Hi all...I've had anal sex twice now (bottoming), and both times it was interesting. I can't get over the sensation that I need to have a BM during sex. It feels like i'm just going to shit all over the place once he pulls out...and i've heard horror stories from friends of just that happening (of course i'm making sure i'm clean)
I know its natural to feel that, as that's what the ass is made for, but I can't seem to get over that hurdle into a pleasurable feeling. I know how great it can be thanks to my finger lol, but with sex it never seems too great...anyone else have this problem or advice?
I know I could just prefer topping also, but I wanted to see if anyone felt the same way.