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    Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    After you’re through laughing your way through the post about Asians having smaller cocks, here’s another one:
    “Based upon purely anecdotal evidence,” it seems to me that men with big cocks are more likely to be Tops, while men with smaller cocks (especially shorter men with smaller cocks) are far more likely to be bottoms. Is this all in my head, or has anyone else noticed this?
    Disclaimer: I am totally versatile, and I am equally attracted to both tops and bottoms. Also, if I made a list of the 100 most important qualities in a man that arouse my sexual interest, the size of his cock would be way down the list, somewhere around # 94. In fact, a sweet young man with a small frame, slender body and below average cock size generally arouses my interest more than beefy studs with monster cocks. So my post here is purely a matter of curiosity about an observed phenomenon.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Some of the biggest bottoms I know have the biggest cocks. I'd say there is no correlation.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    As a bottom, I feel more suited to the role because I have a smaller cock.

    Therefore when hunting tops, I like a hung one, so I know they're the top and I'm the bottom because I'm smaller in the manhood department.

    I think you are on to something

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Quote Originally Posted by treehappy View Post
    After you’re through laughing your way through the post about Asians having smaller cocks, here’s another one:
    “Based upon purely anecdotal evidence,” it seems to me that men with big cocks are more likely to be Tops, while men with smaller cocks (especially shorter men with smaller cocks) are far more likely to be bottoms. Is this all in my head, or has anyone else noticed this?
    Disclaimer: I am totally versatile, and I am equally attracted to both tops and bottoms. Also, if I made a list of the 100 most important qualities in a man that arouse my sexual interest, the size of his cock would be way down the list, somewhere around # 94. In fact, a sweet young man with a small frame, slender body and below average cock size generally arouses my interest more than beefy studs with monster cocks. So my post here is purely a matter of curiosity about an observed phenomenon.
    I am totally versatile, but unattracted to either tops or bottoms. If my guy were not versatile, I would not see the point. Having it just one way depletes my interest rapidly. It is like I need both to recharge. My guy is definitely very large, which I enjoy no matter what we are doing in bed. He might tend more towards "bottom" but by no means exclusively, and part of it was him being worried about hurting me due to his size. It is totally not an issue and now we enjoy each other completely top or bottom.

    I don't know about what is most likely because he's pretty much been the main meal deal in my life.

    It is not that I haven't noticed what you are talking about but since it is not part of my life, and I would not want it to be, I find it a little hard to believe. When I hear people thinking that way my first reaction is "Are you serious?"

    Anyway, interesting question.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    I know many bottoms who have huge dicks. I think it's because there are so many guys who can't handle a big dick so they have trouble finding sex partners. Therefore, in order to be sexually satisfied, they turn to bottoming.

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    I've known many bottoms with large cocks. I think it's all a matter of preference when it comes to sexual activity: guys who are bottoms ARE bottoms because they love the way penetration feels.
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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Quote Originally Posted by lonnie1 View Post
    I know many bottoms who have huge dicks. I think it's because there are so many guys who can't handle a big dick so they have trouble finding sex partners. Therefore, in order to be sexually satisfied, they turn to bottoming.
    I think my bf has pretty much admitted he resigned himself to that. Fortunately I was up to the challenge.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Quote Originally Posted by treehappy View Post
    After you’re through laughing your way through the post about Asians having smaller cocks, here’s another one:
    “Based upon purely anecdotal evidence,” it seems to me that men with big cocks are more likely to be Tops, while men with smaller cocks (especially shorter men with smaller cocks) are far more likely to be bottoms. Is this all in my head, or has anyone else noticed this?
    Disclaimer: I am totally versatile, and I am equally attracted to both tops and bottoms. Also, if I made a list of the 100 most important qualities in a man that arouse my sexual interest, the size of his cock would be way down the list, somewhere around # 94. In fact, a sweet young man with a small frame, slender body and below average cock size generally arouses my interest more than beefy studs with monster cocks. So my post here is purely a matter of curiosity about an observed phenomenon.
    You're completely wrong on this one. Some small guys have enormous dicks. Some enormous dicks are bottoms (besides I can assure you most bottoms, except exceptions, cannot accomodate the real big dicks). Some microdicks are tops, but some cann't put it in. They are only a kiss to arse (can be very stimulating as getting rimmed).

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    i find big cock = top and small cock = bottom some what true. but I have had some huge/big cock guys bottom and not even want to top. So therefore its not 100% correct =).

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    I tend to agree with this as a GENERAL proposition. Like every such observations there are many exceptions.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Quote Originally Posted by treehappy View Post
    After you’re through laughing your way through the post about Asians having smaller cocks, here’s another one:
    “Based upon purely anecdotal evidence,” it seems to me that men with big cocks are more likely to be Tops, while men with smaller cocks (especially shorter men with smaller cocks) are far more likely to be bottoms. Is this all in my head, or has anyone else noticed this?
    Disclaimer: I am totally versatile, and I am equally attracted to both tops and bottoms. Also, if I made a list of the 100 most important qualities in a man that arouse my sexual interest, the size of his cock would be way down the list, somewhere around # 94. In fact, a sweet young man with a small frame, slender body and below average cock size generally arouses my interest more than beefy studs with monster cocks. So my post here is purely a matter of curiosity about an observed phenomenon.
    that just depends. i have seen that happen a lot, mostly cause its stereotypical. if people would just follow their natural instincts...i am sure we would see a lot more balance in the top bttm dept. while i am completely vers, i agree that i am attracted to more than just one type of man. i like the muscular, the tall, the beefy. and cock size is not important when the performance is great. lol.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    i personally find smaller bottoms with small cocks really hot

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    A friend of mine from Seattle years ago said just the opposite.

    When he was sleeping around, all the tops had small dicks and the bottoms had big ones.

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    The last couple guys I've topped have been HUGE---and pretty much total bottoms.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Quote Originally Posted by alley View Post
    The last couple guys I've topped have been HUGE---and pretty much total bottoms.
    And, from what I've heard, you are just as HUGE as they are.....

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Quote Originally Posted by alley View Post
    The last couple guys I've topped have been HUGE---and pretty much total bottoms.
    While I've also anecdotally seen the same as the OP, this is true for me as well. I'm vers and of average size and the last guy I hooked up with was a total bottom with a HUGE dick, much bigger than mine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NineOfClubs View Post
    And, from what I've heard, you are just as HUGE as they are.....
    Bit more than average---nothing to worry about. Have not maimed anyone as yet.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Agree that there are some big dicked bottoms..but I still think that smaller guys tend more towards bottom

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    I don't really care about the boy's cock as far as the sexappeal is interested. First eyes, face, smile... mind, nature, character... somewhere below is body ... and cock size is really somewhere at the bottom of the list.

    But i remember listening to two submissives/bottoms - "I went with that guy, but it was terrible. His cock was so small, i really wonder how he even dare to call himself Master. He should be a bitchboy" That really got me wondering about these two... but on other hand when they like fisting, they probably need something bigger to even feel it.

    About a year before, i was glad that the top that fucked me had only 2.5cm-thick dick, because i had a long pause in bottoming around it.. and now i think i would maybe not feel it at all since i'm playing with 5.5 cm dildo regulary...
    Dr. Seuss - Be who you are, and say what you think: Those who care, don't matter; and those who matter, don't care.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Reminds me of a line in a novel by Casimir Dukahz -- something about being fucked by a boy with a small dick,

    "It felt like a housefly fluttering its eyelashes."

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    "Evidence?" Kinda stretchin' that word ain't'cha?
    You're just a ball of yarn and this pussy is done playing with you


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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Seems that many like to put dick size ahead of masculinity. Many guys I fucked would prefer servicing a man who has a small dick over servicing a fem that had a huge one. Many of the versatiles I fucked Topped the less masculine men and bottommed for the men who were more masculine than themselves. Cock size was secondary.

    Then there are those(both "men" and fems) that like to get fucked by fems and/or she-males and/or suck them off.

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    I'm a bottom with a tiny cock. I know most of the top men that fuck me totally ignore it. Or they tease/humiliate me about it.
    I dont think there is a clear cut correlation..

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    I'm a top and have a bigger cock than most of my partners, but a friend of mine is a bottom and absolutely huge.
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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    im 7 inches(not big, but not small) but i love being a bottom

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    Quote Originally Posted by floridaboy View Post
    im 7 inches(not big, but not small) but i love being a bottom
    I agree, it's not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean

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    Re: Big Cock = Top; small cock = bottom

    The last one is the truth in my case

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