Gay Restroom Signals.

[adriian]

Today I was in the a public restroom then suddenly a hand swiped out of nowhere under my stall twice. I ignored it since I've never really done anything with a guy before (still in the closest lol) and when later on I heard him about to leave I decided to put my hand under so he would notice. He then saw what was happening, pulled down his pants and I have him a hand job. He came instantly!
First time ever, and man it was hot! But what I was confused with is, how did he know I was gay or "wanted it?". What if I wasn't gay? He must of suspected me somehow since what if it was some random straight guy?

Anyway, anyone recommend any "signals" to get someone's attention in restrooms?

+ Its great to finally join these forums!

[Sultan]

Some of these filth bags will try to make a move on anyone regardless of whether they know they're gay or not.

He probably had some kind of suspicion about you.

I personally don't think I could ever do anything with these cruiser types who try to blow guys at public restrooms. Mostly because it seems like the types of people who do that would be more likely to engage in risky sexual behavior, carry a disease and because I get the impression that most of them look like this:






































or this....





































If some sicko tried to cruise me up in the restroom I'd tell them to go fuck themselves and leave, possibly consider calling the police.



Oh and I don't recommend you try these moves on other guys. Sounds like if you make a move on the wrong person you're liable to get your teeth kicked in.

[Ekim23]

+1 with Sutlan ...

STDS and creepiness ... no thanks

[braex27]

Welcome - and there are hand signals in restrooms? I had no idea.

[sb]

If he didn't see you before you went into the stall, he was probably just hoping for the best.

Men have probably been having sex with each other in public toilets since they were invented.... and its not really that hard to figure out whether or not someone wants it.

There are a million better places to pick someone up at.... public toilets are hardly sexy or romantic.... and you'll probably only find married and closeted men looking.

Get out of the closet and then you can happily look for sex in much better places

[van-ee]

*tap tap* *tap tap tap*

[spudzz]

i tried it once when i was younger, i heard it could be hot, turned out it was gross.. only guys i saw there was old, unclean guys.. if you wanna stay safe and healthy, dont do it..

[Seasoned]

Welcome to JUB. I'm glad you posted this encounter. Without being judgemental about consentual adult sex, I will say that the circumstances surrounding sex speak to several things. These include, availability of partners, being out or not, ones feelings regarding homosexuality and perhaps even sex addiction. Some people find these chance, anonymous and risky encounters hot; others find them disgusting. If this is what you chose to do understand the risks. There has been and continues to be a world-wide struggle which allows us to look for sex and love in the open. There are all sorts of opportunties available that weren't just a short time ago. Life, including gay life, is full of choice. Whatever you decide to do, do it with open eyes, realizing that some people become addicted to the kind of sex you described and face sad, dangerous and, sometimes, legal consequences. I think, for some people, anonymous sex can be as powerful as crack. Sex aside, try to assess what you want from life and make choices that lead in that direction. Some of my past behavior got me into trouble. I now realize that the danger element coupled with the horniness of the closet prevented me from thinking clearly. Again, you are free to do what you wish, but try to do it with your eyes wide open.

[Absolut]

Were you per chance in a Minneapolis bathroom?

[Corny]

^ do you have a few republican Senators there ?

[mbamike]

I don't look for sex at public restrooms and ignore any kind of signals that may come my way. It could be a trap for public solicitation.

[NedNickerson]

*tap tap* *tap tap tap*

*tap tap*

*tap tap tap*

[3nipples]

He probably didn't know, but just hoped to get lucky.

You thought it was hot, so good for you.

[boxerdudeuk]

Welcome - and there are hand signals in restrooms? I had no idea.

neither did i and i'm glad i don't. lol

[jizzeater]

Some of these filth bags will try to make a move on anyone regardless of whether they know they're gay or not.

He probably had some kind of suspicion about you.

I personally don't think I could ever do anything with these cruiser types who try to blow guys at public restrooms. Mostly because it seems like the types of people who do that would be more likely to engage in risky sexual behavior, carry a disease and because I get the impression that most of them look like this


If some sicko tried to cruise me up in the restroom I'd tell them to go fuck themselves and leave, possibly consider calling the police.

Oh and I don't recommend you try these moves on other guys. Sounds like if you make a move on the wrong person you're liable to get your teeth kicked in.

What a player hater! Seriously though, why are you so hostile?

[Telstra]

What a player hater! Seriously though, why are you so hostile?

yeah why.
maybe those guys don't have internet and still do things in the old fashion way.

[van-ee]

*tap tap*

*tap tap tap*

Damn perverts!

[Philacruise]

What a player hater! Seriously though, why are you so hostile?

His posts attempt to distance himself from anything he believes is homosexually perverted or depraved, lest it be misconstrued as a depiction of himself.

[jizzeater]

Well, I'm not trying to attack him. I just think comparing guys on the DL to pedophiles and child rapists to be odd. Flipping out and calling the cops when someone tries to hit you up in the toilet is extreme too.

Personally, I'd just say "Hey man, I'm not interested. I'm just trying to take a crap over here", and hope they're not the type who doesn't take no for an answer.

[CowboyBob]

Was this the guy next to you?



God, hasn't he learned his lesson? Did you check to see if there was a Republican convention in town? If so, stay away from men's rooms.

[Sultan]

His posts attempt to distance himself from anything he believes is homosexually perverted or depraved, lest it be misconstrued as a depiction of himself.

LOL nice try but no it's because it's NASTY and filthy. Plus it makes other gay people look like they're as perverted and filthy as these bathroom cruisers.

If you want to blow someone go to a gay bar or go post an ad on craigslist. If you don't have the internet, go use an internet Cafe. I don't wanna have to see some nasty slob in the restroom trying to eyeball me while I take a dump. Thanks.

Well, I'm not trying to attack him. I just think comparing guys on the DL to pedophiles and child rapists to be odd. Flipping out and calling the cops when someone tries to hit you up in the toilet is extreme too.

Personally, I'd just say "Hey man, I'm not interested. I'm just trying to take a crap over here", and hope they're not the type who doesn't take no for an answer.

Being on the DL is fine but there is a time and place for everything and like I already said, most of these bathroom cruisers are filth bags that look like the two mug shots I posted above.

[Telstra]

LOL nice try but no it's because it's NASTY and filthy. Plus it makes other gay people look like they're as perverted and filthy as these bathroom cruisers.

If you want to blow someone go to a gay bar or go post an ad on craigslist. If you don't have the internet, go use an internet Cafe. I don't wanna have to see some nasty slob in the restroom trying to eyeball me while I take a dump. Thanks.


Being on the DL is fine but there is a time and place for everything and like I already said, most of these bathroom cruisers are filth bags that look like the two mug shots I posted above.

there are plenty of people who look like that.
About 50% of the world's population i think.

Most of the people aren't good looking.

[NedNickerson]

Damn perverts!

[BINOWGAYLATER]

I'm still trying to figure out how his cock and your hand got together in two different stalls.. was there a glory hole??
You're prolly lucky it wasn't a U/C cop.. depending on where you were..
and if you're that adorable - attracting pervs in the can - -you could prolly do better elsewhere !! Like at my gas station -- nice and clean - room for two...

[jizzeater]

Being on the DL is fine but there is a time and place for everything and like I already said, most of these bathroom cruisers are filth bags that look like the two mug shots I posted above.

That depends on where the bathroom is, I would think. From what I've heard restrooms on or around college campuses attract young guys.

In any case, you're a little too uptight and angry about it. Some people like the "filthy" aspect of tea room cruising. I get that it isn't your thing, but you act like a straight guy who has been hit on.

[jizzeater]

I'm still trying to figure out how his cock and your hand got together in two different stalls.. was there a glory hole??

The guy probably got on his knees and put his dick under the stall wall.

[Sultan]

That depends on where the bathroom is, I would think. From what I've heard restrooms on or around college campuses attract young guys.

In any case, you're a little too uptight and angry about it. Some people like the "filthy" aspect of tea room cruising. I get that it isn't your thing, but you act like a straight guy who has been hit on.

I don't like people making advances at me regardless of who they are. When I worked at a bar some late 30-something cougar was drunk and thought it was ok to just come up to me and give me a wet kiss...

and some other tramp sat in my lap thinking I wanted her and when I didn't wanna fuck her she got really pissed and then later thought I wanted her as a girlfriend and not a quick fuck (go figure).


I hate when some whore (man or woman) thinks that you want them and tries to make such a blunt move on you and bath room cruisers do exactly that.

The fact that some of them have a wife at home makes the whole thing even worse.

[jizzeater]

You never score if you never try. The other guy in the OP gave the signal. He didn't just poke his dick at adriian. That's a subtle way of putting the offer out there, not blunt at all.

[NedNickerson]

I'm still trying to figure out how his cock and your hand got together in two different stalls.. was there a glory hole??

If you go to Xtube and search for "understall" or "under stall,"
you'll see how it's done...

[BINOWGAYLATER]

okay - thanks -- can always count on all the "how to" info around here !!

but seeing how it's done - is NOT wanting to do it -- just to be clear !!
I'm sure it would be fun to watch tho.

[MikeyLove]

There were plenty of restroom hook-ups in the early 80's when I was in High School, and I even witnessed an orgy in a Public restroom at the Mall. It wasn't the ugly old ones who were doingh it, It was those who were of high scholl age and in their 20's. The signals are usually the toe tapping, fingers through the Glory holes, or see an eye through the holes. This was in South San Francisco California.

[Telstra]

There were plenty of restroom hook-ups in the early 80's when I was in High School, and I even witnessed an orgy in a Public restroom at the Mall. It wasn't the ugly old ones who were doingh it, It was those who were of high scholl age and in their 20's. The signals are usually the toe tapping, fingers through the Glory holes, or see an eye through the holes. This was in South San Francisco California.

interesting. yeah maybe true.
The old ones wouldn't bother i guess. They are not as horny as the younger ones.

[G-Lexington]

If you see me at a urinal with my back to the room, it means I have to pee.

If you hear me mutter in dismay from inside a stall, it means that stall is out of toilet paper.

Those are the only two I know.

Lex

[MikeHere]

I suggest that Sultan expresses extreme aversion to sexual creeps and sluts based on a recognition of, or a fear to recognize, some aspect of that within himself. It is a fairly common phenomenon.

[Sultan]

I suggest that Sultan expresses extreme aversion to sexual creeps and sluts based on a recognition of, or a fear to recognize, some aspect of that within himself. It is a fairly common phenomenon.

Hmmm nice observation but I've never made a move in the urinal at a guy. I don't think I'd have the nerve.

If I wanted some cheap thrill I could just go on craigslist rather than doing it in a filthy stall where it smells like shit.

The reason why I hate sexual creeps is because many straight guys homophobia stems from getting unwanted advances from these perverts and often times it makes them more homophobic. I also have been the victim of these cruisers offers and it was not a very comfortable situation.


Now if I did happen to get an offer to mess around with someone in a bath room and it was a HOT guy I won't lie, I'd probably take it but 95% of the time they are creepy, desperate, sad cases that look like the pics I posted above.