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    "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    First off I want to say that Cam4 is the best fucking thing ever created. I always stroke on cam with the hottest fucking guys and it gets me off fast. But lately, maybe for the past 6 months, I stroke with guys who are married. Always has been a fantasy of mine but alas, never has been realized.

    are you guys finding the same thing on cam4?

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    Yeah, there are a lot of guys on there that say they are married or straight. I think ultimately they really would like to chat with females on cam, but they might reach a point where if they're going to jerk off and them been on the computer for a while it might just be easier to jerk with a guy?

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    I love to see married men masturbating on cam4. I notice a lot of them will have "bicurious" as their "orientation" though. I think a lot of married men are curious, but afraid to act on their curiosities. Cam4 is a safe way to explore that w/ them being labeled gay.

    I personally think it's a shame that men can just be who they are. I dont even like the orientation labels. But I have had married men tell me they were curious or wanted to try it. But yeah, cam4 is a lot of fun.

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    Cam4 is brilliant... glad somebody here pointed me that way a couple months back. I find myself browsing it all the time...

    Sometimes the straight guys say or type that they hate it when gay guys comment on their dick, or something. Then I just sexualize the hell out of'm for the fun of it.

    I have yet to actually go cam2cam, however... don't know what I'm waiting for. Maybe one of you guys'll initiate me.

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    I've literally spent countless hours on skype after meeting these guys. I agree with above, it's a shame that they can't be themselves. But it sure does make them fucking amazing stroking buddies. All that pent up sexual tension.

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    I've only used Cam4 a few times, but when I did...if I did see any men who identified as 'straight' and married, they were with their wives or girlfriends.
    They're just as hot as any other guy, imo. Although some of them work more for my tastes because I like older guys with the guy next door look.


    Quote Originally Posted by highland01 View Post
    I agree with above, it's a shame that they can't be themselves.
    Actually, they can.

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    Sometimes the straight guys say or type that they hate it when gay guys comment on their dick, or something. Then I just sexualize the hell out of'm for the fun of it.
    That makes it more difficult for other gay men who actually respect the broadcasters' limits and appreciate his willingness to let men stay in the room at all. Behavior like this is one reason why some broadcasters automatically kick or ban any man who even says "hi."

    Why would you deliberately annoy someone in whose room you are a guest and who has done nothing to offend you?

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    Quote Originally Posted by a little edgy View Post
    That makes it more difficult for other gay men who actually respect the broadcasters' limits and appreciate his willingness to let men stay in the room at all. Behavior like this is one reason why some broadcasters automatically kick or ban any man who even says "hi."

    Why would you deliberately annoy someone in whose room you are a guest and who has done nothing to offend you?
    "Sometimes the straight guys say or type that they hate it when gay guys comment on their dick, or something. THEN..."

    They HAVE offended the gay men in the room by saying that they "hate" it when guys comment on them. It is provoking an argument when you "hate" someone or a group of people before anything is done. I personally don't care, and I respect the guy even if the intent ISN'T sexual. Flattering comments never hurt anyone and to respond with negativity makes you look like a douche Some of these guys actually think women will respond to them (at least in the way they want), and I think it's somewhat hopeless and futile when about 80% of cam4's population is real men, and 30-40% are looking for the same thing. I'll say this, I've asked women if they actually cruise sites like cam4 to look for guys. Many said they were disgusted by guys showing their junk and not their faces first (lol)and most said only to watch there bf's/husbands/friends??. Why str8 guys think they're going to get action from women there is beyond me.

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    I love the group action that appears on cam4 sometimes. The funny thing is when the profile say "straight" and they are sitting there sucking cocks with another guy, lol.......
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    Quote Originally Posted by JOHN B View Post
    I love the group action that appears on cam4 sometimes. The funny thing is when the profile say "straight" and they are sitting there sucking cocks with another guy, lol.......

    I don't see the disconnect here

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    There are indeed some really hot guys and impressive dicks on cam4, whether they are actually straight or not we will never know, but there are some things that turn me off about the site. For one, the cam guys rarely or never respond to any comments and if you even try to make a comment to another viewer they almost never respond...some interaction would be cool just sayin

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    They HAVE offended the gay men in the room by saying that they "hate" it when guys comment on them. It is provoking an argument when you "hate" someone or a group of people before anything is done. I personally don't care, and I respect the guy even if the intent ISN'T sexual. Flattering comments never hurt anyone and to respond with negativity makes you look like a douche
    But it's his room. He gets to be a douche and to project "negativity" if he wants to. Guests who deliberately flout the broadcaster's wishes are equally douche-y.

    Personally, I wouldn't want to spend time in a room where the broadcaster has so little sense of humor and so little confidence in his own sexuality that he's offended because a gay guy compliments him, but others might be enjoying his show and might even be chatting non-sexually with him. Gay viewers who deliberately provoke a straight broadcaster because they are annoyed at him, are jealous that he isn't paying attention to them, or don't approve of his manners make it more difficult for those who want to stay and chat.

    Some of these guys actually think women will respond to them (at least in the way they want), and I think it's somewhat hopeless and futile when about 80% of cam4's population is real men, and 30-40% are looking for the same thing. I'll say this, I've asked women if they actually cruise sites like cam4 to look for guys. Many said they were disgusted by guys showing their junk and not their faces first (lol)and most said only to watch there bf's/husbands/friends??. Why str8 guys think they're going to get action from women there is beyond me.
    You mean real-life action? Yeah, probably pretty hopeless, but in my experience most are only looking for C2C. I agree that most women probably wouldn't do something like that, but a few do, and that's what keeps many of the straight guys coming back.

    For one, the cam guys rarely or never respond to any comments and if you even try to make a comment to another viewer they almost never respond...some interaction would be cool just sayin
    Some do respond to comments either sporadically or regularly. It's a matter of finding the right cam. However, the popular guys are REALLY popular, and it's sometimes impossible just to keep up with the stream of comments, let alone respond to many of them. After a certain amount of time, even the most gracious broadcaster gives up trying to respond regularly because the comments just scroll by on an endless stream. By the time he types a response, the original comment has disappeared from view.

    Also, remember that the broadcaster, gay or straight, may be chatting in a private message conversation or on another cam. If he's straight and chatty, and all of a sudden goes quiet after a woman comes in the room, that's probably what happened.

    As for side conversations with other viewers, yes, they are rare. I think most people who stick around a cam long enough to have one are probably there because they want to watch the broadcaster, not have a chat with someone they can't see. On the other hand, conversations among the viewers and the broadcaster - often non-sexual conversations - do happen in some rooms. Again, it's a matter of finding the right room. If all you want is non-sexual chat, then cam4 may not be the place to look.

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    But it's his room. He gets to be a douche and to project "negativity" if he wants to. Guests who deliberately flout the broadcaster's wishes are equally douche-y.

    Personally, I wouldn't want to spend time in a room where the broadcaster has so little sense of humor and so little confidence in his own sexuality that he's offended because a gay guy compliments him, but others might be enjoying his show and might even be chatting non-sexually with him. Gay viewers who deliberately provoke a straight broadcaster because they are annoyed at him, are jealous that he isn't paying attention to them, or don't approve of his manners make it more difficult for those who want to stay and chat.
    I agree with that, there are a lot of gay guys that take it to the extreme, but if the guy hosting is unnecessarily banning people just because they're guys, he's a douche. Ignoring them is just as effective as banning and no one gets their feelings hurt.


    You mean real-life action? Yeah, probably pretty hopeless, but in my experience most are only looking for C2C. I agree that most women probably wouldn't do something like that, but a few do, and that's what keeps many of the straight guys coming back.
    Yeah, the few women that do C2C expect something in return and by that I mean money lol. Yea there are a few that actually do it cause they're equally turned on, but the men FAR outnumber the women on that one. Their chances of meeting a woman for sexual encounters (C2C included) are better if they pay for it online from other sites or if they hook up at a club.

    I have a few female friends/favorites on cam4 and all they want is a casual conversation. They may show if they feel like it, but it's mostly talk. It's funny, the straight guys who ban men in their rooms are the first to harass women to "SHOW!!" or take it off when the women obviously aren't into it LOL

    As for side conversations with other viewers, yes, they are rare. I think most people who stick around a cam long enough to have one are probably there because they want to watch the broadcaster, not have a chat with someone they can't see. On the other hand, conversations among the viewers and the broadcaster - often non-sexual conversations - do happen in some rooms. Again, it's a matter of finding the right room. If all you want is non-sexual chat, then cam4 may not be the place to look.
    I'd probably say non-sexual chats happen more often than you think. There are many non-sexual chats going on at cam4 (especially with women and quite a few men, even when they are nude). I actually really enjoy them, and even though there isn't any nudity or "sexual demonstrations" involved lol, that doesn't mean that the conversations aren't sexual

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    I agree with that, there are a lot of gay guys that take it to the extreme, but if the guy hosting is unnecessarily banning people just because they're guys, he's a douche. Ignoring them is just as effective as banning and no one gets their feelings hurt.
    Not quite true. I agree that banning men just because they say "hi" or even "nice body" is assholish behavior - although, again, it is his room, and he can ban anyone he wants - but ignoring the abusive ones is not as effective as banning. Some guys just can't take the hint and post comment after comment, often increasingly graphic and crude, despite being ignored. I've seen rooms all but taken over by a couple of guys who post 10 or 20 comments in a row. That's annoying to everyone, including other men who really want to have a nice chat with the broadcaster or even just watch. And, if the broadcaster has stated that he does not want to talk to men, or that he does not welcome sexual comments from men, it's rude to ignore that request.

    ITA with your other comment about straight men at the women's cams: They are just as bad as or worse than the gay men in the straight male rooms. I guess it's a guy thing.

    Their chances of meeting a woman for sexual encounters (C2C included) are better if they pay for it online from other sites or if they hook up at a club.
    Well, obviously the chances of a sexual encounter are 100% if you pay for it, but many guys don't want to or can't afford to pay for it. They want the woman to be genuinely interested in them, not just in it for the money. As for clubs, I'm not sure the odds are that much better, and going to clubs is expensive and time-consuming. And, again, many (maybe most) of the guys at cam4 are only looking for on-line encounters. They may be married or in a relationship or they just don't want the hassle involved with picking up a woman and persuading her to have sex. So C2C is a pretty good option. And it does happen, more often than you may think.

    I'm thinking of one guy who's there almost every night. He's very handsome and has a great body. He sits at the cam shirtless, showing his face and chest but nothing else. Most of the time he's watching TV or surfing the net. People come and go, and he sometimes chats but mostly ignores the room unless a woman comes in. He is doing what he probably would do at home anyway, and yet he also has the chance of maybe, just maybe, cyber-hooking-up with a girl. If he does - and it has happened - wonderful. If not, he hasn't wasted any time because he didn't do anything he wouldn't have done otherwise. I think a lot of guys do that.

    I'd probably say non-sexual chats happen more often than you think. There are many non-sexual chats going on at cam4 (especially with women and quite a few men, even when they are nude). I actually really enjoy them, and even though there isn't any nudity or "sexual demonstrations" involved lol, that doesn't mean that the conversations aren't sexual
    I like the non-sexual chats, too, and you're right that a lot of the conversations get very sexual even when the broadcaster is fully dressed.

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    ...don't want the hassle involved with picking up a woman and persuading her to have sex.
    This is where the trouble lies. There ISN'T an easy way to get women to C2C if you're a complete stranger. Too many guys are on the site looking for an easy way to get off to LIVE WOMEN, but there are an overwhelming number of MEN!! The women they want aren't there!! If I were 100% straight and knowing that men are pretty much all that's there , I wouldn't waste my time and assume that only girls would talk to me cause THERE'S NOTHING BUT DUDES!! Not that it's relevant to you, but if you want women, you have to go where they are if you want the action. MOST women just DON'T show off to any guy and you have to go elsewhere.

    Many of the women I talk to want to talk FIRST and most of the guys don't want to do that, and it's a shame cause alot of the women are great. When you mentioned MEN being the prime suspects of harassing people on Cam4 you weren't kidding. I wouldn't be suprised if cam4 became a fully gay male-affiliated website in the future.

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    My personal experience has been that 95% of the time I give nice comments, on Str8 Guys Cams, I get a "thanks".

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    Re: "Straight" Married men on Cam4

    Quote Originally Posted by ace3316 View Post
    Yeah, there are a lot of guys on there that say they are married or straight. I think ultimately they really would like to chat with females on cam, but they might reach a point where if they're going to jerk off and them been on the computer for a while it might just be easier to jerk with a guy?
    I used to be one of those married guys. I would spend a good hour looking for a woman to chat with and eventually settle for a guy just so I could blow my load and go to bed.

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    I used to be one of those married guys. I would spend a good hour looking for a woman to chat with and eventually settle for a guy just so I could blow my load and go to bed.
    You, sir, are the Holy Grail for many of the gay guys who hang around the straight cams. They're hoping that the straight guy they're watching will turn out to be at least slightly bisexual and end up settling for a guy. I've definitely seen it happen, but more often the straight guys either give up and go off cam or decide to "finish" on cam even though no women are watching - but without interacting sexually with any of the men in the room.

    A lot depends on whether they're only interested in C2C or whether they're willing to settle for chat with a maybe real but probably fake woman. Most reasonably attractive guys who stick around long enough will get a few "women" in the room, and some eventually settle for chatting sexually with them. That can be hot to watch, even though you know the "woman" is probably a man. The only time it bothers me is when the "woman" is really obviously fake - like her screen name is "DripNWet Pussy," she goes straight to graphic sex talk, and she asks him to focus the camera only on his cock or to see his pits or feet. Sometimes I wonder if any of these fake women know any actual women in real life. They seem to base all their ideas about how women behave on porn.

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