I live in Dallas, and it is almost impossible to get laid in this city unless you are 21-26 years old and you look like an Abercrombie model. If you aren't either one of those, you are ignored. Dallas is nothing but a city full of superficial, shallow people. You have to have the perfect body, you have to have the perfect face, you have to live in the right neighborhood, yadda yadda yadda.
I see these guys all over the place, everyday and everywhere I go. You know the ones I'm talking about.
Every evening after work, they either go to the gym for two hours or they go to the tannning salon. Then they go home and eat a piece of lettuce for dinner. And every Saturday they have a standing appointment with their "stylist" to have their hair primped.
And they do all of this so they can "look cute" at the bar on Saturday night and maybe someone will take them home and lay them?
Whuht? Are you kidding me? That is so freakin stupid.
Now, I admit I used to think the only way to get laid was to become one of those guys, but let's face it, it's hard and it's not fun.
Now I don't care. No I'm not skinny or even athletic. I am a bit husky, not fat but I could stand to lose about 25lbs. But overall, I don't look all that bad.
I live the way I want. I like pizza, I like Taco Bell and I like chinese takeout. And if I enjoy it then I'm going to have it.
And as far as "hooking up" goes, I just have one simple theory......
Here's what I got, you like it? Then get your clothes off and let's get to it. You don't like it? Then get the fuck out of my way cuz I got better things to do than deal with your self-centered, superficial, shallow bullshit.
The moral of the story .... be yourself, do what you want and don't worry about what other people think. The efforts you put into your life should be for your benefit, not for the benefit of some superficial internet trick.