I was very close with my music teacher in Junior High. At one point I asked if he would give me private piano lessons and he said yes. (Remember I was 14 at the time). My father exploded -- You can't take piano lessons with that faggot!! I knew I was gay, I had no idea the teacher was. Too bad my father wasn't more relaxed I could have gotten something on with him. Interesting you had the nerve to actually offer him a BJ. How could you be so sure he wouldn't react really negatively?