Is there any chance you might become straight one day?

**hunky** · October 13th, 2006, 09:36 AM

As many straights become gay one day, I was wondering if the opposite could also happen. Gay people becoming straight. I mean really straight, not just pretending just to please someone or hide his real identity.

**The_Aviator** · October 13th, 2006, 09:37 AM

Nah! Don't think that I ever will!

I am who I am... and I'm gay! Don't think I could lie to myself and become straight.

**herenthere** · October 13th, 2006, 09:42 AM

Straights do not become gay!!
They just deal with their denial, and become real

bw92116 · October 13th, 2006, 09:56 AM

Thought about trying women, a few years ago, but then gave up when I remembered that with women there's no dick.

shocks · October 13th, 2006, 10:00 AM

it can't be done....anyway not in my case....

I love men.

**ahotjock71** · October 13th, 2006, 10:13 AM

Aw HELL naw!

antdak · October 13th, 2006, 10:28 AM

Originally Posted by herenthere

Straights do not become gay!!
They just deal with their denial, and become real

I agree, you just don't wake up one day and say Hey I think I'll be gay!! I do think however that some may choose NOT to live a gay life, living a straight life. But that goes back to the denial part.

**dpnice** · October 13th, 2006, 10:31 AM

Well that question was dealt with quickly.

Don't think there is anything to add.

**looseliam** · October 13th, 2006, 10:33 AM

Been there, bought the button.

Nightmare · October 13th, 2006, 10:39 AM

Straights do not become gay!!
They just deal with their denial, and become real

Yep. There is no such thing as becoming one or ther other, it's just accepting yourself for who you are either now or then.

**Xavier_Holland** · October 13th, 2006, 10:40 AM

Well I'm bi and if things don't work out with my boyfriend I'm not quite sure I would want a guy again. He'd have to be awfully special and worth my time.

**Nonimus** · October 13th, 2006, 11:05 AM

Pfffffffffffffffft!!!!

**Christopher123** · October 13th, 2006, 11:14 AM

Wouldn't want to. I have no desire, sexual or otherwise, for females. Meaning I don't think I could ever fall in love with a woman. Nor would I want to. Some of my best friends are girls, and I love them deeply. But it's not 'that' kind of love. Have I ever fallen in love with a man? Yep.

**CTF** · October 13th, 2006, 11:16 AM

With cute guys like ^ roaming around, why would I even consider becoming straight?

**Fire** · October 13th, 2006, 11:26 AM

Originally Posted by Hunky

As many straights become gay one day, I was wondering if the opposite could also happen. Gay people becoming straight. I mean really straight, not just pretending just to please someone or hide his real identity.

First of all, screw you to everyone who says gay people don't become gay from being straight. They do, and they can become straight from being gay, I know a guy who did.

You people criticizing and disagreeing with Hunky's post should just take a look at some of the recent threads of his and then realize that this thread has all the wisdom and insight of ones like How can a gay man not have pleasure with his cock?, Sex Driven People: Do You Fit In, Would you ever consider taking a penis enlargement surgery?, and What do you do when the guy you like despises you?, not to mention Who is in Lust? and Sorry, but I just can't stand alchohol drinks.

And those are just recent ones, I lost my bookmarks to classic Hunky threads a while ago. Your threads are really one of the few reasons I and a lot of people visit JUB anymore, because no one else has anything to say. All you people disagreeing with Hunky never make any good thoughtful or entertaining postings anyways so you really can't speak.

So, thank you for making posts, Hunky. "What can I write?" indeed!

**Christopher123** · October 13th, 2006, 11:41 AM

Originally Posted by Fire

First of all, screw you to everyone who says gay people don't become gay from being straight. They do, and they can become straight from being gay, I know a guy who did.

I know a guy who was 'straight' most all of his life. And he asked me once, "What's it like to have sex with a man?"

Well what are you going to SAY to that? I mean, jeez, that was kinda personal to me. But I talked to him anyway as subtly as I could. This guy had never had sex with a man. Until his curiosities arose. So he calls me up one night to tell me he had sex with some guy we'd met a few weeks back at a party. I was a little floored. I knew he was curious but I didn't think he would take it that far. But he did. That was about a year ago and he's never looked back, he fell madly in love with the guy from the party. They're still boyfriends and he's happy as hell.

I never questioned it, really. He asked me if I thought he was weird. Imagine him asking ME that. But I laughed and said, "Nope, you're not weird, you're in love." He smiled and said, "Yes I am."

So there ya go. A closted gay that finally came out? A bisexual that prefers men? A straight guy that decided he wants men instead of women? Who the hell knows. Who the hell cares? It's what's in the heart that matters and I've never been one to like using labels.

**Christopher123** · October 13th, 2006, 11:49 AM

Originally Posted by centexfarmer

With cute guys like ^ roaming around, why would I even consider becoming straight?

Thank you, if that was meant for me

If not, oops!

**metta** · October 13th, 2006, 11:52 AM

Maybe, when real pigs fly.

**nvrno** · October 13th, 2006, 01:32 PM

I wish this could happen

**herenthere** · October 13th, 2006, 01:40 PM

Originally Posted by Fire

First of all, screw you to everyone who says gay people don't become gay from being straight. They do, and they can become straight from being gay, I know a guy who did.

You people criticizing and disagreeing with Hunky's post should just take a look at some of the recent threads of his and then realize that this thread has all the wisdom and insight of ones like How can a gay man not have pleasure with his cock?, Sex Driven People: Do You Fit In, Would you ever consider taking a penis enlargement surgery?, and What do you do when the guy you like despises you?, not to mention Who is in Lust? and Sorry, but I just can't stand alchohol drinks.

And those are just recent ones, I lost my bookmarks to classic Hunky threads a while ago. Your threads are really one of the few reasons I and a lot of people visit JUB anymore, because no one else has anything to say. All you people disagreeing with Hunky never make any good thoughtful or entertaining postings anyways so you really can't speak.

So, thank you for making posts, Hunky. "What can I write?" indeed!

For heaven sakes..this is just a discussion, chill out
There are a whole variety of Queens on this board, some a little more bitchy than others..There was so attack intended for Hunky!!
I always enjoy hearing the different opinions....

elvin1 · October 13th, 2006, 01:46 PM

LOL...Too late for that one....

But seriously, you aren't gay one day then straight the next. I think it's all about denial. Also, I believe in the Kinsey scale....somewhat...

Tongue_Me · October 13th, 2006, 02:06 PM

What does it matter? Straight, gay we are all the same screwed up, anxious individuals with delusions of grandeur aren't we? Aren't we?

Antares · October 13th, 2006, 02:15 PM

I find guys too fascinating. Always have.

**runner** · October 13th, 2006, 04:22 PM

Well....I don't know, BUT my boyfriend lived with his lover for 20 years. Then his lover moved out and married a woman. I'm glad he did.

**CTF** · October 13th, 2006, 04:24 PM

"Yeah! Did you hear about Robert?"

"No, what about him?"

"He changed his name to Bob, and now he sits around the house drinking beer, farting, scratching himself and watching sports all day."

"No shit?"

"Yeah, I think he turned straight."

(*U*)

**Andreus** · October 13th, 2006, 04:45 PM

i'm really happy with the program the way it is

i'd never try to change my being gay to find out if i could

**sangoma** · October 13th, 2006, 05:22 PM

I believe you're either born gay or straight and don't get to pick. I don't believe in all the "crossovers", but can you pretend to be something your not for all your life if you chose to. But hey, who would want to give up men?

!! I don't!

**Riverrick** · October 13th, 2006, 05:25 PM

I might if I'm bored and I want to drive my family crazy.

**_AJ_** · October 13th, 2006, 07:17 PM

i dont think so

if i was ever going to go out with a girl my last 2 friend who were girls would have been perfect and yet i dident ever feel that way about them i still love them as friends but thats it

**ronboy** · October 13th, 2006, 07:33 PM

Ummmmmm.....No, it isn't going to happen. I am gay. I like it that way. Besides, I am not about to give up my gorgeous, hunky Dave for a woman, no matter how beautiful she is.....

**confusedboy23** · October 13th, 2006, 07:35 PM

Originally Posted by herenthere

Straights do not become gay!!
They just deal with their denial, and become real

Agreed! Sexuality is a given, not a choice!

Even if I ended up being with a girl in the future, it doesn't mean that attraction to guys will simply die off overnight - it will be there, no doubt, but it just has to be handled in a different. They say being bi give you the best of both worlds, maybe, but I don't think so - it might have been easier if you were one or the other exclusively.