Best friends dad

[supermanfan]

Hello everyone i need your thoughts on a situation that has been occurring well it all started at my best friends house. I have known my best friend for over 15 years now and his parents are the best but i recently came out to the three of them and it took a load of my back cause i dont have to hide anything anymore. Ever since then his dad has acted diferent around me when were alone and its happened alot recently a few examples would be:

i went over for my friends birthday and i was sitting in the living room drinking with my friend and he comes up to us stands right next to me and as he talks he starts rubbing himself i turned and saw him i looked up at him and he was staring right at me it caught me off guard my friend and i were watching tv when this happened.

another time i went over for my birthday they were taking me to diner so we leave to the restaurant as we eat he keeps accidentally kicking me and then excuses himself to go to the restroom

That is only two times it has happened many times that i dont even want to visit my friend anymore we tend to meet outside of his house.

I have to admit hes kinda hot and hung but hes my best friends dad

Any advice you guys can give me would be great. I want to tell my friend but i dont want him to think that i am the one that is trying to seduce or get his dad in bed. If you guys have any questions you can ask i dont mind. thanks in advance!

[shadowdancer89]

I agree that's really awkward. the only real definite advice i can give you though is do not tell your friend. it will cause so many more problems than its worth especially since nothing totally certain has happened yet. like you're doing, keep avoiding his dad and hopefully he wont get a chance to try anything properly...

[gustischafer]

Yes, I guess that would be awkward...

First of all, DON'T tell your friend. I agree with shadowdancer89, it will cause many problems.

I suppose you can always avoid him or just let him continue do what he's doing without letting him know that you notice. You could also talk to him and politely tell him to stop (if you're not interested).

[Maklaar13]

I agree with the other posts, keep it to yourself and avoid the dad as much as you can.

[joeG23]

Don't tell your friend, don't do anything with his dad. Try to avoid situations where you could be compromised, if he makes a pass tell him to back off - "I like you and respect you, and want to keep it that way." Try not to judge him, he may be struggling with his own demons/desires, but don't get involved if you value your friendship. If you have to tell him to back off, try and do it without destroying his dignity.

[travers]

WHAT??? Are you guys srs? GO FOR IT DUDE. Start dropping subtle hints, like dropping something and then bending over to pick it up so he can see ur ass. Brush up against his ass or crotch and then pretend it was an accident. Of course, ya, dont tell ur friend.

Take pics when it happens and dont forget to post em

Good luck

[superhard313]

I'd just keep doing what You're doing.Telling or friend would just complicate things and cause problems.Just pretend like You don't notice the little things his Dad is doing because he might just be teasing/egging you on.

[Kyanimal]

O.K. ... Sounds like "Dad" may have some issues!

I'd say ... be respectful, be polite, and ignore him as best you can. (Unless you find him as attractive as he seems to find You! )

Seriously, though ... unless you're looking to possibly ruin your friendship, with your Bud, DON'T go there!!

I'm more interested in whether, or not, you friend has been acting any differently since you came out to him.

Yes, "Dad" is exhibiting some changed behavior toward you. Some people equate Gay with available/promiscuous. And, "Dad" seems to have some interest in you. Since Gay/Bi genes supposedly run in families, I'm wondering if your friend has shown any similar signs of wanting to get "closer" to you, too.

Like some have already said, it may be time to set "Dad" straight in a dignified way. And, no, I wouldn't talk to your friend about it. That, in and of itself, would likely create problems that could prove to be too difficult to overcome.

This is, indeed, a touchy situation. It would be the best, for all involved, if you could resolve it quickly by letting "Dad" know that even though you may be his son's best friend, that doesn't extend to him, too.

I'm sincerely wishing You ALL the Very Best! And, hoping you find a considerate way to work this out.

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

[koibito24]

dont tell friend of dad's behavior. set dad straight when the chances arises. if it comes down to it, try and meet your friend elsewhere, and not in his home.

[slh72450]

I say go for it and continue to observe Dad's behavior. Sounds hot to me.

[Storybook_Man]

im going to have to agree with everyone but travers. talk to your friends father, tell him how you feel. explain that it has only been kept with you and won't go any further.

Don't tell your friend about what his father has been doing.

Address the issue, its the only way you are going to feel comfortable around his father again.

If it were me I would be on my knees sucking my friends father off lol.. But im just a whore when it comes to older hot, hung dads .

[sexsomniac]

As you have no feeling to reciprocate, I don't think it would be hard to deal with this man. You can either ignore his behaviors or tell him to stop doing it if he advance more. If all that fails, avoid him at all costs provided that you don't want to tell your friend.

[InkOfTruth]

Well first of all, I don't think those two times are enough to suggest anything. He might've been rubbing himself in that first situation, but he might have had an itched or you might have interpreted his touching a little differently. The kicking could just be accidental kicking.

Even if he directly expresses to you he's interested in doing stuff, I agree with most of the replies...don't do anything. It sounds like they have become your second family, would you want to jeopardize that good relationship?

[KingOfPain]

I swear to God I thought I read this same thread two weeks ago? Are you going to give us an update on how you two finally got the chance to spend an intimate moment together alone and had hot sweaty sex? At least I hope that's where this thread is going.

[thevofl]

I would tell him that his discrete but public advances are not appreciated. The best time to tell him is when your ankles are on his shoulders and he is pulling out.

[Storybook_Man]

I would tell him that his discrete but public advances are not appreciated. The best time to tell him is when your ankles are on his shoulders and he is pulling out.

hahahahaha

But Inkoftruth is right, who knows if they were advances. To be safe, dont say anything, and see where it goes. If he does it more then say something to him.

[underwearlover69]

to be honest we can only give you advice, if it makes you awkward then avoid the situation and act like nothing has happened, if you like the attention then you should act upon it but not to obviously, you still want to keep your friend, but your a human and holding in desire can be really hard and harmful to your mental state, so the decision is up to you.

[vijender]

If you are Gay yourself, it wouldn't be a problem(as long as you like him). I say go on and have a bit of fun. Just encourage him rather taking a step forward yourself.

[baldwin]

guys! Seriously!
That's his best friend's dad... He's a husband too!

Just tell the dad! Or who knows he's just make fun of you? Don't get things complicated by telling your friend about it...


Well, good luck...

[star-warrior]

Leave well alone, IMHO. Don't loose your friendship over a one time fling with his dad, not matter how much he flirts with you. His wife - your friend's mother also has feelings too, and if her husband can't keep his dick in his pants, you might be cast as the villain if their family falls apart.

[supermanfan]

Sorry for not updating guys but i have an update and i need some more advice!
well it happened again my friend got sick and ended up in the hospital so i went to visit him at the hospital he got an abciss (not sure how its spelled) and he got it removed. on my day off i spent the whole day with him i waited with him and his parents at the hospital when they called him in i stayed with his parents his mom is really nice his dad was also but i fell a little weirded out about him after coming out to them
he left to the restroom and i got the urge to go but waited till i saw him get out and when he was walking towards where we were sitting i got up and went to the restroom when i finished i was washing my hands and he comes in i got this rush through my body and got nervous he walked up to me and stood there i was so nervous he asked me how i was feeling i said i was fine that i knew everything would come out fine for my friend and he said that yes it would at this point as im drying my hands he presses up against me and i freak out when i can feel his penis against my butt i turned around and looked at him with a what the f@ck look on my face and he just stares at me i was really scared and left the restroom real quick i didnt even finish drying i just wiped my hands on my shorts
i left and quickly sat next to his wife she asked if theres was something wrong cause i looked kinda worried i said i was fine and that i was just worried about my friend when he got there he sat next to his wife and would glance at me from time to time when my friend came out i was so glad and told him i had to go that something had come up lo and behold his dad offered to give me a ride home i politely refused and called my sister who was able to pick me up

sorry i took so long guys this happened a week ago i cant take it anymore im meeting him in public and telling him what i think i am not telling my friend what happened hes gone through so much this week. wish me luck guys ill try and post the whole convo on the next update.

and thanks again for the advice guys you dont know how hard this is! no pun intended lol

[lunarus]

Okay after reading everything I have come to one conclusion...

He is hitting on you. You do not need to be def dumb and blind to see what he is doing doing. Also he is sexually harassing you. PERIOD. If you were female he would be in a world of trouble. I think he is doing the latter more than the former. Man wonder how he hit on his wife?!? But that is neither here nor there.

Can I ask a questions to clarify a bit...

How old are you?

This happened to me once and I handled it this way.

"I am truly flattered that you find me so intoxicating that you feel the need to grope and rub your crotch on me. Truly I am. But understand I cannot and will not reciprocate because I do not want to get tangled up with a confused man that has children and really does not know what he wants out of life. And please know this...(I got really close to him so I could press my body against his and whispered in his ear.) If I had half the nerve I would file charges against you for unwanted sexual advances and tell your wife. So please in the future keep you hands to yourself or you'll be wearing you nuts as a choker."

He stopped thankfully. But not after...oh never mind lol.

But your friends dad needs to either come out and tell you what he wants or stop with the damn touchy gropy shit. And unfortunately you will need to tell him to stop.

Keep your friend out of the loop for now unless things escalate to the point you cannot be around him without his unwanted advances.

Keep your chin up and you might need to get your back up to go at this guy. He seems like a real winner.

Lunar

[buddy1970]

Well, it's obvious that he's hitting on you, and it's obvious that you really don't want it. Do you have to spend time with your friend's family? I would avoid them at all costs. Your friend should come over your place from now on.

Be aware, however, that the excuses are going to run out at some point. If your friend wants to know why you won't spend time at his place any more, eventually you'll have to say something. Will he be satisfied with, "I'm just not comfortable there"?

If you're afraid of confrontation with this dad, why not write him an e-mail and just let him know to back off? You could even set up a temporary e-mail that you never use again, just in case you're afraid he might start pushing himself on you via e-mail. That might be the best option, then if that doesn't work, just don't go over there any more.

[agaymale]

Just be blunt and ask this guys dad directly and expect a direct answer. If you don't like his advances let him know. Be blunt and honest. Don't be namby pamby and avoid him, or step gingerly around him like the other advice you've gotten. You take the bull by the horns, none of the wishy washy games playing.

[Storybook_Man]

Okay after reading everything I have come to one conclusion...

He is hitting on you. You do not need to be def dumb and blind to see what he is doing doing. Also he is sexually harassing you. PERIOD. If you were female he would be in a world of trouble. I think he is doing the latter more than the former. Man wonder how he hit on his wife?!? But that is neither here nor there.

Can I ask a questions to clarify a bit...

How old are you?

This happened to me once and I handled it this way.

"I am truly flattered that you find me so intoxicating that you feel the need to grope and rub your crotch on me. Truly I am. But understand I cannot and will not reciprocate because I do not want to get tangled up with a confused man that has children and really does not know what he wants out of life. And please know this...(I got really close to him so I could press my body against his and whispered in his ear.) If I had half the nerve I would file charges against you for unwanted sexual advances and tell your wife. So please in the future keep you hands to yourself or you'll be wearing you nuts as a choker."

He stopped thankfully. But not after...oh never mind lol.

But your friends dad needs to either come out and tell you what he wants or stop with the damn touchy gropy shit. And unfortunately you will need to tell him to stop.

Keep your friend out of the loop for now unless things escalate to the point you cannot be around him without his unwanted advances.

Keep your chin up and you might need to get your back up to go at this guy. He seems like a real winner.

Lunar

I agree with what you said, but in this situation I wouldn't threaten charges against him. I would just go and talk to him, tell him how uncomfortable you are, and that you are not interested, otherwise it won't stop.

[baldwin]

Just an advice, well maybe you don't need it.... But I'll just say it... ==!
To start the conversation,

"You know I'm a gay, right?"

Guess that will ease the next steps... and good luck again to you...

[supermanfan]

well guys i got a load to drop on you guys!
we met in public i made sure people were around for safety we started talking well i started by telling him i did not appreciate what he was doing and that i wanted to keep my friendship with his son. he understood and said he was sorry and went on to explain why he did those things he told me that he and my best friends mom are divorced they divorced like ten years ago they just stayed together for my best friend this was a shock to me but i didnt believe him until he showed me the paperwork which i couldnt believe he still had it. he confessed that he is bisexual and has only been sexually with his wife and a one time fling with a friend he had in college he also confessed that he had fantasized about me before but never had the balls to tell me. i told him that i was flattered but that my friend meant more to me than a quick sexual fling he proposed that we go to a motel and fool around as he was not married i told him i didnt know and that i had to think about it we ate and left when we were leaving he calls me and i turn around and he standing there with it out it was just there i went up to him and i told him he had to stop doing that i cover him with my bag and he put it away but not before snapping a pic maybe ill post it he said he wasnt fully hard i didnt believe him i thought he was
did i do wrong by telling him i didnt know after all he isnt married anymore i dont know im also confused

[Kyanimal]

He may not be married, but he is STILL, and always will be, your best friend's Dad.

THINK about that ...

[Fat Tom]

He may not be married, but he is STILL, and always will be, your best friend's Dad.

THINK about that ...

I'd definitely let someone fuck my dad. Haha. I honestly wouldn't even be upset. I'd be much more upset about finding out that my parents had actually been divorced for ten years, and me not knowing. And, maybe I'm a little sneaky bastard, but honestly, how would your friend find out? I doubt your dad is going to immediately brag about it, etc etc etc. And all you would have to do is keep your mouth shut.

Also, Superman, PLEASE use at least some punctuation in your next post. They are becoming increasingly hard to read. And post the picture. haha

[agaymale]

i told him i didnt know and that i had to think about it

And therein lies your problem. You opened the door for him by saying you would think about it. A flat out no would have been better. If you don't appreciate his sexual advances then you should never say you'll think about it when he suggests getting a room. Because saying that you'll think about it makes me think that you in actuality don't mind the sexual advances if you are Thinking about it. Put things in proportion and perspective. He'll still go after you because you said you would think about it.

[koibito24]

And therein lies your problem. You opened the door for him by saying you would think about it. A flat out no would have been better. If you don't appreciate his sexual advances then you should never say you'll think about it when he suggests getting a room. Because saying that you'll think about it makes me think that you in actuality don't mind the sexual advances if you are Thinking about it. Put things in proportion and perspective. He'll still go after you because you said you would think about it.

^^^^agreed.

[notherenotnow99]

post the pic!

[CudDULL]

wow this thread is suspenseful wasn't thinking it was gonna turn out like this haha. i wonder whats next, please don't hook up with him, it so cliche.

[Luka]

just do him, what does it matter? why shuld ur best friend care anyway?

[thisisinteresting]

omg omg do it, this is hot. >_>

so hot.

[spiderhead]

He just pulled his penis out in the middle of a public place? If he's that ballsy with his sexuality I highly doubt he's only been sexual with his wife and some college fling. I mean, maybe it's just me but someone with advances that are that overt is probably someone who's made some sort of art out of banging young apprehensive college guys.

"Oh thanks for being honest with me during lunch and telling me that it makes you uncomfortable that I'm trying to bone your tight little ass. Seriously, I've never done this before except for that one time in college. Oh by the way......penis"

[supermanfan]

how do you post a picture on here?

ok i uploaded it to my profile but dont see a gallery tab in my profile any help?

[lunarus]

Goto my settings then on the left hand panel clickedit homepage settings and check gallery.

[supermanfan]

okay clicked it but still doesnt come out something must be wrong?

[lunarus]

And you hit the save button up under neath it, yes?

If you are still having issues go here or here.

If all that fails contact a MOD ^.^

[Storybook_Man]

My gallery thing has been like that for over a year now. I'm sure you will figure it out though, I just gave up after a couple minutes of trying. lol

I would say that now he is divorced I would have sex with him, but since you are still friends with his son, just drop it. And yeah you were wrong is saying I'll think about it. In most guys minds thats a yes, just with a little tease.

[buddy1970]

I think some of you are being too hard on supermanfan. He strikes me as a timid individual who is confronted with a much bolder, brasher, and older man. If a timid individual doesn't want to be confrontational, it's only natural that he would say, "I'll think about it," in order to get out of a difficult situation faster.

Again, I say, let him know exactly how you feel in an e-mail. If he doesn't leave you alone after that, stay away from him. He's pushing himself on a timid and unsure individual, and potentially dangerous (at least emotionally). If your friend wants to know why you don't get together at his house anymore, and you don't want to include him in this, just tell him that you're not comfortable around his family anymore, and that's that.

[boxerdudeuk]

i'm not sure i could look my friend OR my dad in the face again if something like that happened. what a shitty position for your friend to be in. do your friend a favour and don't go after the dad.

[supermanfan]

well i cant seem to figure it out so i got its url

http://justusboys.com/forum/userimag...9/4/334953.jpg

i swear i felt like holding it but refrained from doing so i couldnt stop looking

[sexsomniac]

^^OH MY MOTHER F* FLYING SPAGHETTI MONSTER, that thing is huge. You probably need diaper after fuck session. So, no , don't go for it.

Any face pic by the way?

[lunarus]

well i cant seem to figure it out so i got its url

http://justusboys.com/forum/userimag...9/4/334953.jpg

i swear i felt like holding it but refrained from doing so i couldnt stop looking

WOW is that him and if so what in hell possessed him to whip it out semi hard for a pic? O.o

[Luka]

DUDE! screw your best friend!! look at that cock and body...fuck id do anything to have that!

[NotAlice]

Supermanfan is a far more noble man than I. If I'd have seen him whip that thing out in front of me my knees probably would've involuntarily buckled.

Bravo though, not a lot of people follow through with a thread like this. You should be proud.


P.S. That shirt he's wearing is terrible. Make him get rid of it.

[wuthuk]

Hot I want more.

[buddy1970]

...i told him he had to stop doing that i cover him with my bag and he put it away but not before snapping a pic...

How did he snap a pic of himself without using his hands, and that far away from his own torso?

Dude, are you making this up? I'm done with this thread. Why didn't you post this in the "Gay Stories" forum?