In fantasy it may have some sort of allure, however, in reality the thought of it sickens me...it does absolutely nothing for me. No...just no!
In fantasy it may have some sort of allure, however, in reality the thought of it sickens me...it does absolutely nothing for me. No...just no!
"I'M JUST AN UGLY YOUNG SHART TRYING TO MAKE IT'S WAY THROUGH THIS RECTUM CALLED LIFE..."
My Boyfriend/Best friend has a very strange relationship with his father.
I really never paid any attention to it until recently few weeks, months.
My Friend Kisses his dad on the lips their Italian some do that no biggie.
My friend's dad is laying down and my friend would lay on top of him,
he would hold him like a small kid mind you his 22. His dad likes to walk
around in his underwear/ shirtles with shorts. My friend would stand in his kitchen and his dad will get behind him or press against him, tell him something and kiss him and the back of his head,
one time his dad grabbed him by the shoulders and touched his abs. There was another time I walked in and My friend was sitting on the counter eating something his dad was in between his legs caressing his thighs? My boy doesn't help ither he sits on him on the couch or leans in to his dad and he will wrap his arms around him?? That was sort of odd...His dad will be very affectionately.
His Dad 42 is married to a woman/his mom has a nice body and works out.
His dad is handsome. But he can be very abusive sometimes.
I'v known them a very long time. His been al'right but recently his dad
found out about us dating and took us out to dinner last nigh.
When we go to his house we we're laying in bed in shorts his dad came in
and he sat then laid next to me and had a serious talk. His dad patted my butt?
and had a hand full of his son's leg. My friend has mentions in the past that he
Inherited his fathers cock, My boy is packing! Now i'm like wow how did he know that but I have seen his dad flacid he still packing!
As far as them having sex I don't know? I confided in my friend that someone had molested me when i was younger. (it's actually essayer to tell people hear because non of you know me and i dont have to live with that stigma) Then my friend confided in me of being molested but his not mad at the person.
You know who my money's on!...A part of me doesn't want to know if him and his dad are getting it on, a part of me dose. Should I insist and ask questions or just let it be?
My humble opinion - is just let it be, unless you feel that whatever it is impacting him (your best friend) negatively - in which case you might want to subtely probe.
With regards to the possible "molestation", remember you're currently seeing out of context.
To be very honest with you, a lot of Europeons, including Italians, display their affection with family/friends much more than Americans are used to.
"Do what you love."
My family is not from US.
I was born hear but raised in a diffrent country. My family is comfterble with showing affection. Thers is not normal. His dad was born and raised hear.
He has been a bit abusive lately. He has gotten like pysical and like gose crazy durning sex like releasing fustration. Its a lot of thing that are bugging him.
Wow man! I think you should find out if there is more to all this than just affection. If he is foolin around with his dad behind your back then that's not fair to you. If they messed around before I think you need to know still so you can let it go. By the way, is this the same dad that beat the shit out of him when he came out?
Yeah his dad beat the shit out of him when he came out, His dad is very abusive but also very carring and a sweet guy. But when his mad he gets mad. But if my friend moves he loses evrything his car his allowance. He dose well in the university. He gets everything he want but it all comes with a price. On monday night we where at a BBQ and I was talking with an old fuck buddy were really cool now but my friend did not like that when we got home he slaped me and grabed me by the arm and was meanbut he had been an ass hole to me all day then later on while we where about to have sex I pulled his shirt he faught with me then I saw he was really bruised up and was hurting he told me his dad hat beat the shit out of him on sunday. But his dad spoke with me and my friend sirious talk. About are relationship he wasent happy had no choice and sports his boy and kept feeling up on his legs got under his shirt.
My friend is really cute his hot athletic but he has very bad self estiem and bad body image.
That's why if somthing happend or is happening its really fucking with his head!
His dad gives him type of affection you would give some one you like and its messing with him
hmm....All i can say for sure is that you should be understanding and supportive at all times and you might also want to be aware that he is going to do things like act like an ass hole to you randomly if he is being abused by his father and you prolly should try to make him jealous by talking to ex fuck buddies.
As for the dad and son thing this might seem weird but ask him straight out and maybe confess that the way his dad reacts with him makes you uncomfortable. If his dad is molesting him it will be a long uncomfortable ride to get your relationship through it an changed but you should just be as patient and loving as possible
My gosh! You gotta get to the bottom of this thing cuz it's gettin ridiculous. How could he be so affectionate with his dad if he can turn on him and beat him up so bad whenever he gets mad? I wouldn't wanna be anywhere near him. I think his dad has some extra feelings for his son other than just being his dad and he may even be jealous that he's with you.
And that's not right your friend takes his anger out on you either. I know you love him and he loves you too but seriously he can't be putting his hands on you like that. I can tell you are a good guy and you don't deserve that at all. Especially with all you been through already. You should let him know, even if it leads to a fight, that the abuse has gotta stop. Everybody goes through stress and we have to deal with it without hitting the people we love.
Hanz Your not the first to say his dad is jeoulous my close friend said the same. After his dad realized we where together His dad will try not to give us anytime alone when he is home he is always ther waking showing off his body making inaproprate comments his dad is really cocky and obnoxious.
My friend finds him self attracted to his dad. To me it looks like he enjoys his dad being that way with him. But then at the same time he swars his ugly, his gross looking not worth being loved. Seems to be angry and distant. I was thinking about getting him some help.
I wanna help him, I don't think of him any less. Even after everything he just needs some one to hear him out
It sounds to me like the dad's sexually, physically, and emotionally abusing your friend. This is a very complex problem and it may be beyond your ability to help him. I think you should definitely ask your friend to be honest with you, and explain that you're very concerned and want to help him. Don't try to tell him what to do, since he's already probably conflicted enough with the dad's demands. Ask him what it is that he wants, and just try to listen without judgment. Some men have sexual relations with family members and claim that they're better for it. Some men have been the victims of abusive sexual relations with family members and are scarred by it for life. Often an abusive person keeps the abused person hanging on by offering some affection as well as material possessions like cars, money, clothes, etc., but will also belittle the victim and make them feel unworthy of love and affection. This is a very common problem in relationships of all sorts. I don't know what your friend's age is, but I believe that a person should never allow another person to abuse them or attempt to control them. If your friend is a teenager, there may be assistance programs to allow him to move away from home. If he's older than a teen, there may be a gay community center in your city that could help. There certainly have to be lots of resources online. Do some research before you talk to him and find out what's available, and after you talk tell him that he can trust you and together you can find a way for him to move out of his house. He just has to be willing to do it. If the dad is holding these material things like money or possessions over his head, it's just another example of the abuse that is happening, and he may feel that he needs them more than his freedom from abuse. He needs to speak to a counselor, because there's probably some brainwashing that has happened. He may be so caught up in the dad's manipulative behavior that he can't see any other options or, as you suggest, feel that he's not worth the effort. The dad sounds very sick, and his sickness has been passed on to his victim.
At any rate, do what you can for your friend, help him if you can help him, but don't expect anything. This is a very serious situation that has been built up over a long time, and all that you can do is make the offer to help. If he isn't interested or gets angry, you need to feel good about having tried and done the decent thing. Not everyone appreciates that though, so just be prepared. It may mean the end of your friendship. But a true friend would make the effort whether it's appreciated or not. Eventually, your friend will probably figure these things out by himself, but that's a long hard and lonely road. By knowing that you at least made the effort, maybe it will help him now or in the future.
I hope this will help you both. Good luck and please keep us updated.
P.S. Let me just add that it's never okay to let someone be slapping you around, no matter what their justification. You need to make it clear to your friend that you won't accept that. By showing him what the rules are you may also be helping him to come to terms with that for himself. If he can't stop abusing you, then you also need to get away from the problem.
Btw i meant you prolly should not make him jealous with ex fuck buddies not you should..typo
I want a dad like that instead of my totally indifferent father. An indifferent father is worse than an abusive father. Rather a father who rapes me than a totally indifferent father.
i totally believe that there can be positive experiences between fathers and sons.
I never had one, but I would not have been closed off to it.
open your minds, people. sex is not a killer.
in some cases it is...
I'm not trying to be a flamer here. Fantasy is fantasy. But my concern is for those here who said they seriously wanted to, or in some cases even DID, have sex with their own fathers, and had no problem with it. I'm worried about what they would do to their OWN children if they ever should have any. Where do they draw the boundaries? To me, that's scary....
For as long as I can remember, I've been attracted to older men, at first I always wrote it off as admiration, but later on as I realized I was into guys it became more apparent that it was attraction.
I can remember thinking my uncle and older cousins were cute and then later in my teens that my father was hot and I would start jerking off thinking about him.
I can never remember anyone being inappropriate with me in the past, but there are times I've wondered if I was touched or something when I was younger by an older man which might be where these feelings come from. I can't remember anything, but you never know.
Anyone think along these lines?
I am Really sorry I don't know how to spell or my grammer. I am really ashamed that I can not wright properly. I really try my best and spell check dose not work on my phone.
But this weekend I slept over My boys house.
His dad Invited me to a gat together with his family.
On sunday morning he took me and my boy to the mall and got me a black lacost polo and some nice seven jeans and matching sneakers for me and my boy. He was really nice to me. His dad is really handsome he looks sorta like Jason statham. But he did nake me feel weird we were watching a movie and my boy left and his dad started asking me inapropriate questions making inapropriate advances.
what did he do/say?
Oh sorry....He asked me what age i started having sex?
did he make me nervouse, and he pincked my nose. and touched my leg.
he asked he kept rubbing my head and he put his arm around me.
said if i ever did it with an older man?
he was like he been working out and he pulled his sleev so i could feel his mucel?
Normally, the whole his-dad-is-hot stuff would give me a boner, but I can't seem to get past the abuse here.
I've been with an abusive person who himself had been abused physically and emotionally by his dad. I was able to get him to seek help to stop the physical stuff after one incident before it escalated into violence, but the emotional and mental abuse continued far too long. I won't ever put up with being abused ever again and I hope you will not either. I hope you are OK.
No I hate that I can't wright properly too.
Hey LA69... this sounds to me like a situation that is only going to get more complicated... and worse. I PARTICULARLY don't like it that your boyfriend was hitting you after seeing your old friend. It sounds like he's inherited his dad's abusive tendencies.
Just because he (or his dad) buy cool expensive stuff, and just because they can be sweet and affectionate, does not mean that the beatings and abuse aren't beatings and abuse.
Please take care of yourself.
Though I don't find my own Dad attractive, many of his friends the same age give me a boner.
So do a few of my older cousins. There's one I won't shake hands with, because even touching him could pitch an enormous tent in my pants
Sometimes I jerk off to an imaginary Dad, or imaginary uncles, who resemble Chuck Norris or a toned-up Robert Redford or Sean Connery.
I never have fantasies about my real father. I do have fantasies about my uncle. It has to do with the older/younger thing and being dominated. My uncle who is in his 40's used to be very strict and controlling. He used to beat me up and yell at me. When i was in 8th grade (around the time I was discovering my sexuality). At one point he made me move into his house and live there and he used to call me a faggot and stuff. At the time I was definitely not attracted to him. I despised him. Later though when I had blocked him out of my life..I fantasized about his body and him taking control of me sexually!! Like, making me give him a blow job.
When I lived at his house I would always sniff his underwear which was so manly!! He used to work out and stuff and he had a hairy chest and he was pretty fit. I used to also fantasize his big hands jacking off my (at the time) teenage dick. LMAO I would never act on it and I know it would be awkard..but I can't get the fantasy out of my head!! I know its wrong but if he wasn't my uncle I would want to have sex with him..he is so manly and when I was in high school I always fantasized about him helping me explore my sexual side!
This gets me real hard too --- would love to hear some more true stories about father/son!
I wish I had a father I found hot for this very reason. Alas, I do not.
you are at the top of my lungs ♥
This subject is so hot. I'd love to see a 50 something father with his 30 something son.
I've always thought my dad was attractive. When he was younger he looked a lot like a mix between rob lowe and tom cruise...but with a big nose. lol
I seea lot of people on here who sniffed their dad's dirty underwear. I've done that when I lived at home. so hott
I've seen his ass when he used to moon me and my mom sometimes and I've actually seen sim jerking off
When I was about 14 we lived in a one floor house and the living room shared a wall with the master bedroom bathroom...there's a vent that puls the heat from the fireplace in the living room to the back of the house, and one day I saw the light on in there for a while, but didn't hear the shower...i stood on a chair and peeped in and saw my dad standing in front of the mirror pumping his cock so fast..I got hard instantly and ever since that day my fascination with my dad his been overwhelming.
I'm 19 now and I still would love a good fuck from my dad. He got to be around 7c or more.
I have done stuff with my younger cousin....I was 12 he was 8....he sucked and fondled and kissed...he's gay now too....
As for the people's negative comments....everyone has fantasies and I'm sure you have one that some people here might find strange....respect is key on public forums.
I have felt so guilty for the longest time because when I was about 14, I'd take my dad's pants that were hanging on the bathroom door and press my face into the crotch and inhale.
Once when he was sleeping I pushed my face into his ass. What the heck would I have done if he woke up!
I go through periods where I am attracted to him and fantasize. Just the other day I jerked off while fantasizing about him.
He has a new house and I went to see it. While he was showing me around I couldn't believe how my thoughts were fantasizing about him getting forceful with me.
I have not, but when I was little like 5, 6, 7 I would take showers with himm, i remember that he had a huge cock. Never thought about that until a couple years ago, but damn I would love a cock that nice
I know from personal experience that incest between two concesual adults can be really hot.
I've tried both my dad's cock and my older brother's (not at the same time) and it has been without a doubt the best sexual experiences of my life.
including a few pics of me getting done by my dad, no fake people the real deal
holy shit, that is the HOTTEST thing i have ever seen. POST MORE! i almost spermed just looking at it. more please!
I don't know if this qualifies but, sometimes when I use my large dildo I pretend that I am a young boy and Daddy is fucking me with his enormous cock. I have no problem with this type of sexual stimulation or its content. I find it rather erotic.
This is a very erotic thread, but also enlightening. Wow. I can't believe the ideas that this opens up.
I was attracted to my father when I was a young boy. I wanted to see his penis and see him naked. I never got to see very much. Those feelings left me when I was maybe 10 years old. I had zero attraction to him from then on.
But the whole father/son experimentation fetish has never left. I believe that children need love and freedom. Whatever they're curious about, they should be given support to explore.
But where is the line drawn with this type of curiosity? I wonder...
While I could not have sex with my dad, I find it so hot and agree that incest is only wrong with heterosexuals where it can result in (as someone else had noted) physical, mental, etc. deformed children and pregnancy.
I wish it wasn't so taboo. I wish I had a brother I could fool around with and more male cousins like me that I could chill but also fool around with. Thats why I'd love to fuck twins, brothers, and cousins. So hot.
anyone have pics or personal experiences of incest?
BTW....if you all haven't noticed, there are over 100,000 views of this post on father-son incest. That is more than almost any other post on here!
Come on guys, post some pics or something about incest. Apparently, a TON of guys are into taboo things...
Yeah post pics and stuff. Some of you are really blessed I'm not lying its the truth
Me and a cousin have fooled around a while ago. He was then and still is now so damn hott! I would suck his dick....he fucked me 4 times but mostly he just wanted head. I fingered and ate his ass once. We didn't really kiss alot...which was okay i got what i wanted! ........he's str8 now and with a baby on the way!
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