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    Do u consider chatting online cheating

    Just wondering

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by Deco84 View Post
    Just wondering
    yea because you should be spending time with your significant other

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    If he was away for a month with work different time zone

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    no, I do not think it's cheating.

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by Deco84 View Post
    Just wondering
    Nope I don't.. don't know about the partner though.
    Chatting is just talking/writing.. like if you met someone at a party, well talking to that guy would not be cheating now would it?

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    Depends on what the chatting is about. My boyfriend talking to someone about a video game? No. My boyfriend talking to some guy about wanting to fuck him? Yes.
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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by Today4U1989 View Post
    Depends on what the chatting is about. My boyfriend talking to someone about a video game? No. My boyfriend talking to some guy about wanting to fuck him? Yes.
    Exactly what I was going to say.
    That is so fetch!

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    My rule: I don't get any naughtier with guys online than I would in real life with him in the room.
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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    i depends on what you are talking about, but i dont think it is cheating in fact i think it can be hot for the other person in the relationship too. It is like fantasy, it is a safe way to bring some excitement into a relationship if it is lacking

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    No it is not cheating and who cares. You talk to your buddies about sex so why not strangers. Too many rules. Enjoy life.

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    emotional cheating

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    No, I do not consider it cheating at all. If it leads up to meeting up with the ulterior motive of having sex, then yes. But not purely chatting on line, salacious or otherwise as may the content and context be.

    If it is to be deemed cheating, then would it not be cheating too if a person fantasizes someone else when he is plowing the lover's ass or is being plowed?

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    It's not cheating..

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    my rule of thumb is that it is only cheating if you can not tell your partner what you are doing and who you are chatting with.

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    NOW , What if you were talking about sex in general with that other guy , sharing a few fantasies . Like if your chatting on here with a guy , you say you would love to suck his cock . he talks about rimming you . You know you both won't meet up , just getting each other excited . IS THAT CHEATING ? just talking about sex fantasies with another ? I don't think so . To me your just having fun getting excited and jacking off . Your not going on a date with him , SO is dirty talking with a stranger cheating ?

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    What are you a slave to your partner now?? You have to tell him everything you are doing in your life like he owns your life?? Not a chance. You can have friends (face-to-face) or on-line and control your own world. You are not owned by anyone. On-line chatting is not cheating on anyone. You guys have way to many rules and fine lines. It is your life so enjoy it.

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    I had a bf who said it was cheating. bit I don't think it is

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    I don't think it's cheating, unless you are looking to meet with the person on line.

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by Today4U1989 View Post
    Depends on what the chatting is about. My boyfriend talking to someone about a video game? No. My boyfriend talking to some guy about wanting to fuck him? Yes.
    I agree ^^^

    Also if my boyfriend looks forward to talking to his online friend more than he wants to talk to me then I would consider that cheating too. It would be emotional cheating which is almost worse than physical cheating.

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by Florent View Post
    What are you a slave to your partner now?? You have to tell him everything you are doing in your life like he owns your life?? Not a chance. You can have friends (face-to-face) or on-line and control your own world. You are not owned by anyone. On-line chatting is not cheating on anyone. You guys have way to many rules and fine lines. It is your life so enjoy it.
    I totally agree! It is an outlet. Recreation. I have met guys online who have become good friends. Not likely we will meet in person. I usually appreciate their brain as much as their bodies and sexual preferences. We go between talking about politics, movies, books and talking about sex. Sometimes we've become Facebook friends but if the chat is primarily sexual in nature, then we keep to a site like JUB. Or chat and text by phone. As a newcomer to this site, I am surprised at how preachy and moralistic a lot of the posts and replies are. Honestly, guys, when you're talking to people on line who use a photo of a rock star or TV actor as their avatar, is there any doubt this is about fantasy and using your imagination? My partner still talks to his exes -- I don't know them or need to. That is part of HIS life. We each have plenty of our own friends (face to face and on-line) as well as friends in common. I agree with Florent, #16, too many rules and fine lines. If it works for you, awesome! But spare us your holier-than-thou, self-righteous attitude.

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    For me, no, it's not. I would have no problem with my partner chatting with another person online. As long as it isn't something that displaces the relationship he/she has with me, I don't think of it as cheating.

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by jo272wv View Post
    my rule of thumb is that it is only cheating if you can not tell your partner what you are doing and who you are chatting with.
    This. I just tell my bf I'm doing it and he doesn't care
    Not like I'm going to actually have sex with this person.

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    No, I don't as long as it's only online and no physical.

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    Re: Do u consider chatting online cheating

    No. I chat online quite a lot and although I like chatting dirty and jack off I always make it clear that this is just a bit of fun. It's like watching porn, that's not cheating either.

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    you are too kind, florent! merci bien!

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    No , as long as you dont meet up .. and dont disclose private info , its a sort of role play

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