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    Young guy finding it hard to get into BDSM scene

    I met this guy online. I'm fron Sydney Australia
    He said he'd help me get into it in a safe environment with tissue/ropes and stuff and wanted to film it for his own personal benefit.

    So I did some role plays with him. Pretending to be gagged, stripped naked and tied to a bed,
    it was good.... but the camera got annoying.
    Another one was being tied to the chair, gagged and in just jocks and trying to break free.

    To check to see that he wan't dadgy I asked to see ID.
    Looking back, the ID was probaly fake.

    Am worried now that I'm gonna end up on the internet...... but I've found it hard to get into this stuff with guys of any age without being their little slut-pig. Which I have fantasies about being... but just need to ease myself into.

    Any advice?

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    Re: Young guy finding it hard to get into BDSM scene

    I'll help you out. Although I'm in Tasmania... Maybe if I'm ever in Sydney I'll look you up.

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    Re: Young guy finding it hard to get into BDSM scene

    Quote Originally Posted by RyanKwanten View Post
    it was good.... but the camera got annoying.
    Dude, I can relate to that. I'm 19 and often had sex in front of ******s a few years ago, and allowed my first boyfriend to film me while sucking his cock or jacking off, and we took nude pics of eachother that only he owns...

    And I know those pics have been going round, so I'm sure the clips are out there too.

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    Re: Young guy finding it hard to get into BDSM scene

    Dude,

    You are starting to learn the hard way. But you are learning anyway. Yup. NO CAMERAS EVER. No image recording device, if you can help it anyway. This is known as the Rule #1. No 'ifs' and no 'butts' and no nothings.

    There are comparatively few young dudes, who are fully into the BDSM. You are right, most guys (not all) are older dudes with their usually younger 'slut-pigs'.

    Every 'community' of a sort has its own rules and idiosyncracies. There is no way around it. And there is an initiation, and/or entry price to be paid anyway. You want it, so I guess, you'll go there and you'll do your own thing.

    Always keep in mind that you are here talking about your sex life. This is yours for you to live as you find fit, and no one should ever judge you for what happens behind your bedroom doors. If you adopt that attitude, you'll find it much easier to go through the life than if you always worry about what the other people may say or think about your sexual proclivities.

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    Re: Young guy finding it hard to get into BDSM scene

    A few years ago, I wanted to do some bondage stuff. I wanted to be the bottom and I didn't mind pictures and wanted to make tapes. Ic ouldn't find anyone who was willing to do it.

    I finally found a guy who wanted to get together but he didn't want to tape it and only took a few small (low quality) photos. I had a much better camera than his but he told me not to bring it. I really don't get people sometimes. I can understand not wanting to be on the internet. I've had my own reservations but I've put photos of myself online anyway so I'm not worried about it.

    But yeah. If you have any concerns about the future use of images, just don't do it. They may or may not end up online but if you don't want them to be, you're going to be forever worried about it.

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    Re: Young guy finding it hard to get into BDSM scene

    Quote Originally Posted by RyanKwanten View Post
    ...but I've found it hard to get into this stuff with guys of any age without being their little slut-pig. Which I have fantasies about being... but just need to ease myself into.

    Any advice?
    Very interesting question. I have to be dominated immediately, otherwise I cann't get dominated any more, but I have quite some limits. So, I work with lists of orders a guy can give me. In the beginning the guy has to limit himself to those orders.

    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/******..ighlight=squat

    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=176932

    The top has always to start slowly and to put me in safe surroundings. For instance in the following style

    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/******..ight=his+place

    At present I am submissive to 3 guys who each work in their very own style

    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/******..=133650&page=2

    Many masters need training to become good masters and to allow you to get into it. I have given some masters quite some training

    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/******..49#post2840549

    But the problem of getting into a scene will always be there even after much training. My best scenes and my best ways of coming into a scene is with one of the 3 guys I am used to. They all three have their very own ways. I recently met a guy in his 30ties who wants to get dominant with guys. He talks a lot about poofta's and so on, how much he would like to do a poofta and so on. I guess he still is looking for a way to accept himself as gay (he is still married). He is talking lots about it. That's why I posted the "Poofta training"-thread. I want to try it with an escort first in order to see whether it works out and wheher I can get into it. Then I wil try to do it with the guy. I guess it will give the necessary catharsis to the guy to accept himself as gay and to be able to become a master because at present he only is eager to dominate, but doesn't know how.

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    Re: Young guy finding it hard to get into BDSM scene

    thanks guys for your support.

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