spread your legs and let me devote myself to the joy of giving you all the pleasure I can manage to give you!

    Maybe that's why I like to suck so much -- I really like taking the active role: licking, massaging, sucking, and making love to my young boyfriend, while he just receives my expressions of devotion and love. Any young guys want this? I'm so hungry!

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    When I was single I could never find an older guy who wanted to be submissive some even told me to keep it that way cause the older guy was NOT suppose to be submissive but dominant.

    When I got with my partner I basically haven't really done anything with the whole submissive/dominant roles. Maybe some just have it easier than others.

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    Hi

    After reading GameBear's post I realized that sometimes relationships don't always have to have a dominant/submissive role to be successful. It is true that it can add a little excitement once in a while but it is not always required.

    I also think that sometimes these roles are not always fixed. I'll admit that there are days when I want to play the more dominant role and others when I want to be more submissive.

    Flexibility can add so much excitement for both partners when it comes to this topic.

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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    Quote Originally Posted by Joe06877 View Post
    I am in my sixties and you just made this old boy's cock as hard as it has ever been before!!! A dominant young boy (over 18, of course.....legal) and a guy my age would be sooooo hot. I need one of those boys!!!
    Is that you in your avatar? If so, damn I hope I'm as hot as you when I turn sixty.

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    Yes, Care, you are right -- it doesn't really matter to me whether a young guy wants his older man to be submissive or dominant -- I just want a younger guy, and I am totally happy to do whatever it takes. It is easy for me to be dominant -- that is my "natural" role anyway! I just remember when I was young, and I would love it when an older guy just wanted to give me pleasure, asking nothing in return but the chance of contact with me on any terms.

    But so many younger guys (at least the ones who are into older men) seem to be looking for a stern daddy figure to fuck them silly, order them around, take full charge of the relationship, and "force" the younger guy to serve as the vessel for the older man's pleasure, so I can get into playing that role. However, I usually can't hide the fact that I really just want to kiss their feet and bathe their whole body with my tongue! It is so much easier for me if I can find a young man who loves to be the center of attention all the time, and exclusively. The more a boy wants it, the more I enjoy giving it to him.

    I wish I could hear from more boys who like submissive men!

    And, Monkeydonkey, if that is really "you" in your avatar, I just love it -- smooth and slim turns me on every time! Yum

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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    Hi Beanstalk,

    You are speaking a great deal of truth.

    I like to think that not all younger guys want to be treated like an object. Maybe I dream too much but I feel the same way you do. The ultimate dream "reality" would be able to be very gentle with a younger partner and share time with him. Being able to caress and hold him in my arms is really where it is at. Being able to message and rub his smooth body and being able to offer him as much pleasure as I possible can.

    Spending time with him just listening to him and offering him the opportunity to share how he feels. Being able to just gaze into his eyes and hold his hands in mine is probably the best thing of all. Being able to learn from him and see him as a caring person who has feelings and emotions like me.

    I know I am getting of track, but your last post just made me think a lot more about what we are sharing in this thread. I feel most comfortable in saying that just being able to spend time with a younger partner is always rewarding.

    I just hope there are some younger guys out there who feel the way I do and want to go beyond the aggressive treatment and just share some gentle times together.

    Thanks for letting me share this with you.

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    This doesn't seem to happen very much - although there is every reason it should. There are legions of older guys out there who want to suck dick - and there must be loads of younger guys who woulnd't mind having someone at their beck and call to suck them off - but...

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    I think a lot of younger guys don't even realize how eager many of us are to suck them off or massage their bodies, or kiss their feet -- I remember times when I would be licking and sucking some cute boy, and he kept thinking he had to "return the favor" or something -- he couldn't seem to just relax and spread his legs and just enjoy my eager service for him! Whenever I find a boy who doesn't care at all about "returning any favors" and just wants me to suck him, that is the best for me! I just love it when a boy wants to enjoy my full attention on his precious young cock, and spreads his legs to enjoy my efforts without being distracted in any way by any thoughts of doing anything for me in return.

    What I want so much is to give as much pleasure as I possibly can to the boy I am with, so he can please me best by just letting me serve him -- and never mind how I want to do it -- I just want to serve him the way HE likes it best!

    It's not just the sex -- there is the emotional bond which excites me -- I just love being the submissive sex slave for a young, hot, hard, and horny boy! It is hard to explain or understand, but the more selfish a boy is, the more arousing it is to me, sexually.

    The boy doesn't even need to be "dominating" or anything else -- he just has to understand that my WHOLE pleasure is focused upon pleasing him and playing with his hard cock. As long as a boy understands that, and enjoys that, he can even be friendly and loving to me if he wants. I would just love to find a boy who would love a man like me whose whole sexual desire is to keep my young boy's hard cock at the center of both of our worlds, all the time! I want to marry a boy like that, and live with him happily ever after as his full time sex slave.

    That is just how I want to enjoy the sex with him -- apart from sex, we can enjoy a committed relationship, partners in business, loving each other. The point is that if a boy wants to express his love for me, he can do so best by using me exclusively for his sexual pleasure, all the time. I would just love that, and I need that. I need a boy to love and serve.

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    This is the ideal age-related sexual scenario. An in-shape older guy who bottoms for a boy, allowing the boy to do whatever he wants. There's no exploitation of the younger guy because he controls it.

    It's a generous and training situation. I wish I could find more porn of this kind, because I know a lot of guys like it. But the porn makers don't think so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chuck69 View Post
    This is the ideal age-related sexual scenario. An in-shape older guy who bottoms for a boy, allowing the boy to do whatever he wants. There's no exploitation of the younger guy because he controls it.

    It's a generous and training situation. I wish I could find more porn of this kind, because I know a lot of guys like it. But the porn makers don't think so.
    True man. I member this one guy 47 years old bangin body and He let me do whatever I wanted to him i was sex-starved that day too haha
    But I have an innocent looking face but inside I HUNGERED!
    Started SLow but then Just went at it so hard he loved it and exploded his cum in the bed

    I was um 18 at the time
    Muscle Sex is the best

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    Beanstalk - I certainly understand where you are coming from. Sometimes younger guys do have these feelings inside and sometimes they want to act upon them but they are still uncertain as to how to make the first step. Things such as uncertainty, anxiety as well as not knowing exactly what to say can sometimes stand in the way.

    I agree too, it does not even have to do with sex, I guess the biggest enjoyment is enjoying the company of a younger guy and being there with him. As they call it "sharing space" with him. That can bring so much pleasure.

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    It's my wildest fantasy, but it's never gonna happen. Younger men are not that interested in mature men. They have to be very self confident to dominate and abuse an older man. And usually it's the other way around.

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    I don't want to be abused -- I just want to give love to a younger man. He should love me, not abuse me! Why is there so much fantasy about abuse and forced sex and throat fucking a man while he gags and chokes? What ever happened to love? I just want a boy to love.

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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    Hey, im a 22 yr old bi dom from the UK

    I love the whole younger lad dominating an older man!
    love having my body massaged, licked, kissed... my feet being worshiped is a big thing for me, as for the older guy!

    as a dom i feel all i need to do is sit back, relax and get worshiped! sometimes watchin tv, playin xbox, chatin online while having my feet massaged and sucked on... but i do enjoy being tad more forceful and kinky with older guys too!

    I know one guy 44 who ive met a few times who loves being under my feet, nothing more nothing less, he just loves the fact he can get his hands (and tounge) on a young pair of feet

    and I know anouther man, hes 36, and is a complete gimp :P he loves being humilated, laughed at, verbally abused, pushed around, tied up, and just generally groveling at my feet... which i also find hot. I am comfortable financially and do not need older guys to give me money and spoil me, HOWEVER the 36 yr old loves buying me things, from games, to clothes and even a holiday once... which also turns me on, that an older man would spend money on me just to get a chance to serve me!

    For me I love the idea that an older guy will do anything to worship me, and be my slave! i enjoy younger guys n girls aswell... but tend to be kinkier with older "pervs" :P

    Just thought i would share!

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    Thank you, Princefeet! I was hoping to hear from guys like you! I wish I could find a few guys like you closer to me. I would be very happy to do whatever it is you enjoy -- whatever it takes in order to enjoy some contact with a young man who wants an older man; but, as for me it is not abuse that I enjoy, it is just the chance to give love and pleasure to a younger guy who enjoys it and wants it.

    Oh, yes! Sit back, relax, and let me worship you and kiss your feet -- that part suits me just fine. I sure wish there were more guys like you that would let an older man serve him.

    To me, it just seems that the "natural" thing is for the older man to serve the younger man! I don't really understand why it is almost always expected to be the other way around. Of course "sexually desirable" is entirely a subjective concept, but I have always thought that Youth was a pretty big component of what it means to be sexually desirable. So if some hot and beautiful young man will let me love him, there isn't much I wouldn't be willing to do to express my appreciation and joy for the chance to get some contact with his fresh young body.

    One more thing -- it is not only the age reversal that arouses me (older man serving younger man), but it also seems that it is the bigger and taller and heavier men that are dominant, while the short, slender ones are usually submissive. But, as for me, I not only love the younger men, but I even especially favor the ones with short, small, slender bodies, and even small cocks! Give me a smooth, young, 100 lb twink, and I am ready and eager to grovel at his feet and serve him in any way he can think of that will give him pleasure!

    Step right up! Please take a number; but the youngest, shortest, and slimmest (with smooth, effeminate bodies, and even long hair) please step up to the head of the line. No limit -- in fact, every time you return for more I will be even more excited to see you again, and will try to give you even more pleasure than the last time!

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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    Beanstalk I agree with you all the way. It is all based upon respect and from that mutual enjoyment can certainly develop.

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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    When i have been with gay men, they all seem more inclined to be submissive at any age. Would be nice to find my equal.

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    I think I saw a porno with two skinny twinks having sex with an older heavy hairy bearish looking guy. They were fucking him and shoving their dicks down his throat he was enjoying every moment of it.

    It's videos like that which turn me on the most seeing an older man give himself so the younger guy or guys can satisfy their needs.

    Don't see stuff like that now a days especially with younger and older videos. A recent one I saw was of an older guy fucking the younger dude it was hot, but after a while you kind of try to look for the opposite positions but never successful at finding such videos.

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    Well, if you do find such videos, post a link!

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    I'm pretty much a sub and into younger guys; never thought the two worlds could come together, but it would be amazingly hot if they did.

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    Just a thought:

    Sometimes I wonder if younger guys are apprehensive about approaching an "older" guy (30's or 40's) and discussing the possibility of beginning a relationship.

    Sometimes I feel as if though old guys look and go with older guys and the younger ones stay with their own type.

    Any opinions?

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    i actually had a six month relationship with a Dom who was 17 years younger than me. i was 42 and he was 25. He was not my usual type (small stature and build, sort of fem, age, etc). We met in a bar and started chatting while having a beer. It was a wonderful relationship that ended only because of real life logistics (new jobs in different cities).

    Our relationship took some fun turns. When we were out in the local leather bar, most assumed he was the sub because of his age and size. That always got me in trouble (he felt i was not showing my "position" well enough). It was an interesting change of rolls as i could mentor him in one moment, and be getting the belt in the next. One moment giving career advice, the next taking face fucking that made my jaw hurt for days!

    Overall, he was a beautiful man who i enjoyed my time with and the age difference just added a new level of fun.

    I currently serve, part time and non sexually, a man who is 12 years younger than me and that is fun too.
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    Re: Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

    Thank you ohioguy7711 for your comments. Sometimes I feel kind of funny opening up and discussing this topic. I am glad that this thread is active and many JUB members contribute.

    Thanks again for your contribution.

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    Quote Originally Posted by careandrespect View Post
    Just a thought:

    Sometimes I wonder if younger guys are apprehensive about approaching an "older" guy (30's or 40's) and discussing the possibility of beginning a relationship.

    Sometimes I feel as if though old guys look and go with older guys and the younger ones stay with their own type.

    Any opinions?
    Society sucks, so younger guys are probably more afraid to approach older men because they are afraid of what people will think if he starts dating or starting a relationship with an older guy.

    Some don't really care so they get with an older guy, but when I see most older men I'm attracted to, they seem kind of dominant so that would mean the relationship would make me submissive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GamerBear View Post
    Society sucks, so younger guys are probably more afraid to approach older men because they are afraid of what people will think if he starts dating or starting a relationship with an older guy.

    Some don't really care so they get with an older guy, but when I see most older men I'm attracted to, they seem kind of dominant so that would mean the relationship would make me submissive.
    Hi GameBear:

    A lot of what you say has so much truth in it. For myself, what it all boils down to is if two people of legal age (that is very important) are attracted to each other and they enjoy each other's company that should be it.

    However, as you have said in your comment society does not make things easy or simple. A good example would be if a man in his early 40's had a companion who was 18 or 19 most would consider him perverted for socializing with someone that young.

    In terms of the dom/sub issue that is secondary. The relationship and the close bonding that can take place comes first.

    Again, thanks so much for your words of wisdom they carry a great deal of truth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by careandrespect View Post
    Hi GameBear:

    A lot of what you say has so much truth in it. For myself, what it all boils down to is if two people of legal age (that is very important) are attracted to each other and they enjoy each other's company that should be it.

    However, as you have said in your comment society does not make things easy or simple. A good example would be if a man in his early 40's had a companion who was 18 or 19 most would consider him perverted for socializing with someone that young.

    In terms of the dom/sub issue that is secondary. The relationship and the close bonding that can take place comes first.

    Again, thanks so much for your words of wisdom they carry a great deal of truth.
    Thank you for the great post.

    I am not sure if I pointed out already, that sometimes older men usually pay younger guys to have sex with them. I can't believe that young guys do that kind of shit it's like a huge insult to young guys who do enjoy the company of older men and don't want to have to accept money to be an older man's friend.

    Most of my friends are older than me and are over 30+ years old. I don't understand why you see these shallow young gay men who go and say how disgusting it is to be with an older man I know when a person ages they can't be that skinny little young twink forever.

    They will get wrinkles, their cock will shrivel up and have a hard time staying hard, they will gain a little weight and have a hard time trying to get rid of it as compared to guys who can never gain weight at all. I'm always hearing older men say when you get older you tend to not care anymore about your own physical appearance but then when they chase after younger guys they get nothing but the silent treatment from them.

    What's the point of this post? Well in the end an old man shouldn't have to use money to bribe a younger guy to have sex with you or be your friend, money can't buy you happiness and if you have to pay for a younger guy for sex then maybe you're after the wrong guys...

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    Hi GamerBear:

    Thank you too for keeping this thread alive. When I found it a while back I was so grateful because it provided me with the opportunity to communicate with others who are on the same page as myself.

    You speak so much truth.

    First, I agree with you about your comment about older guys paying younger guys for companionship and other things. I agree with the fact that things such as this can lead many people to make false assumptions when they see an older guy with a younger one. We, no matter what our age should never have to pay someone else for companionship.

    Money can't buy love. I know for myself I would not want to pay someone to be my "friend". I would rather go solo instead.

    Outside of this the one thing which I really belive can be obtained from such a relationship is the opportunity to learn from each other and share each others stories. With this the things which can develop are being comfortable and willing to show each other true affection. The greatest reward

    Take care.

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    This thing about paying money is insidious. I have never paid for sex -- for me, the pleasure comes from giving pleasure to my partner, so if he only wants my money, there is nothing whatsoever of interest for me.

    But, on the other hand, there are so many beautiful young men out there, and so many men will offer them money, so after a while they just get used to it and expect it.

    It is like the street kids here: I live in the tropics in Southeast Asia, and everyone says not to give money to the little kids on the beach who are "selling bracelets" or something to earn money. Giving money to these kids just keeps them on the beach hustling money instead of going to school.

    But the problem is that the kid's father might earn $3 a day for a 10 hour day at hard labor, yet a little boy of 6 or 8 might make $15 on a good day at the beach, just chatting up the friendly tourists (not even any sex -- that's a whole different issue - these kids are definitely available for sex, but I don't think it happens much -- I certainly don't go there).

    It's the easy money that skews the picture. After a while, when a boy of 18 finds that every man who goes with him is happy to pay him lots of money, buy him a $400 cell phone or a laptop computer, then he just gets spoiled and expects every man to pay that way, and the prettier the boy, the more they expect it.

    But I also want to comment on old men aging! For some reason, I don't seem to age much (I think it is because I take care of my health, and don't take pharmaceutical drugs). While "fully mature," most people think I am 20 years younger than I am. I am still relatively slender, and my skin is still smooth. I ride a bicycle all the time for the exercise. Yet I am constantly looking at some young man's profile where he is looking for a man who is bald and fat and old looking. I have been rejected by young men who prefer older guys because I don't look old enough!

    I try so hard to keep in shape, and so it is depressing to see how many young guys are looking for a man who is overweight. I like my boys slender! What's this fascination with overweight older men??

    It is as bad as all these wonderful young men who only want to find "an aggressive top daddy who will fuck them silly." Sweet young men don't seem to have any interest in finding a man who just wants to give them love.

    But no one ever said it was easy loving young guys!

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    @Beanstalk

    I feel that young guys who might be thin and skinny might want the opposite, opposites attract. So if you find a really skinny twink chances are he might not be attracted to guys who look like him (thin) and might go for the older men who might fit the description of their opposite (bald or overweight).

    Take me for example, I'm young and overweight (over 200lbs) there is a bigger chance I will probably not be attractive to most older men like yourself. But everyone has their standards and preferences so finding a guy might be a bit difficult especially if that opposites attract thing is true for most guys out there.

    My boyfriend is also overweight but older, I lost a lot of weight but I am sure it would never be enough for most people with higher standards in men, but I'm happy and dedicated to my boyfriend. You just gotta keep looking, and never change your appearance for ANYONE especially if it seems hopeless finding a young guy who will like you for your physical appearance.

    Being healthy is definitely a plus but people who exercise and exercise don't usually have the chance of looking 20 years younger, it all comes down to family genes if you are lucky you might look 20 years younger like another JUB member who is in his 60's and yet he looks 39 years old.

    @careandrespect

    This quote from you really struck a nerve cause when you said this, it makes me feel that a lot of JUB members here think like this or even try to bring up false assumption about these kinds of relationships.

    I agree with the fact that things such as this can lead many people to make false assumptions when they see an older guy with a younger one.
    Whenever you mention older / younger relationships members will post reasons like the only reason why a younger guy would be with an older man is for the money they NEVER want to see any more possibility that maybe the younger guy might be more comfortable being with older men cause let's face it, guys our age (younger) are very immature and very little do you see a younger guy who is mature for his age. Same goes for older men who happen to be immature.

    I've always felt I could NEVER relate to guys my age they were always about looking pretty, looking young, attracting guys for sex. Give me an older man that can share his experiences with me and I'll be fine. Guys my age hardly experience life of sex, fetishes and other sexual fantasies that makes them any more knowledgeable than an older man whose experienced 40 years of sex and fetishes. I can't really say I'm a professional at experiencing sex but at least I can enjoy hearing them from older men and getting turned on by it.

    I'm a writer with my spare time I write stories about younger and older guys, most of the time these kinds of stories never really score much interest so they are left not being read and enjoyed by men who enjoy reading this kind of genre of stories. I guess in time when people are more accepting they will give it a chance.

    Speaking of the whole submissive / dominant thing, I've been trying to figure out stories with this, I wrote a story about this and someone told me I got it all wrong so I always tried to learn how it feels and how it is to play the dominant role as a younger guy and having the older one being submissive to my demands and wants.

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    Hello GamerBear:

    I am sorry if I may have caused a misunderstanding. Sometimes when I write about this topic it can be very difficult to put my true feelings into words.

    I agree there are a lot of younger and older guys out there who can be very immature. Going out with someone like this can be a real drag.

    So, here I go I will try to do my best to put my true feelings into words about how I feel about this topic.

    I don't see anything wrong with a younger and older guy being together. For myself I think it can be really neat. I try my best to never make false assumptions about two people when I see them.

    I agree, the most important thing that can make a relationship strong and lasting is how do the two people feel about each other. If a younger guy who is honest with himself and an older guy who enjoys the company of the younger one and they get along and neither one is out to take advantage of the other one I think we have a perfect couple.

    You have also sparked my interest. You mentioned that you write stories. I am interested in taking a look at some of them. Do you publish them or have them on JUB?

    Let me know. Drop me a PM if you wish.

    Hi Beanstalk:

    I would like to thank you once again for starting this thread. It really helps me get some of my feeling out and I also feel very comfortable talking to both you and GamerBear about this topic. Yes, the issue of money and material goods can be a very evil thing especially when you are looking at an older guy who makes a lot and feels as if though he can approach a younger guy and offer him these things for a few minutes of pleasure. Sad, sad, sad

    I also agree, the ultimate thing I think we are both looking for is a relationship in with a younger and older guy feel comfortable with each other and are willing to share their expressions of affection for each other in a way that is most pleasing to the other partner.

    I hope all of this makes sense.

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    Beanstalk, I am totally with you. I want a younger guy to make love to me, gently take charge, and mild domination, not this verbal aggressive stuff. My dream scenario is to be tied to a bed by a teen or twink, blindfolded, then he tongues and licks and kisses me all over, with me never knowing where he going to go next. Sweet torture. I don't who is dominating whom there but it works for me.

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    Hi southcoastlad:

    Your description is exactly what we are talking about in this thread. Things like this can produce a lot of fun too.

    I also say you are right on track when you comment about the verbal aggressive stuff. I think it can be a real turn off.

    Again, I am with you southcoastlad 100%.

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    Quote Originally Posted by careandrespect View Post
    Hello GamerBear:

    I am sorry if I may have caused a misunderstanding. Sometimes when I write about this topic it can be very difficult to put my true feelings into words.

    I agree there are a lot of younger and older guys out there who can be very immature. Going out with someone like this can be a real drag.

    So, here I go I will try to do my best to put my true feelings into words about how I feel about this topic.

    I don't see anything wrong with a younger and older guy being together. For myself I think it can be really neat. I try my best to never make false assumptions about two people when I see them.

    I agree, the most important thing that can make a relationship strong and lasting is how do the two people feel about each other. If a younger guy who is honest with himself and an older guy who enjoys the company of the younger one and they get along and neither one is out to take advantage of the other one I think we have a perfect couple.

    You have also sparked my interest. You mentioned that you write stories. I am interested in taking a look at some of them. Do you publish them or have them on JUB?

    Let me know. Drop me a PM if you wish.
    Well this was my first attempt at writing a story like this, I still need to experience the whole dominant / submissive, this is more of a story about three guys trying to have sex with an older 38 year old man. Sounds more like a rape story but the older man kind of stops and is submissive to their demands and joins in.

    I only wrote four chapters but figured the scenario of chapter four fits the type of genre of sub / dom.

    Hopefully you enjoy.

    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/show...85&postcount=4

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    Quote Originally Posted by GamerBear View Post
    Well this was my first attempt at writing a story like this, I still need to experience the whole dominant / submissive, this is more of a story about three guys trying to have sex with an older 38 year old man. Sounds more like a rape story but the older man kind of stops and is submissive to their demands and joins in.

    I only wrote four chapters but figured the scenario of chapter four fits the type of genre of sub / dom.

    Hopefully you enjoy.

    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/show...85&postcount=4
    Hi GamerBear, Your ideas sound interesting. Have you thought up the ages for the three other guys?

    I find story writing a very enjoyable experience for you can create what you want and sometimes your own fantasies come to life on the "paper" i.e. screen you are writing on. Sort of like everything unfolds in front of you.

    As I mentioned before, I am very interested in what it is all about. Please keep me informed.

    careandrespect

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    Hi GamerBear,

    Goofy me I did not notice the link you had to the story. I am going to give it a look. Thanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by careandrespect View Post
    Hi GamerBear, Your ideas sound interesting. Have you thought up the ages for the three other guys?

    I find story writing a very enjoyable experience for you can create what you want and sometimes your own fantasies come to life on the "paper" i.e. screen you are writing on. Sort of like everything unfolds in front of you.

    As I mentioned before, I am very interested in what it is all about. Please keep me informed.

    careandrespect
    At the time the guys in my stories were 18+ I never wrote a story with anyone under age, but I had kind of put myself in the stories I know it sounds kind of stuck up but I figured if I used real life people in my stories but change the names it would make my fantasies real. I've written a lot of stories but most of them are all types of men from chubby to fit men, but it's always older and younger guys in sexual encounters.

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    Hi GamerBear,

    I like the story theme. The idea of older and younger is really unique and something which is enjoyable to read. Thanks.

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    I love to obey a young boy

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    I too, love to obey and service a 18 yo boy anyway he wants.

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