Why is swallowing a turn on?

[luvjerseyboys]

This is something I've always wondered.

I've sucked a few guys in my past and when it comes to climax they always seem to get such a kick out of having their cum swallowed. One guy even wiped a bit off the side of my face and fed it to me with his finger while he was...well...almost giggling.

Some guys make it known to me before I blow them that they want to be swallowed.

Others ask.

And others are shocked when I do it because they've never had it done to them.

But they all seem to get the hugest kick out of it. I would figure that just getting head would be enough...but it's almost as if they do it just to see someone swallow their spunk.

Any thoughts?

[Hotlilass25]

For some guys there's a control element of "making" you take their load, others it's an extra turn on to feed someone a part of them.

I think when you boil right down to it it's become the 'New Blowjob'....years ago it was difficult for mostly straight men to get oral sex from women,...now it seems common. But even tho women will give oral sex most wont swallow.

Its also taboo b/c of HIV/AIDS....you CAN get HIV from swallowing semen. It isn't a 'sure thing' as barebacking but as they say it only takes one time.

Just be smart and know who you're sucking off

[KennyD]

I'm NOT a fan of "Swallowing" .... with all the health risk . I think just by giving oral; the receiver should be appreciative ...
IF "He" does not appreciate the "Head" ..then he can just go elsewhere ...

[ds_writr]

well, I think its somehow connected to issues of rejection.

its a rejection of a part of them, their very essence, when you get a mouthful, turn your head and spit the load out all over the cement, leaving it there for the rainwater to wash it way into the gutter...like common trash.

swallowing is the completion of process. perhaps the subconscious mind knows this semen should be going into someone. And so, to see it ejected (as in spat out) is disturbing to the psyche and esteem of the man being so nice as to copulate inside your mouth.

[filipbong]

it's a turn-on for the swallower as well because having a man's substance inside your body is the ultimate act of communion with him...
in that moment in time and of euphoria you feel a glorious sense of possessing your man...

[rks0430]

There is nothing I love more than swallowing. I have taken him to the ultimate in physical experience and he is rewarding me in return. Maybe that's just love talking. I have asked him about it and he says that it feels better for him when he finishes in my mouth istead of me jacking him when he is close. Why wouldn't I want to give him what feels best?

[Hotlilass25]

It's also pretty rare when you think about it....it take a lot of work to get semen out of a cock.

You can sweat, spit, urinate, bleed....all pretty easily...but cum takes work and it isn't something that is produced in mass quantities.

Altho some guys taste so bad they should keep it to themselves

[blonddie]

i swallow, its the icing on the cake, a treat at the end of rather lovely task

[boatnhard]

Having a guy shoot his load down my throat while I am looking up into his eyes is a real turn-on for me and the guy I am sucking. It is a gift from one guy to another!Besides his wife or girlfriend WONT SWALLOW!

[sonny10305]

It's a huge turn on for str8 guys when they blown by a dude cause most gay dudes will swallow and a lot of chicks won't.
As for me, feeling that pulsing cock followed by a warm thick load going down my throat is awesome.

[Hotlilass25]

Its something that's also only you and the other guy can be sure of....its easy to fake swallowing if someone's watching because unless he's jerking off into your mouth no one sees it....so only the guy cumming and the guy swallowing really know that its happening and how much and how it tastes (admit it some guys you WANT to spit out).

I think facials are hotter...and healthier for your skin

The second guy that I ever messed around with...him and I had this hot 3 hour session (no anal sex, I was still new to boy on man sex) I sucked him for a long time and I JO and edged......near the end we were on his bed and he had his cock AT the enterance of my ass asking if he could stick it in and that made me shoot and GOD did I shoot...I was laying flat on my back and I shot up to my forehead, the my eyes then coated ALL over me...I've never shot like that before and I've shot better as in more cum but never that far again

[pjlikesporn]

It's also pretty rare when you think about it....it take a lot of work to get semen out of a cock.

You can sweat, spit, urinate, bleed....all pretty easily...but cum takes work and it isn't something that is produced in mass quantities.

Altho some guys taste so bad they should keep it to themselves

Definitely!

Sucking to climax an easy feat for many. Or in my case I should say more precisely that being sucked to climax is not an easy feat. Usually a guy can get me real close but I finish myself off. If a guy can coax cum from my cock, then he's done a banner job.

[miatajeff]

This thread is kinda hot.

I am not into swallowing-I rather prefer to see the jizz splattered on a pretty man 's face

[downontheupside]

Swallowing is disgusting.

[wonderfulelectric]

I love swallowing. I love the way a guy spasms when he reach climax and mostly he will force my mouth even deeper down his cock. It just makes me feel great doing a good joc at making them feel good. I am into getting peed on etc.... so I love to swallow.

[pisces69]

I personally don't like to swallow, I just don't like the taste or texture. So I would rather not, I will rather offend them by not swallowing than vomit all over them. LOL.

[Danugh]

When a person swallows sperm they can't get pregnant.

[Bareback1988]

When a person swallows sperm they can't get pregnant.

I thought you meant this comment to be hilarious but then I remembered there are straight dudes (supposedly) in the straight/bi area.

And I prefer to bottom than to swallow.

[dolphwasser]

The word has been used before here - after completion of the act, it's the ultimate acceptance. (Although the water sports and scat fans may have other ideas of the ultimate acceptance.)

[birdbaster]

When I sucked cock I would always make him cum in my mouth. I would lick his dick and clean him off and show him what a creamy load he had given me before I swallowed it. When blowing him my own cock is so hard it only takes a touch to send my cum squirting out. Dam , wish I had one to suck on now!!!!

Great forum

[yankee]

You could swollow it or you can keep it in your mouth for an intresting kiss

[josefjosef]

swapping cum - fantastic - the thought is getting me hotter than hell and then a little bit of watersport activity completes a great scene

[brightondream]

Possession. Pure and simple. The question though that wonders me is : "whom is possessing whom?"

[oh-yeah]

This is something I've always wondered.

I've sucked a few guys in my past and when it comes to climax they always seem to get such a kick out of having their cum swallowed. One guy even wiped a bit off the side of my face and fed it to me with his finger while he was...well...almost giggling.

Some guys make it known to me before I blow them that they want to be swallowed.

Others ask.

And others are shocked when I do it because they've never had it done to them.

But they all seem to get the hugest kick out of it. I would figure that just getting head would be enough...but it's almost as if they do it just to see someone swallow their spunk.

Any thoughts?

Seems like you never had your cum swallowed before if you have to ask such a question.

I don't really buy this "its acceptence or it being a part of them thing", of why its a turn on for guys to be swallowed. It's just hot that's all. Who knows maybe some guys don't like it when they're swallowed (yeah right!).

I think that's its just a type of preference like some guys like twinks, others like older guys, others like hairy ones. It's just a type of preference that just so happens to be a major turn for most guys.

For me, I really don't care if they swallow or not, but... of course it's a turn on if they swallow. I myself enjoy the extra sensations and feeling I get as the person swallows while I'm cumming and they're sucking all at the same time... it just feels sooo damn good.

So, maybe you should have someone swallow your cum then maybe you can answer your own question.

[dandy80]

I love to swallow and then kiss with the juice in my mouth slowly giving the man I`ve sucked his sperm back... with drops of sperm droping... sucking the last drop... I also like if he comes all over my face (except in my eyes ) and then he likes it and kiss me with my jism... and I`m a BIG fan of precum (so sweet...)

[BeardedWoof]

I'm NOT a fan of "Swallowing" .... with all the health risk . I think just by giving oral; the receiver should be appreciative ...
IF "He" does not appreciate the "Head" ..then he can just go elsewhere ...

That's how I view it.

As far as having someone else swallow me. I could care less what they do.
I'm a bigger fan of having someone watch me cum or cuming on them if they want that.

[gregory]

i personally don't like swallowing, i prefer a guy to cum all over me.

but when a guy is sucking me off, i love to see him gulping and swallowing at the end of my cock.

[The Feeling]

I love it when a guy swallows my load!
I don't like it personally, usually gag and puke - but love to see / feel another guy sucking and swallowing me.

I also prefer to fuck than be fucked

[fellatio4ever]

Oh I love 2 SWALLOW Hot loads of CUM. Its my life. I love to take the cock deep so it slides down faster. I also enjoy a facil. besides creating life, I believe cum was made to quench a thirst after a long blowjob. The more cum the hotter and harder I get.

[hermanding]

in our case there's a factor of intimacy involved. we do it with each other regularly - and snowball
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[weasley]

ejaculation to a lot of people is like the end of a male orgasm, but swallowing usually would get a little longer sucking and the feeling is awsome, depends on how much you can take when you're all sensitive there

[breatheH20]

I personally enjoy it a lot. My bf has really gotten into doing it to me now. Like it's been said, I think it's the most intimate way to be with a man. Plus, I like seeing a guy loose his mind in pleasure when it happens.

Man.. I so would do that to my straight friends.. like all the time!

[PaulRenegar]

There is nothing I love more than swallowing. I have taken him to the ultimate in physical experience and he is rewarding me in return. Maybe that's just love talking. I have asked him about it and he says that it feels better for him when he finishes in my mouth istead of me jacking him when he is close. Why wouldn't I want to give him what feels best?

Me too. I love swallowing my boyfriend's cum, and making him know that I am there to pleasure him to the fullest. Sure he sometimes will finish on my face, but a BJ feels so much better when you have a nice, warm mouth sucking on you until the last drop comes out.

[toss-jamez]

i dnt know what it is, but theres nothing better than swallowing someones cum. i like it when they cum on my face and ram the rest down my throat with their cock. i dont care if they swallow mine, just aslong as i can swallow theres, but i do like spoffing in a guys face. i think its the feeling of control/power the cummer has.

[Dashriprock3172]

Spitters are quitters

[jebber]

If he swallows, wouldn't it make you wonder what other unsafe practices he has engaged in?

[toss-jamez]

Spitters are quitters

[Spiff]

Having a guy take your seed on his face or even in his mouth is likely such a turn-on because it reaches a level of intimacy that really can't be topped. After you do something like that, there's really nothing that you can do, physically, to become closer. You literally are giving the guy your mojo. Sure, there are those that simply get a kick because of the dominating thrill. But if you are good friends rather than just a quick one-time hookup, then its likely an intimacy thing.

[sguy]

I love to swallow - it's the taste of precum and then the final reward. If the guy I'm with doesn't like to - that's ok - I just cum on his face and lick it off myself. Everyone's into their own thing.

[Luv2Pleees]

I don't know. I'm bi-curious and the thought of sucking another man off and swallowing is very interesting to me. I've sucked a friends cock once for a few minutes, but he didn't cum, so I still have the fantasy.

[bw92116]

One straight guy thought it was cool when I swallowed every drop when he came. But the same guy, another time, came on the palm of my hand, and I licked it off - and he was incredibly freaked out by that. What's the difference?

[ballismylife2009]

i'm new to all this and this may be a horribly stupid question, but i thought that you could NOT get HIV from oral sex (swallowing). i think that's what we were taught in 9th grade health class. am i wrong? i've seen a few guys mention it here.

lol. guess i'm lucky seeing as how i haven't done anything like that yet.

[Brer Fox]

You learned that in school? That is troubling indeed. The risk is considered very low, possibly even theoretical, but it is documented to have happened. The only time you are considered at risk is if you have an oral health complication (bleeding gums, a cut on your lip, etc.) and ejaculate is present. It is much safer than any other sort of unprotected sex, however oral sex on men is most certainly no risk by any stretch.

For the majority of men, unprotected oral sex without ejaculation in the mouth is considered an acceptable risk. While the risk would be lowered to nonexistent by using a condom, you will have to look far and wide for someone who will cover up for a blowjob. Getting cum in your mouth has not been officially deemed riskier than having him finish elsewhere, but it logically makes sense that it will heighten your risk.

As for me, I wish so bad that I could swallow. It is a fantasy of mine, and despite the health risk I may have to do it just once, but I am so paranoid of HIV I know I couldn't sleep at night. If I had proof my partner was negative, I would drink it down for sure. I do not really mind if a guy swallows me or not, but if he did let me cum in his mouth I would love for him to snowball with me. I just think that is so hot.

But I am not into encouraging unsafe practices, either. Such a shitty state of affairs we live in.

[writerken]

That's a bit like asking why coming in a pussy is a turn on. It's just a matter of exchanging body fluids; we like to do it.

[sonny10305]

I think a lot of guys/girls won't swallow because of the taste. While most guys have a pleasant taste, some have a bitter flavor and that can be a real turn off, especially if it is the first time tasting cum.

[TheTrish]

Hi! You need to take a load in your mouth, smile and moan, and force the goo out between your lips, running down your chin and dripping on your boobs! Then, wipe the mess up with your fingers, and slowly swallow the strands. To do less is impolite.

T

[gbfish]

You have a way of making things sound soooooooooooo HOT Trishmakes a guy want to go suck and swallow.

[Falconlover]

It´s a power thing. You are totally available to them, available for anything. It gives them a power thrill.

Falconlover.

[Luv2Pleees]

I've never really cared if the person sucking me swallowed or let it ooze out. I do like to cum in their mouth though. I think that is the big turn on for me, not necessarily the swallowing. I guess cumming in their mouth means means to me that the person feels I'm worthy enough to taste my cum. That is very personal.

[GayNYJock]

Swallowing is no more unsafe than sucking itself - if you have a cut/sore in your mouth, the risk of contracting HIV wouldn't be increased by swallowing. The acids in the stomach kill the virus. As far as other STDs go, by the time the dude has cum, you probably already have gonorhhea, so not swallowing won't save you.
http://www.aidsmeds.com/articles/Tra...ion_9963.shtml
http://www.aegis.com/news/wb/2001/WB010810.html
http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/S...x/Q184530.html
Personally, I hardly ever swallow, but that's more to do with the taste.