Haha, i thought you looked familiar, and once i saw you were from Ft Worth, TX i think i saw you the other night at Round-up. haha. It was either Friday or Saturday during Block party weekend, haha. My boyfriend and i were just visiting from out of town, then again you may have not been there at all, lol. Just look familiar.
^ you do not need to lose ANY weight, sir. you look great... your legs are fantastic, so is your chest and belly.
that picture in the sweat pants and the idea of you getting a hard-on in them with no underwear makes me hard every time i look at it.
don't change a thing about yourself.
just 'cause i'm shallow doesn't mean that i'm heartless
just 'cause i'm heartless doesn't mean that i'm mean
I want to add to the comments here and say that you look really hot as you are. However if you will feel more confident with a little less weight that is up to you. You have to do what makes you happy.
My partner has some hangups about looking older but his apparent age is actually what attracted me to him in the first place. I think all of this stuff can be really confusing and I try to put myself in the other person's shoes. You have to do what makes you happy but understand that there is a whole segment of people out there who find older guys who aren't totally cut more attractive than the muscle men. Personally I am turned off by guys who are really ripped and lean and I prefer a more natural realistic look.
thanks men ... hope yall had a good weekend too.
went for a soak in the jacuzzi earlier ... took a shower at the gym and put on a little show for this married guy watchin me from the stall across from mine.. was quite erotic and he got off.
Hey Mike! You don't look happy on the new pics. What's up?
A proud PA-man
im kinda scruffy lookin mirage ... hadnt shaved in a few days ,.. so i look kinda gruff.. but if i was in bed id be all smiles heh
My type of guy, solid, beefy, hairy, facial hair etc.
keep up the good work!. you look great
Very nice legs.
thanks otterbr ... woof to you too
Romantic and vanilla and single.
I don't know if you are just coming out or just starting to look around. You said you have been single for 11 years. I find that hard to believe. Someone like you is bound to find someone for them soon. They always do.
But you are definately long overdo. There are quite a handful of guys who would probably be your type. Especially romantic and vanilla.
Great cock picks and fur by the way. Arf!
You won't stay single for long. I'd wish you luck but I can tell you really don't need it.
Thanks Gdude, And nope I'm not just coming out heh. I've been available for 11 years - dated off and on but most went noplace. Most guys stand me up or when it does go good ,they dont call or return calls for weeks and then when i do see em they are dating someone else so, i walk up and say ."well thanks for returning my calls or it would have been nice to call me and let me know your not interested. And just about every time they would say"well mike ,there was something about you that bothered me or somethign to that effect" yet they wouldnt say what what was ,i thought it was a really cowardly way to let someone down .So id say"well there is something about you that bothers me right now","your presence "LOL.. such is life .. I guess time will tell // huggers
But of course they'll never say that. There are lots of guys who want to fuck or get fucked. Actually that sorta happened to me once. A daddy bearish guy was fucking huge. But he was too huge and he wanted to fuck me. He pretty much treated me like shit and all because I wouldn't let him fuck me yet. He should have been upfront about that. But what can you do. Even though most people wanna fuck or be fucked I have seen people be in relationships with little to no sex. And sometimes not even penetration. Trust me I dealt with it too.
One guy said "Well I like you and everything but you are young I don't think it would work out."
Yeah and he never said that at the beginning or mentioned that. And he only said that when I confronted him of why he was dodging me and being a jerk.
It also could be your location. It has been PROVEN that in every region guys are different or act a certain way. There might be less romantics in your area. Come to Atlanta. We have a SHIT load of romantics.
The only thing you can really do is try to join social clubs, pride, or try to make new clubs or organizations where you can meet more people in the area and explore more of the area and see people who have been there all along that you never knew. There is also finding someone by networking. The only other option is moving or waiting.
You are definitely a furry teddy though
You'll find someone.
Well, considering that I didn't go to bed with any of those guys , I mean I dated each guy a few weeks and they knew where I was coming from and what I was about and knew right off the kind of person I am. It would be nice at the start ,going out to dinner, movies or two stepping and we'd have good chemistry and they knew what I liked sexually and romantically and I was very honest with them right off. If they expected me to just jump in the sack or to do something I didn't want ,they didn't need to continue to date me and just come out with it. Using sex as an excuse is a very shitty one. I know their are some guys who just flake out and I guess I'm better off but still I hate it when a 50 year old man can't be man enough to pick up the phone and say - "I enjoyed dating you but I don't feel we are going anyplace or to that effect" instead of dating me and saying how much he enjoys being with me and wants to see where it goes when he is expecting or trying to get me in the sack and be done with it. That's why I've been single a long time because I got tired of those games and joined a group of over 40 single friends who go out dancing on Friday nights and socialize. Only time will tell if it happens for me - location yeah ,i get that too but nothing i can do about that at present. Guys think texas is full of all these hot men and cowboy types etc etc ,,yada yada yada..I moved here in 95 for a guy and it didnt work out ,we split in 98 and all these so called hot men and cowboy types are not what they appear to be. Dallas is more youngstuff and circuit boy types when you go out and the cowboy types are nothing more than a guy in what i call cowboy drag ,during the day an office boy and at night he throws on a cheap cowboy hat and boots and pretends to be masculine and gruff. LOL..
I love your hairy body, your front picture did BAAAAAAD to me and don't let me start about the back one!!
you Texas men are really HOT HAIRY ones...
i just love your hairy chest!!
and boy, you are VERY handsome, how the hell you didn't end up with anyone yet!!!
what is your age range for guys that you like??
I'm glad that you have a social group and that you enjoy time with your friends. I wouldn't doubt that texas isn't full of hot gay men. I don't think that to the true extent real cowboys exist anymore. Just like leatherman. It's all as you say, drag. Circuit boys though. That's interesting. I never figured texas had that. Well it also depends on what part of texas I guess. I'm sure texas as a state isn't full of gays everywhere who are looking for love or sex.
It's a good thing to take things day by day. Men who spend their lives working, hanging out with friends, and maybe going to a bar from time to time do have it good. Especially if you don't go to a bar to look for someone but to spend time with friends and have fun. And if you happen to meet someone than that's great. Even men in relationship have their own set of issues and struggles too. Regardless if you are in a relationship with another or yourself it's something that everyone has to deal with and put forth the effort to make it work.
You do sound like a very confident, strong, and secure man though. I do think you deserve someone. But in the mean time it sounds like fun going out with friends dancing. Although dancing isn't my thing. I'm sure you have fun
I'll bet i could get you two stepping gdude30 . heh.. im a good waltzer too .. we have a friday night crowd that does the 2 steppin ..
You look wonderful, bigwhiskers65.
bigwhisker you are so sexy. could look @ ur body and kiss you mustache all day long.
Hey bigwhisk, you're the definition of my ideal older guy. Looks, physique, and personality (at least from what I can tell). You've got my juices flowin.
This thread sure does make me feel good and takes away some of my lonleyness. i lost my job too so times have been rough. i do have the gym to go to and that helps since its something to do instead of wallowing in depression .. i enjoyed taking the pics for the thread and also enjoyed reading all the nice replies from hot guys out there. warmest hugs .. oh gdude30 i can techno dance in my cowboy boots if you do some country dance in trade ..
It takes time and networking to get a job now. It really does.
I'm glad that you go to the gym and work out though. I'd love to do that. Haha. You'd look cute doing that. I am not sure about the country dance. Although I do have the leather boots and 501's. All I'd need is a hat and the moves. Yeah I don't know how to country dance.
But thank you for the offer
Mike, sorry to hear you lost your job, bud. I lost mine in May of this year... after 11 years of service with the same company. It's definitely been hard trying to find something to fill in the gap. Lucky for me, I have a partner that can relieve me of some of the stress of FINDING a job. But, I just don't feel right depending on him to pay my portion of the bills as well. I've always been so independant.
Anyway, here's to wishing you luck in finding something new. Take care, handsome.
oh well ... now if i had a hairy daddy to hug onto which im hoping this friday i can go visit a cuddle buddy down in austin ..he just turend 70 but man he is smokin hot for an older man .. bearded furry and fit ... woof ..
I have tattoos and piercings. So, when they see me they think "convicted felon" or "dreg of society". Then, they get a look at my resume and realize, "HOLY SHIT!" this guy really knows his stuff. I didn't obtain a Bachelors in Psychology, and two Associate Degrees(one in Business, and another in Mathematics) for nothing. Not to mention, almost 20 years experience working in Human Resources. LOL! So, I know what you mean.
And your friend sounds HOT! You should totally post pics...just kidding, well maybe. Haha!
where are you
well that was gross.. some bi guy posted something about sending my pics to women and that he an i would have fun performing oral on them, made me wanna vomit .. talk about an ignorant weirdo ... im glad the posting was deleted , why do bi and str8 men come into gay topics and post stuff concerning sex with women? take it elsewhere please.
Some women/bi guys actually get tuned on by having sex with with men and women at the same time.
It does sounds odd but It happens more than people think it does it's just a pain. But that was going a little too far by sending your pictures to woman and asking them to have sex with you.
I am glad that you do post you pictures on here though. You're a really good looking guy and despite the dumbasses and freaks you do it anyways
I think you are hot!
Finally back from visiting my buddy down in Austin - had a nice
time with him. he's a sexy handsome bearded daddybear.
hope everyone had some fun this past weekend ... sorry that i had to take down all the nudes i posted but got really turned off by jobman34's posting about sending my pics to women and that he and I should get together and perform oral on them. seems this guy has a fetish about moustaches and oral sex on women and most of his postings are along those lines -- fucking just turns me off and makes me wanna puke - ok on to better things heh... pic is of me in my suit.
^ wow, you look great in that pic. sorry about the turn-off post (kind of weirded me out too, and it didn't even concern me) but hope you'll continue to be a part of the community here!
just 'cause i'm shallow doesn't mean that i'm heartless
just 'cause i'm heartless doesn't mean that i'm mean
Youre gorgeous!! Id love to hang out sometime
thanks general and muscle... huggers
You're lookin' very sharp in a suit and tie.
Sorry to hear about the job loss. I feel for you because I'm in the same boat. Good luck to you and hope you find something soon.
thanks ghostbear ... i went on an interview today that i hope leads to something .,.. im an It support guy and its been so crazy out there,,, didnt think id be out of work for so long ....
ill take more pics eventually but will layoff the nudes for now..
Good luck with the interview... I hope you get the job.
good luck with the interview!
we mustn't forget the real world...
the fantasies can wait...