Dad: First, most of the mechanics of what you are going to be doing is in the pamphlets. So I want you to read them and then I want you to come talk to me about it. Deal?
Dad: Alright now. Hey, sit down! We are just getting started. Alright, for most guys, sex is just the sin we all want to do. You know, It's fun, feels great, but we are not really thinking too much about how it makes us feel on the inside or how the other person feels about it.
Kurt: And women are different?
Dad: Only because they get that it is about something more than just the physical. You know, when you are intimate with somebody, in that way, you're exposing yourself. Your never going to be more vulnerable. And that scares the hell out of a lot of people. Believe me, I can't tell you how many buddies I've got who have gotten way too deep with a girl who said that she was cool with just hooking up.
Kurt: But that is not going to happen to me, Dad.
Dad: No, it is going to be worse, because it is two guys. With two guys, you have two people who think sex is just sex. It is going to be easier to come by. And once you start doing this stuff, you are not going to want to stop. You got to know that it does mean something. You know, it is dong something to you: to your heart, to your self-esteem. Even though it feels like your just having fun.
Kurt: So you're saying that I shouldn't have sex.
Dad: I think on your 30th birthday, it is a great gift to yourself. (kidding) Kurt, when you're ready, I want you to be able to do everything. But when you're ready I want you to use it as a way to connect to another person. Don't throw yourself around like you don't matter. Cause you matter Kurt.
Kurt: Is that it?
Dad: That's it, for now. Can I make you some toast.
Kurt: I think that I will take it up to my room to eat while I look over my new pamphlets. Thank you Dad.
Dad: You're welcome.