I joined JUB and that's all I saw, were these smooth boyish looking guys, and it made me feel that I had to look like that in order to look attractive or fit in the gay community. When I saw the channel LOGO on TV it was sad to see ONLY the typical gay man and lesbian. The stereotypical gay seems to be fit, skinny, fem acting type guys. Well it only seems that the fem acting stereotype wasn't as big but the skinny and fit stereotype was huge.
Well if you are unhappy with the way your body looks, try to change it, but change it for you, don't change it because the people on TV say that a gay man needs to be fit. They seem to be kind of brainwashing people to think that fit and thin is the way to be. I'm really happy being chubby, my boyfriend is chubby as well. We both find each other attractive, and I've gone through the situation that I felt fat and ugly because I didn't look like the porn stars.