Bottoms that don't get hard.

[CallMeHTD]

I have one for you guys- does anyone else get turned on by bottoms who stay flacid while getting fucked? I don't know why, but I LOVE seeing that. Love seeing a huge cock plow a tight little ass, love seeing the duality of a big erect cock fucking the hole of a bottom who's unerect cock looks tiny in comparison. It's even better when the bottom doesn't get himself off in the scene. It's all about the top and his dick plowing hole until he cums. Awesome.

I guess it's kind of personal for me. One of my occasional favorite things to do is service a guy and completely ignore myself in the process. Sometimes I even keep my clothes on, while I give total head-to-toe mouth service to a man until he shoots. So I guess it's the total submissive thing for me that gets me off.

Anyone else feel this way?

[thevofl]

i always lose my hard-on while getting fucked. Come to think of it, i don't pay too much attention to my dick while getting fucked.

[Letterbomb]

I have one for you guys- does anyone else get turned on by bottoms who stay flacid while getting fucked? I don't know why, but I LOVE seeing that. Love seeing a huge cock plow a tight little ass, love seeing the duality of a big erect cock fucking the hole of a bottom who's unerect cock looks tiny in comparison. It's even better when the bottom doesn't get himself off in the scene. It's all about the top and his dick plowing hole until he cums. Awesome.

If the top is hot, yeah.

One of my occasional favorite things to do is service a guy and completely ignore myself in the process. Sometimes I even keep my clothes on, while I give total head-to-toe mouth service to a man until he shoots. So I guess it's the total submissive thing for me that gets me off.

Me too! But I do get hard, and if not, my hand, or the hand of my partner can help off

[nickymaz]

Wow, awesome fetish! Really hot.

[Storybook_Man]

when I do bottom, I usually stay soft. My mind is to much on the thing going in and out haha.

[dkuk]

i understand the submisive aspect, i too love sucking my bfs cock and him not touching me, but i hate seeing porn when the guy getting fucked is soft. i prefer it when they are really hard - to me it shows they're really getting off on being fucked!

[bulge]

Most bottoms get flaccid when they get fucked. It seems it is a normal physical reaction as was once explained to me. I don't know. I also think the contrast between top and bottom can be quite exciting, although I prefer the bottom to be stiff. Speaking about the contrast between top and bottom I have to say equal guys deciding freely to breal all equality between them, one acting as Master and the other as slave, is a total turn-on for me. Seeing a guy able to submit and the other having enough self-control and sense to dominate in a way the slave never has to use the password is a total turn on for me.

I am also perfectly able to service a guy without him needing to service me. I don't need the other guy making me cum because I did make him cum. Besides I like to see a guy relax after I made him cum and enjoy the moment after.

[Spazz04]

When i bottom i usually am so turned on that im rock hard... but funny is my bf doesn't get hard when i top him but ends up pouring cum, i don't know why i have always associated cumming to hard cocks but i did.

[Matt37]

I agree dkuk!

[hardkinkyboi]

I like seeing guys that stay soft when they get fucked too. It is about the submissive thing. They are the recepticals for the tops pleasure not the ones to be pleasured.

That's a good thing about http://www.straighthell.net/ The bottoms always stay soft. They are straight so really aren't enjoying the experience and couldn't get hard.

[CallMeHTD]

That being said, I DO enjoy making a bottom cum by the sheer force of my fucking him.

HardKinkyBoi, that IS also hot. I always dig those flicks where the bottoms wear jockstraps and never even take their penis out. Better yes, I get off on seeing a bottom get fucked wearing a pair of white briefs that have a hole cut out in the ass... VERY hot.

[Huntneo(PT)]

Hot thread...

I always stay soft when I'm getting banged, as I'm focused on my ass and my partner's equipment.

I love the whole submissive deal also. I love a guy who can put me in my place when having sex. I like being picked up, roughed around a little, etc.

It's HOT!

[Shepherd 2]

I am not like that, for any sexual touch anywhere on my body and I have a woody for the duration. If that turns anyone off, that is too bad, it is not a choice or a chore, it is just the way it is.

Shep+

[Blk_Thickness]

Naw, I like the bottom to stay hard, when they are getting fucked. I stay hard when I am bottoming and like to play with my dick.

[headhunter71]

i stay hard as rock the whole time i'm being fucked, even after i cum.

[rickdboy]

Varies for me - I mostly stay soft when being fucked - the whole rush of feeling is coming from my my prostate, my rim and the whole perenium, which glows almost hot. On occassions I stay hard for a while but mostly I get overwhelmed by my partner's big fat cock nd just adore it when he comes inside me .. if I could swallow all of him at that point I would. I don't need to ejaculate to feel incredibly fullfilled.

[Jihiro]

I always hate seeing that in porn, it seems to me the bottom isn't enjoying it at all. (no offense intended of course, simply my opinion)

[outbacguy]

how do you handle the situation of your bottom being rock hard, cumming on insertion, then not wanting to help finish?

[CallMeHTD]

Some bottoms don't mind th fucking to continue even after they have already come. But then there are some who can't take it once they have already ejaculated.

Just like any sexual situation, if one partner cums first it's good ettiquette for that partner to help the other partner get off as well.

If you are topping a guy and he cums first and doesn't want you to continue topping him, he can blow you, jerk you off, or help you get off as you jerk yourself.

[radioian]

Yeah, Im soft with my partner shagging me--unless he plays with my cock as well...................the ultimate pleasure..............being fucked and sucked............

[dkuk]

surely ultimate pleasure is being fucked, sucked .....and sucking!!

[radioian]

yeah!..........

[Matt37]

I stay hard when I bottom. If the guy doesn't stay hard when I top, I feel that I have not done my part to help him enjoy getting fucked!

[subobj]

Yeah, I love the whole submissive side of it too. It's one of my longstanding fantasies to have dominant partner who fucks me senseless on regular basis but prefers that I don't cum during or soon afterward.

I can imagine him saying things like "Why would you want to cum? Didn't I fuck you good enough?"

[petereater]

I much prefer the bottom to be hard as well. I am a bottom and am always hard when getting topped. I don't stoke it or play with it, it is just hard from the contact with another man. I actually think it is kind of odd when a guy isn't hard and getting fucked, cause I wonder if he is actually into it or not. Different people, different reactions I guess.

[-Lance-]

I would rather my bottom have a hard on, so i can do a reach-around and jack him off.

[tider39]

I love it when the bottom has a very tiny cock which stays soft (like Jessee Martin) while the top is all stud who is huge and very hard (like Alex Wilcox)

[CallMeHTD]

SubOBJ, my submissive inner-bottom just got very, VERY turned on.

Yeah, I love the whole submissive side of it too. It's one of my longstanding fantasies to have dominant partner who fucks me senseless on regular basis but prefers that I don't cum during or soon afterward.

I can imagine him saying things like "Why would you want to cum? Didn't I fuck you good enough?"

[slnattak]

Hmm. No I don't like this sorry. I want bottoms to be hard when I'm fucking them...

[hardkinkyboi]

VERY hot video of a bottom getting fucked while soft here:

http://***********.blogspot.com/2008...-str8-guy.html

[SUP3R B0i]

i normally lose my hard on while fucking unless its some real good sex

[elvin1]

I can't stay soft if I'm bottoming. It's impossible for me. I get hard in anticipation. I don't lose my erection at all until it's ALL over.
I would find it weird if my dude didn't get hard while I am topping. It would make me think that he's not into it or not enjoying it.

[SUP3R B0i]

i normally lose my hard on while fucking unless its some real good sex

while bottoming that is

[maxibutt]

I always get hard when I'm being fucked. I usually come this way too...

[smoothebottom]

when im getting fucked im usually in such a state of ectasy that my dick is usually soft.
sometimes i can keep it hard though.
i still cum without touching myself every time i get fucked though

[maxibutt]

I can still remember the first time I stroked my ass thoroughly - and how quickly my cock got hard when I put something in it. It's just the way I'm wired I guess.

Here is my gallery which shows you what I mean...

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/view...butts-homepage

[lacali]

I stay hard when I bottom... But love it when I top and they get soft... Love it in porn and there doing doggy style and he's soft and his cock and balls are flying banging everywhere.. Hot..

[vanillalove]

My ex-stayed hard but I'd only known him a few times cum from anything other than prostate stimulation.

I'd always make sure he came first too though because I'd feel guilty otherwise and he seemed to like that.

Also he didn't ever seem bothered by the fact that I'd continue after he'd came but he was quite submissive and even if he didn't like he, he probably wouldn't have said anything...

Still makes me think.

EDIT: But to answer the question I don't mind either way but I must admit, don't particularly like seeing it where one of the guys doesn't cum. Makes me think that they were just there as a device for the other to use to get off and to me that's not what it's about. Just me though

[rawTOP]

I like bottoms that stay soft when I'm fucking them. Especially if they have really little dicks - somehow that just makes them seem more like a bottom... On the other hand I like it when they're hard too. What I hate is when they insist on stroking their dick and their arm is getting in the way of me fucking them...

[pucker]

a) i think its selfish for a top to consider the bottom his fuckhole and the pleasure is all about him
b) i think it is also selfish if the bottom deliberately comes too quick and then disappoints the top by refusing to take any more dick
c) i think scenes where the dick size difference is extreme can be very hot...i think of matt gunther fucking a guy names nick leontini-could be misspelled-in a vid called first mate...i mean ten inches to two inches!
d) if the top has no desire to touch the bottom's dick,then i think the bottom should play with his dick...but carefully..so as to not come too soon...i can't imagine getting pleasure from getting fucked only...with no dick arousal at all. that's why it is a very tricky deal to stay hard but not come.
e) i love it when the bottom says-" fuck the come out me!"...and then that's exactly what happens as they both come simultaneously...a perfect fuck!
of course every fuck is NOT a perfect fuck...but isn't that what every fuck should aim for???

[PrinceOwen]

I am one of those guys i never get hard while i am being fucked.

[creeper69]

i think the hottest thing is having a hard, big cocked bottom ride me wild and having his cock bouncing all over and slapping my stomach. HOTT!!!

[peterluv2toss]

My cock has never been in a woman's pussy or man's ass. It's been in a girls mouth and thats it. But when i'm getting pounded on all fours, i need to cup my balls otherwise the sheer force make my cock sway side to side causing it to get hard, but if i cup it it goes a little hard but not rock hard. i have no need for sex but enjoy being used for sex.

[inner_voice]

generally i dont want to have a strong hard on as i like having sex and sex games for hours. if i am really hard i might cum and that's will make me loose my interest for more fun (for a few minutes i guess :P)

let's not forget the psychological aspect of submission. i remember one of my first sex experiences with a man, althought i wasnt hard and didnt cum at all (at that point) i kept wanting more and more...

i guess it depends...

[KalEilde]

When I'm enjoying the fucking I'm getting I stay hard without any effort or thought or even awareness. I don't think it's a prostate thing, I think it's lusty happiness and the thrill of sex!

[carlmurphy]

^^Not for me. It takes a lot to keep me hard when I'm getting fucked and getting fucked is almost my favorite (my favorite is being ravished). And even a lot will not keep me hard through the entire pounding. I've never cum while being fucked. i can't even imagine it. My entire being is focused on the internal massage I'm getting.

[FierceBoy]

Some guys prefer it.

For example the "straight" men in Turkey who like to fuck camp boys. If you're soft that means you're more pssive to them and that turns them on.

[JustMe891]

I have one for you guys- does anyone else get turned on by bottoms who stay flacid while getting fucked? I don't know why, but I LOVE seeing that. Love seeing a huge cock plow a tight little ass, love seeing the duality of a big erect cock fucking the hole of a bottom who's unerect cock looks tiny in comparison. It's even better when the bottom doesn't get himself off in the scene. It's all about the top and his dick plowing hole until he cums. Awesome.

I guess it's kind of personal for me. One of my occasional favorite things to do is service a guy and completely ignore myself in the process. Sometimes I even keep my clothes on, while I give total head-to-toe mouth service to a man until he shoots. So I guess it's the total submissive thing for me that gets me off.

Anyone else feel this way?

Think I know what you mean, very close to this side of rape?

[JakeJakeson]

Like someone said, I'd get hard in anticipation. Then, being the very submissive bottom that I am, as soon as I get grabbed or ordered around, there's going to be no getting soft after that.

[simple-kinda-guy3040]

Very interesting thread.... Very cool to see everyone's differing viewpoints... I am a top and I prefer the guy I am with to be hard during sex. But if he is not that's cool too.... As long as he is able to cum - that's what matters to me... For me it is a 50-50 thing... I want him to be there for my pleasure but I also want to be there to make him feel good - for me it's a shared experience and not a one-way street geared towards the top.... But that's just me and how I feel... To each his own I guess...