So, I am still extremely new to the whole gay sex scene and I've recently encountered some very unpleasant surprises along the way. I haven't decided to experiment with the whole "bottoming" position yet, so instead I prefer to top. I've had sex with three different guys so far (safe of course) and each and every time, I've had a problem with shit on my dick. Some instances worse than others. The first time i topped, the guy literally took a baby shit on me The second guy, midway through the sex, I look down and see poop on the condom, and the third guy there was just a strong odor and a brownish color on the condom. All of these guys have been out for years and have had plenty of experience with gay sex, so one would assume that at least one of these three men would be clean and prepared, right? Is this something that normally happens during sex or do I just have really bad luck? Not only is it gross, but the odor is unbearable and one time it even got on my bed sheets. It has stopped the sex each time because how am I supposed to continue going at it when I can see and smell shit? I've learned to move the sex to the shower which has turned out to be awesome but i'd the reason for the shower to be cleaning off the sweat and cum off our bodies, not rushing to the bathroom to clean the shit off my dick.
So basically, is this normal or do I just have really bad luck? I have fairly high standards, so these guys aren't some random slobs, they take care of themselves....or so i thought. It's irritating, gross, and unsanitary for this to happen during sex and it's beginning to turn me off to the entire idea of gay sex. Does anybody else have these issues?