So I've been going to a gym for several months now and I haven't met another gay guy or have hooked up with anyone. To be honest, I'm not even sure if guys hookup at my gym or if their are any gay guys going to it. So I was hoping you guys could give me some pointers, tips and feedback on hooking up with and even meeting guys at the gym.
1. For hookups. If you see a hot guy, how do you know if he's into dudes or not? Do you need to have a good gaydar to sense these things?
2. Peeping at guys in the looker room- clearly this is pretty discreet, but could this be a way to seal the deal on hooking up?
3. Making friends with other gay/bi guys- how can this happen if you're not even sure what their sexuality is.
4. Any advice on locations or topics for starting conversations? (i'm not into sports at all btw)
Just some tidbits about my gym: It is family orientated and equally caters to men, women, and children. Also many of the men are married/str8. I know this because I have yet to spot another gay guy at my gym. Moreover, the only guys that have conversations at the gym are people working out together and members talking to staff members.
HELP ME OUT GUYS!