Depends on what the chatting is about. My boyfriend talking to someone about a video game? No. My boyfriend talking to some guy about wanting to fuck him? Yes.
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My rule: I don't get any naughtier with guys online than I would in real life with him in the room.
i depends on what you are talking about, but i dont think it is cheating in fact i think it can be hot for the other person in the relationship too. It is like fantasy, it is a safe way to bring some excitement into a relationship if it is lacking
No it is not cheating and who cares. You talk to your buddies about sex so why not strangers. Too many rules. Enjoy life.
No, I do not consider it cheating at all. If it leads up to meeting up with the ulterior motive of having sex, then yes. But not purely chatting on line, salacious or otherwise as may the content and context be.
If it is to be deemed cheating, then would it not be cheating too if a person fantasizes someone else when he is plowing the lover's ass or is being plowed?
It's not cheating..
my rule of thumb is that it is only cheating if you can not tell your partner what you are doing and who you are chatting with.
NOW , What if you were talking about sex in general with that other guy , sharing a few fantasies . Like if your chatting on here with a guy , you say you would love to suck his cock . he talks about rimming you . You know you both won't meet up , just getting each other excited . IS THAT CHEATING ? just talking about sex fantasies with another ? I don't think so . To me your just having fun getting excited and jacking off . Your not going on a date with him , SO is dirty talking with a stranger cheating ?
What are you a slave to your partner now?? You have to tell him everything you are doing in your life like he owns your life?? Not a chance. You can have friends (face-to-face) or on-line and control your own world. You are not owned by anyone. On-line chatting is not cheating on anyone. You guys have way to many rules and fine lines. It is your life so enjoy it.
I don't think it's cheating, unless you are looking to meet with the person on line.
For me, no, it's not. I would have no problem with my partner chatting with another person online. As long as it isn't something that displaces the relationship he/she has with me, I don't think of it as cheating.
No, I don't as long as it's only online and no physical.
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No. I chat online quite a lot and although I like chatting dirty and jack off I always make it clear that this is just a bit of fun. It's like watching porn, that's not cheating either.
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No , as long as you dont meet up .. and dont disclose private info , its a sort of role play