Love that.Slightly off topic, but if you go through this entire thread that dates back to 2006, it goes in all sorts of directions. But it always comes back to incest. Thank goodness lol. So…why the hell not.
I just want to say that I don't think he was asleep, but it depends how drunk he was. If he was just drunk and not "shit-faced drunk" he might have been awake.
But if he had a bit too much and essentially blacked out then yes, but if you are worried about rape...don't be. Presumably if he's gay, and you may have messed around in the past. I wouldn't classify it as rape.
But if you genuinely believe he has no recollection of you fucking him then I think, in respect to your friendship, that you tell him. I highly doubt he would get upset, but before too much time passes I think he should know.
If it were me, I wouldn't be upset per se, however I would be upset of you wanted a year to tell me. So I wouldn't be upset of what you did, I personally would probably like it and want you to give me details, but I would be upset if I am finding out all this years later.
Also, when or if you tell him, be as neutral as possible. By that I mean, don't tell him laughingly or seriously either. Just tell him and let him guide the mood of the conversation. He might get offended that you think this is all a joke, and he might also get offended if you act too casual about it also.
Anyway, after I get through the amazing Rachel Maddow coverage of the Obama inauguration, I am going to take a nap.
So if you are around Jersey City stop by and fuck your son (I'm 25).
I promise I won't wake up