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    Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    My boyfriend and I were having anal sex for the first time today. I have a really tight hole, and he was able to go in a little in some positions, but when I laid on my stomach he got in but after just a short time he hit the side and it hurt. I said "I feel like I'm bleeding" and ran to the bathroom, and passed out for a quick minute(s). Before/afterwards, my head as really dizzy, I couldn't see much, and I heard ringing in my ears for a few.

    There was no blood or anything, it just hurt and I got weird. I looked this up and I wonder if it's because I didn't eat anything at all today, I didn't drink really any water today, and I am a worry wart and was really stressed about it inside. Also could be cause on top of that the blood all circulated to the front of my head - so when I got up it made me pass out?

    Note: I was not drunk or high (I don't drink or smoke) and we had a condom and ky jelly.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Maybe you fainted or got up to fast. Sometimes when I get up really super fast from lying flat I black for a split second but come back before i hit the ground(or wall, except for that 1 time). Were you hyperventilating?

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Dude you passed out b/c u didn't eat or drink anything all day, plp pass out all the time due to this and its dangerous not to eat or drink all day. Also don't freak out about the pain, take your time, eat to have energy and go slow you will be fine in the end. If you are tight it will take time, my friend worked on a guy for 45mins before he could penatrate without pain and then the guy had the most amazing sex of his life. Calm down, relax, eat and u will be fine

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    You really think that's it? Like its because I didn't eat or drink anything, was held over too long, and on top of it was really stressed? I was hyperventilating a little when I ran and sat on the toilet cause I didn't know what was going on (that's when things started to get hot, my eyes were closing and the ringing in my ears began). Before the anal sex I was nervous.

    I just want to know how much of it has to do with the fact that he has a big dick and I have a tight virgin hole. Like will we be able to have anal sex and what should I try before we do it again? Because he was so nervous today when I got better (I was only "off" for like 10min. tops) he was almost crying.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    If I skip a meal I start getting gant and weak all over. You have to eat or your blood sugar can drop like a rock and you will get light headed or even pass out.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Swim69mer View Post
    I just want to know how much of it has to do with the fact that he has a big dick and I have a tight virgin hole.
    Absolutely, positively, nothing. It's all psychodrama in your head.

    And why for the love of god would you go all day without eating and then question why you are lightheaded?

    Relax.

    Relax.

    Relax.

    The "tight hole" thing is porno bullshittery. Your butthole is no more loose or non-loose if you are an anal "virgin" (god I hate that ridiculous, stupid term "virgin" applied to gay men) or if you have had anal sex a dozen times. The only difference is you can learn to relax faster than those whom have never experienced anal sex.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    True, and I noticed this week I went without breakfast and maybe only had one meal or two and they were at night.

    So what do you think it was? Mostly my nerves, no food/water, and the blood pressure thing? I do think his dick moved way too much to the right at one part - that did hurt.

    I have to ask, how do I open up my hole and make it so that anal sex really doesn't hurt. Obviously it's going to more than likely hurt cause its still like my first time.

    Also is it true grinding/mashing fresh mint leaves and rubbing them on (a little inside) my hole will make the sex easier?

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Use a better lube than KY and do not be stingy with it. Since it is your first time, you want a well greased hole. Take it slow and like the rest of the guys said, relax and it will feel good.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Like what lube do you recommend, and did you ever grind/mash fresh mint leaves until it was like a paste form and did that help? Yeah we really didn't take it slow, kept trying to put it in to about halfway.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Ok, you can't get fucked unconscious.

    Use a good silicone lube, relax, breathe, gently push out and he's gotta take some time. Even if there IS a little blood... it's nothing to worry about.. a tiny blood vessel bursting never hurt anyone, and the chances of that happening are slim.

    Just take your time and relax. A dick up the ass isn't going to cause any damage to you.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Swim69mer View Post

    Also is it true grinding/mashing fresh mint leaves and rubbing them on (a little inside) my hole will make the sex easier?
    No.

    what the fuck are they teaching in schools these days?

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    dude, you just gotta take it slow. and i can tell your nervous as hell, relax............... breathe. it'll be fine.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Patience, patience, technique, technique. I am seeing a sexy professional woman currently and she is into anal sex, in fact orgasms no differently to vaginal sex. She is one of the few women I've had anal with who does orgasm intensly. She has a tiny orifice. Normally she'll lie face down and I part her buttocks and lick the anus. I then apply platinum wet lube, lots of it, and gently finger her inside until she is loosened up. I then put lube on my cock and as I withdraw a finger slip my cock inside her rectum very slowly until she accepts my full length and I can begin thrusting deeply. Often times she'll then want to lie on her back facing me as she gets maximum pleasure with me fucking her with her legs splayed. She gets a little sore sometimes but that is more because of my size and she always feels elated after, in fact wants more!

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Dude ----
    the anus should be exit only.

    I would advise against anal sex.

    You're fainting had more to do with no food, water and getting up suddenly with blood rushing to your head. I wouldn't worry about that.

    But seriously reconsider the anal sex part. The a***hole is a very dirty place that should be exit only.

    Good Luck!

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by jktoooo View Post
    Dude ----
    the anus should be exit only.

    I would advise against anal sex.

    You're fainting had more to do with no food, water and getting up suddenly with blood rushing to your head. I wouldn't worry about that.

    But seriously reconsider the anal sex part. The a***hole is a very dirty place that should be exit only.

    Good Luck!
    Nobody asked you, troll.

    *ahem*

    Just take it slow, guy. AND EAT.

    You gotta eat.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Matter Of Splatter View Post
    Nobody asked you, troll.

    *ahem*

    Just take it slow, guy. AND EAT.

    You gotta eat.

    LOL!

    Nobody asked me? Hilarious.

    The OP'er started this string asking EVERYONE!

    Or do you think he just asked only YOUR advice?

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by jktoooo View Post
    Dude ----
    the anus should be exit only.

    I would advise against anal sex.

    You're fainting had more to do with no food, water and getting up suddenly with blood rushing to your head. I wouldn't worry about that.

    But seriously reconsider the anal sex part. The a***hole is a very dirty place that should be exit only.

    Good Luck!
    Oh great. Now I understand why you were singing the praises of Anne Coulter in the Politics Forum.




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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jasun View Post
    Oh great. Now I understand why you were singing the praises of Anne Coulter in the Politics Forum.




    Gentlemen, we have a g0y in our presence. (You can find the ignore setting on his personal info page.)
    ah, such tolerance from the tolerance loving leftists libs.

    so refreshing!


    lmao!

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Give it a rest, dear. nobody cares about your politics here. This thread was about if anal sex could make you pass out.

    It can't.

    There are lots of men and women who like to play with their asses and have never had any problems at all. And in fact... massaging a man's prostate has been shown to have many health benefits... so it's not an exit only. God made it feel so good so you'd do it more often.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by jktoooo View Post
    Dude ----
    the anus should be exit only.

    I would advise against anal sex.

    You're fainting had more to do with no food, water and getting up suddenly with blood rushing to your head. I wouldn't worry about that.

    But seriously reconsider the anal sex part. The a***hole is a very dirty place that should be exit only.

    Good Luck!
    Well then riddle me this, why is it that men have the most nerve endings in their ass. And also why the male G-Spot is located in the ass? Hmmm. Vaginas are a dirty place and even they take some cleaning before entry

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jasun View Post
    Give it a rest, dear. nobody cares about your politics here. This thread was about if anal sex could make you pass out.

    It can't.

    There are lots of men and women who like to play with their asses and have never had any problems at all. And in fact... massaging a man's prostate has been shown to have many health benefits... so it's not an exit only. God made it feel so good so you'd do it more often.
    and I addressed that "dear". I said his fainting most likely had NOTHING to do with the anal sex.

    and further, I gave my advice to reconsider having anal sex as it is very obvious it is a very dirty area.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Gengar7s View Post
    Well then riddle me this, why is it that men have the most nerve endings in their ass. And also why the male G-Spot is located in the ass? Hmmm. Vaginas are a dirty place and even they take some cleaning before entry
    look, the fact of the matter is the anus is dirty. sh%$ comes out of there.

    How much dirtier can something get?

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Gengar7s View Post
    Vaginas are a dirty place and even they take some cleaning before entry
    there's an entirely different purpose for a vagina to be entered.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Gengar7s View Post
    Well then riddle me this, why is it that men have the most nerve endings in their ass. And also why the male G-Spot is located in the ass? Hmmm. Vaginas are a dirty place and even they take some cleaning before entry
    My ignore list is now +1.

    Gengar, you do know that the "God'ies" in some cases believe that the "perfect" human ala Adam and Eve, needed no butthole since they processed food "perfectly" and therefore had no need for a waste function.

    Crazy is as crazy does.

    We still have Flat Earth believers and Young Earth cretins still bleating over one another on right wing talk radio, so what can you expect?

    To the OP:

    Use a silicone lube, not water based. And why would you stick mint leaves up your butt? I'm not sure if the oil from mint leaves is even safe for condoms, my guess is no.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by jktoooo View Post
    and I addressed that "dear".
    Yes, you did.

    Sadly, you're too prudish to be called "dude" and too uptight to be called "man."

    Real men, even many of my straight friends, play with their asses.

    It's only the guys who get called "dear" who are too [insert adjective here] to do it.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Right glad to see we have gotten so off topic here, guys everyone is entitled to their opinion and whether we agree with it or not has nothing to do with the question at hand.

    Swim68mer its all about taking your time and being ready, both of you being ready. The first time I had sex it was amazing and didn’t hurt at all, my first had an average size dick and he knew what he was doing and everything was fine. Now I know what I’m doing and my current boy friend has a large dick and at first we had to go slow but now I know how to take it and it goes fine. Tips for the both of you, go slow, really make a night out of it, lots of fingering, relax have him massage you and enjoy yourselves do not rush it. Try different positions and see what works best, some guys prefer one or another to get it in and then change to a different position to get fucked. As he enters breath out, slow and steady this will help the penetration go easier, then take it slow, more lube and breathe, never hold your breath makes it harder. Make sure you had something to eat as well that day so you have energy, remember sex is an active activity! I’ll be more then happy to give u more tips and discuss concerns/fears if this forum continues to go off topic, just private me and good luck, the wait will be worth it!!

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jasun View Post
    Yes, you did.

    Sadly, you're too prudish to be called "dude" and too uptight to be called "man."
    LOL!

    whatever.

    lmao
    whatever makes you feel better about yourself.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Simon25 View Post
    Right glad to see we have gotten so off topic here, guys everyone is entitled to their opinion and whether we agree with it or not has nothing to do with the question at hand.
    look, he's obviously worried about Anal sex. I assured him his passing out was most likely NOT to do with anal sex. But, if he chooses to do engage in anal sex, that's his business.

    All I'm simply saying is reconsider it.

    When I USED to engage in it, it hurt, I had serious problems. now that I DON'T engage in it I don't have issues down there at all. combine that with the dirty factor and the risk of contracting aids.....I mean come on!

    Oh, and Moltenrock....if I am the +1 on your ignore list, I sure hope it makes you feel better about yourself. You probably did both of us a favor, though I am not into censoring others. censoring others is something those from the left love to get involved in.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    I'm just curious by what u mean by the dirty factor...I have always been very clean as in no fecal matter or smells or anything during or after sex and yes for each person the feeling and dirty factor is different...and no i don't clean it out anyway i let nature take care of that. As for the aids things thats a different story with lots to say that this thread is not about.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Simon25 View Post
    I'm just curious by what u mean by the dirty factor...I have always been very clean as in no fecal matter or smells or anything during or after sex and yes for each person the feeling and dirty factor is different...and no i don't clean it out anyway i let nature take care of that. As for the aids things thats a different story with lots to say that this thread is not about.
    Since I can't read the troll's schtick, the vast majority of morons who talk about it being "dirty" have no idea how the body works and the difference between the rectum and the colon.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Sorry now i was the one to get off topic -

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Simon25 View Post
    I'm just curious by what u mean by the dirty factor...I have always been very clean as in no fecal matter or smells or anything during or after sex and yes for each person the feeling and dirty factor is different...and no i don't clean it out anyway i let nature take care of that.
    well, quite frankly, you said it.....but I'll say it in a different manner: sh&% comes out of that hole. I don't know what people here think, but sh*&* is NOT clean.

    Plus, the pain....the burning. Then afterwards.....the hole get's all messed up.

    Quote Originally Posted by Simon25 View Post
    As for the aids things thats a different story with lots to say that this thread is not about.
    the whole AIDS thing is nothing to be taken lightly. It is a serous consideration to the conversation of anal sex. I don't appreciate how you are kind of discounting that factor.

    Look, the OP'er said it hurt, and obviously the OP'er has concerns about having anal sex.
    I'm just saying reconsider having anal sex.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Just my two cents--anal sex *can* be so intense that you'll pass out, just because of the pressure and the stretch on body parts that aren't used to taking it. It's just a matter of getting used to it, or, well, being so aware of what's happening to you that you just might pass out from how good it feels.

    Yes, yes, I know. I'm a chick and it's slightly different. But I've certainly had that happen (and have had a girlfriend or two saying they've experienced the same). Mostly it's been directly connected to the orgasms, though, and the stimulation just reaching its peak (I've only ever passed out from anal orgasms, so going by my experience, it has a lot to do with the anal nerves and muscles, though).

    Silicon lube might last well, but it can destroy condoms. Any water-based thick lubes will do fine and you just need to relax. It's good to push lube in with your fingers first and stretch yourself out--just get as much lube up you as possible. I've found it helpful if after initial penetration (just the first thrusts that go past the deeper muscle), the dick/toy is pulled out and more lube is applied on it. Then it should be a smooth slide.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Silicone lube is actually more condom safe than water based lubes.

    (It's Petroleum based that will damage condoms)

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Almost all silicone lubes on the market today are condom safe, and say so right on the bottle. No matter what lube you buy always look for the the CE approval logo for condom safe endorsement.

    Oil based lubes destroy condoms and should not be used.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    To sum up... there are four kinds of lube.



    1) Water Based. Gay men don't need it. It's only for body parts like a vagina that are self-lubricating. Asses are not.

    2) Silicone Based. Best for anal sex because your ass isn't self-lubricating and the Silicone doesn't dry up. It's condom-safe and will not harm the mucus membranes in your rectum.

    3) Oil or Petroleum-based lubes. Great for jacking off but DO NOT USE for anal sex. It will dissolve condoms and damage the mucus membranes in your ass.

    4) Flavoured lubes. Only for a novelty and only for oral sex. They have sugar or sweeteners in them and will cause yeast infections and skin irritations if you use them anally or vaginally if you have sex with women.



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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Swim69mer View Post
    Also is it true grinding/mashing fresh mint leaves and rubbing them on (a little inside) my hole will make the sex easier?
    Quote Originally Posted by Jasun View Post
    No.

    what the fuck are they teaching in schools these days?
    Really what are they teaching kids call all that would do is leave your ass minty fresh?

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    It would make your ass sting, actually.

    to soothe it, try aloe vera gel.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    K, buggrit, I have been duly corrected. I think I may have been thinking of the effects silicon lube can have on some toys. I'd still say water-based lubes are fine for anal if they're thick enough. Thin ones and flavoured ones are bloody useless.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    OH.. if you want a good ass toy that silicone lube won't hurt, go check out what Ox Balls is doing.. some of the coolest dildos ever and they're 100% silicone so silicone lube won't harm them.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    u had a vasovagal episode - same principle as guys who faint when they pee or poop

    next question
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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jasun View Post
    Oh great. Now I understand why you were singing the praises of Anne Coulter in the Politics Forum.




    Gentlemen, we have a g0y in our presence. (You can find the ignore setting on his personal info page.)
    Ann Coulter and anti-butt propaganda?
    This person has a baaaaaad outlook on life and is way too negative. ew.

    Oh and Jasun, I've learned lube! Thanks oh lubey one!

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by wraithsa View Post
    u had a vasovagal episode - same principle as guys who faint when they pee or poop

    next question
    there ya go. I think you passed out because you THOUGHT you might be bleeding.
    Now with more "e"!

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mattzrider View Post
    Ann Coulter and anti-butt propaganda?
    This person has a baaaaaad outlook on life and is way too negative. ew.

    Um.....many of you are encouraging this person to engage in a potentially dangerous activity and I'm the one with a bad outlook?

    Wow! What a warped mindset.

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    Re: Why did I pass out after anal sex?

    The same thing happened to me but it was because of extended pleasure...like a good sleeping pill =P

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