"Do that to me one more time, once is never enough with a man like you!"
Good God, had I seen that episode my life would have turned out totally different.
Hey look, it's Dennis Duffy from 30 Rock!
o____o; Ouch.....he's lucky its not a spork.
Underneath everything I guess I always dreamed I would be the one to take you away from all this wasted pain...
Wellcum in th' Alabama Liiimestone Correcsianal Fasillitee!
(The whole thing is on youtube).
(also more on this on youtube).
Truth be told, it's not unusual for straight men to become exclusively homosexual (both active and passive) in a prison or in any other situation in which extended contact with females is absent (such as in the army or aboard a navy ship or submarine, etc) but will return to being exclusively heterosexual again when removed from that situation and contact with females is once again present.
Quando omni flunkus, moritati.
So he is scooping shit with a spoon from shit hole like he would from icecream container. for what? to eat?
Oh, I remember those episodes of OZ. I think my fondest memory of the series was the time where Adebisi (sp??) raped the Italian guy.
well i saw a documental about "prison life" and they see them as females... when you in prison and you a bitch then you a bitch you are not a man! but a female.
And they do not consider themselves as homosexuals :S wich is weird :P
I watched a huge documentary on prison sex and relationships on youtube.
Even the straightest guy could go gay in prison. It's called situational sexuality, and makes me think that homosexuality isn't always genetic. It's very interesting, but sadly a lot of it begins with rape though some of the men actually have relationships.
I think a lot of them continue to be with men when/if they leave prison.
Why is he sticking a spoon up his ass? :-/
I have friends who are completely straight - and even doing natural life, wouldn't screw around with another man. That doesn't mean they hate gays, it just means that gay sex isn't their thing - and they would rather masturbate to pictures of women than participate in gay sex. Interestingly, completely straight men tend to "respect" the gays in prison more than men who are more ambiguous about their sexuality.
Prison is a place of the illusion of hyper-masculinity - and in most places, that means that overt homosexual behavior isn't condoned. You can't just go off in a closet and suck some guy off without getting a bad rap. Sooner or later everyone will find out. That said, there is a lot of, what in prison is called "horseplay" (wrestling, ass-grabbing, etc.) that is very homoerotic in nature. While the initiators of that behavior think of themselves as "straight", the reality tends to be more than they fall towards the middle of the continuum I mentioned previously. For many, the sub-conscious anxiety of not being able to deal with their sexual feelings towards the same sex is at the root of their criminality, especially in terms of drug use - and - in terms of the recidivism levels being so high.
Lastly, rape is never about sex - it's about power and control. People do get raped in prison, but mostly (not always, but mostly) because they end up making bad decisions and owing money, or because someone is trying to humiliate them because of their charges (sex abuse, pedophilia, etc. ).
If someone has questions about prison life - I have 15.75 years experience and I'm happy to speak honestly about it.
Did guys in prison know you were gay right away and did you have sex with a lot of guys there?
Second, the thing I said about rape was because of the documentary I watched on youtube. Yeah I understand the rape thing is about control but the person in this particular story would try to get guys to trust him and then somehow screw something up where he had an excuse to rape them or "turn them out". After he did that they'd usually become friends again and he'd take them under their wing and form some kind of relationship with them and they'd continue having sex.
I also agree that most people fall on a spectrum between gay and straight. I've always believed that and it's very interesting and hot because it always means that many straight guys are curious and willing to have sex with a guy.
I tend to agree with the experienced guy like dscottsw rather than with a no experience professor.
Professor mean nothing if you don't have experience.
It is common knowledge that rape is about power. Just imagine if a person don't want to have sex with you, why do you want to force it ?
Two funny stories - the only people who treated all the gays like shit, myself included, were the Christians. I happen to play the piano fairly well and played for a number of the church services, and it annoyed the Christians greatly that I was openly gay.
Second funny story was that the head of the Bikers group (a fairly powerful prison group back in those days - and all very macho dudes) was a secret cross dresser, which I didn't learn until we were both out and were going out for dinner one night and he showed up in a (lovely, I might add) dress and wig.
Mostly it is true that the assailant isn't very socially adept with the opposite sex, but not always. Look at Ted Bundy. And I have known some very handsome rapists.
I think when a straight guy has sex in prison it really isn't because hes gay, more so a lack of choice. Also doesn't prison rape happen a lot to show power or hierarchy within the inmates?
"Some people without brains do an awful lot of talking." -The Scarecrow, THE WIZARD OF OZ, 1939
Boss, to Sue: "Sorry, we have to downsize, and I need to lay you and Jack off." Sue to boss: "Can you just jack off? I have a headache today."
Make, for a man, a fire - and he'll be warm for a few hours. Set a man afire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.
There are many women around even a maximum security men's prison - female officers, staff, nurses, etc., And REALLY straight guys have often found ways to exploit that. In Oregon, it got so bad that now it is a Felony for staff to have sexual relationships (or other kinds of inappropriate relationships) with inmates.
The power/hierarchy structure of a prison doesn't need rape for anyone to understand it. It only takes a couple of days as a new guy to figure out who the "shotcallers" are. Prison rape (which is, IMHO and experience, less frequent than many people think) is about punishment and control for people who have violated some kind of inmate culture rule; i.e. gambled without the funds to pay losses, borrowed or accepted something without the means to pay it back, and in some cases, might be sex-offenders who have nothing else to offer - and are at the very bottom of the inmate totem pole.
More than a few inmates will claim "rape" or threat of rape because they are incapable of dealing with the anxiety and nuances of prison culture. I had one cellie who claimed that someone had threatened him with rape - no such thing happened, he was a small guy who was in for molesting his daughter (everybody in prison knows everything about everybody!!) and he didn't want to pay "rent", so he claimed he was being threatened and ended up living in "honor housing" two years earlier than he would have normally been eligible for it.
I'm not saying it doesn't happen....there's usually a backstory behind it which is more complex than "young, cute, innocent inmate...."
There are usually enough willing participants for sex in prison that one needn't take it. Although, a relatively small percentage of (at least male) inmates are willing to admit that they would enjoy a good BJ from another man. The whole thing becomes pretty covert.
Rape (prison or otherwise) is a forced, non-consensual thing - and yes, the rapist and the victim are having sex, but it's more accurately classified as an assault than a sex-act. The motive of the rapist is control and domination, not any kind of sexual gratification.