I never thought of my father sexually, or did I? A few weeks ago my partner pointed out that the three men I have had serious relationships with have all had more than a passing resemblence to my dad. I am now wondering if deep down I was looking for him in other men. I don't think I would have buried any desire I might have had, for a brief time in my early teens I had a very sexual relationship with my brother and never had negative feelings about that. Actually if dad and I had fucked it probably would have improved our relationship as we would have had, at last, one thing in common.