Okay, I know exactly how you feel because I grew up not knowing a whole lot of gay people in my life, I lived a sheltered life as well, when I went into the gay community it was on the Internet.
I joined JUB and that's all I saw, were these smooth boyish looking guys, and it made me feel that I had to look like that in order to look attractive or fit in the gay community. When I saw the channel LOGO on TV it was sad to see ONLY the typical gay man and lesbian. The stereotypical gay seems to be fit, skinny, fem acting type guys. Well it only seems that the fem acting stereotype wasn't as big but the skinny and fit stereotype was huge.
Well if you are unhappy with the way your body looks, try to change it, but change it for you, don't change it because the people on TV say that a gay man needs to be fit. They seem to be kind of brainwashing people to think that fit and thin is the way to be. I'm really happy being chubby, my boyfriend is chubby as well. We both find each other attractive, and I've gone through the situation that I felt fat and ugly because I didn't look like the porn stars.




i think i just need to meet more nice people like you lol
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Hi Guys i jus signed up...Im 19 almost 6 ft tall and i weigh bout 205...i agree with most of yall...Young chubs are so fkin sexy
as for a chub they have some kinda warmth that makes me feel how do u spell it COZY or w/e ....no offense to twinks...and if ur a chub u shouldnt think that ur fat and ugly
because right now even if u dont know i bet someone thinks ur beautiful and sexy as hell
...I mentioned that i was a lil chubby but i still think im fine and im the shit
cuz i leave skid marks everywhere i sit lol
In school i had alot of girls on me that wanted to be with me but they never knew y they couldnt until i finally came out after i grad
but that doesnt mean that im a stranger to the gay community...ive had my share of experiences and will have lots more





.....as to u who cant find love dont give up man they could come walking around the corner one day 

