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    Saturday I was at a local public park for a family outing. I went to use the restroom and their were two guys in the last stall going at it....

    Come on, that's flat WRONG...There are plenty of places for random sex (including sex outdoors if that is your thing) In my opinion a public park restroom with familes
    and children all around is insane...

    We gays, have a hard enough time with educating the public without this type of stupid behaviour...

    What do you think?????

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    I say go for it. Are you sure it was 2 guys? Because I have had sex with a woman in a mens restroom.

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    I need to know where is this part? j/k

    I agree it's disgusting behavior and it just enforces the gay stereotype.

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    Sex between men and men, men and women, and women and women has gone on in public rest rooms for hundreds of years I imagine.

    I admit it is not something that children should be exposed to... so yeah... I guess doing it in a public park in pure daylight is a bit much.

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    Public places and almost getting caught is my biggest fantasy. I would go 10 times in a row, with some random stranger if i could.

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    Re: Sex In Public Park Restrooms...

    Quote Originally Posted by herenthere View Post

    Saturday I was at a local public park for a family outing. I went to use the restroom and their were two guys in the last stall going at it....

    Come on, that's flat WRONG...There are plenty of places for random sex (including sex outdoors if that is your thing) In my opinion a public park restroom with familes
    and children all around is insane...


    We gays, have a hard enough time with educating the public without this type of stupid behaviour..
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    excellent!big bravo for you guy!

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    yeah... i've been sucked in public parks, but at night!!, when the only kids on the park are 18yo and better,... and they are waving their cocks all around the place

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    that reminds me of Laud Humphreys' "tearoom trade" sociological experiment

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    I did not mean to come across as a prude, or Holier than thou...the truth is..it really turned me on...But a time..and place..for everything..And the restroom of a busy family park does not quailfy.

    I watched who came out..lol..and it was a couple nice looking middle aged guys..

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    Quote Originally Posted by herenthere View Post

    Saturday I was at a local public park for a family outing. I went to use the restroom and their were two guys in the last stall going at it....

    Come on, that's flat WRONG...There are plenty of places for random sex (including sex outdoors if that is your thing) In my opinion a public park restroom with familes
    and children all around is insane...

    We gays, have a hard enough time with educating the public without this type of stupid behaviour...

    What do you think?????
    I agree. If it is a family using park, better to avoid for children sake.

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    Probably the danger of getting caught was part of the thrill for those guys. I agree that this has been going on for centuries, and I don't think it has much to do with whether there are other places to meet or not. Some guys just like "fast food sex."

    It's pretty unusual for one of those places to be in use during the day on a Saturday. And it's certainly hard on families to have to tell their kids they can't use the restroom in a public park. But I'm extremely reluctant to suggest calling the cops, as that kind of enforcement has a nasty habit of spreading in all directions.

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    Although I can kinda see the "thrill" of public sex, isn't that what distinguishes us from two dogs fucking in the middle of the street?

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    I thought that they thing that distinguished us from dogs is the fact that most of us cannot lick our own balls and dick.

    Seriously though, I think when it is in a setting in which children could have happened upon them, it is wrong. I also think that this is just one reason why all children should be accompanied to public restrooms.

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    I think public restrooms are for peeing...Anything else is a no-no...

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    No number two?
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    I agree.

    Gay men, perhaps because they don't have kids and also because they're likely to be cruising for sex on the weekends since they don't have wives, hit the public park restrooms at the worst of all possible times and days.

    You have to follow how the straight, married men are cruising the public park restrooms to get a handle on how and WHEN these places are supposed to be used for homosexual activity.

    You don't try to use the restroom at a family park on a weekend afternoon when the families are all there.

    You follow the typical family man schedule instead. And that's commonly week days only during working and preferably school hours.

    Any one knows a public park restroom is most accommodating to sexual activity when the kids are in school or when its not days and times when men spend their free time and off days with their families.

    A family park follows the family schedule.

    Like the Moral Majority dictate, everything revolves around the traditional, nuclear family unit.

    So you must follow when dads are using the public park restrooms for homosexual activity. Then, you'll be fine.

    But INSTEAD, the gay men, in their own little world and on their own "gay" schedule constantly conflict with family hours in such places.

    A handy monthly calendar and paying attention to school holidays, community weekend festivities (including art-in-the-park shows and bike-a-thons) will make the cruising easier and more wholesome for all.

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    Perhaps but not for me....LOL
    I can't do it anywhere public....


    Quote Originally Posted by Lube View Post
    No number two?

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    Never understood the allure of public restrooms,glory holes,park cruising or bath houses. It all seems really sordid and kind of tacky. And yes, this kind of behavior does nothing but reinforce the stereotype of gay men as rutting dogs that live for random sex.

    Keep in mind that every time someone gets caught doing something like this, it's a huge setback for all of us.
    It just goes to show you, No Matter Where You Go, There You Are...

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    Quote Originally Posted by sissyboy View Post
    the stereotype of gay men as rutting dogs that live for random sex.
    Being gay has nothing to do with it. Most of the men cruising the parks and johns are straight married men getting any kind of sex they can because their wife has past that point of no return, and he has to get it somewhere.

    Gay sex is the best choice for him because it usually involves no strings. Short of the occasional prostitute, how many women do you know that put out regularly on their lunch breaks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fliptrx View Post
    Being gay has nothing to do with it. Most of the men cruising the parks and johns are straight married men getting any kind of sex they can because their wife has past that point of no return, and he has to get it somewhere.
    It would be nice to think that's the case, but I don't think it is. I think most of these guys are just plain gay. Now what might be true is that they have a bf waiting for them at home, and they're just trying to sneak in a quickie.

    Video arcades, on the other hand, I think most of the guys really are "straight." See, that way they can justify it by saying, I just came in to see the pussy flicks.

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    I agree completely.

    Quote Originally Posted by 1st love ron View Post
    I need to know where is this part? j/k

    I agree it's disgusting behavior and it just enforces the gay stereotype.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dkonfrost View Post
    that reminds me of Laud Humphreys' "tearoom trade" sociological experiment
    I must be the only one who didn't pick up on the reference! Tell me more...!
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    Quote Originally Posted by elvin1 View Post
    I think public restrooms are for peeing...Anything else is a no-no...
    Yup, I would have been so shit scared of being caught, I don't think anything or anyone could get me hard let alone get me off in one of those places!!!

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    This type of behavior around here is very rare.
    They have fag proofed all the bathrooms in the early 90s.
    I did it as a teen,but nowadays it's really asking to have "sex offender" added to your namesake.

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    This sort of reminds me of something that happened a few years ago when I was at the Mall of America. When we were there, me and my family, we went into the Barns and Noble, and while I was there, I needed to use the toilet. When I was done and washing my hands two guys came in, at that moment I didn’t think to much about it and just doing what I was doing. When I had finished I turned around to leave and one of them was looking at me around the corner of the wall that separated the urinals from the sinks. The other person was washing both of us, while looking like he was about to go into one of the stalls. I just walked out after that, but I kept on wondering if they were doing what I thought they were. I waited outside the bathroom for a few minutes after that, waiting for the other people that I was with to come out of the woman’s bathroom, and while I was standing, there neither of those two people came out. I kind of wish that I had gone back in there just to see if they were doing anything but I didn't.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainRush View Post
    Public places and almost getting caught is my biggest fantasy. I would go 10 times in a row, with some random stranger if i could.
    About getting caught: There is a park in Oakville where we used to play football when I was a wee twink. (Shell Park, bet some of you locals know it! ) A few times (years ago) the police set up sting operations and busted guys bobbing on knobs. Almost all were married and most had kids. Their names were published in the local paper as soon as they were charged (The Oakville Beaver, no less).

    A few committed suicide, All were eventually acquitted (the police broke the law) most had their lives ruined. Imagine being the wife of the guy who has his name in the paper? Or far worse yet, the kid! Can you even imagine the damage?

    IMO just so wrong on so many levels...and really sad.

    Quote Originally Posted by elvin1 View Post
    I think public restrooms are for peeing...Anything else is a no-no...
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    No number two?
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    Even if we are just worm food then we are also the stuff stars are made of... I can live with that.

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    When I were a teen I took a trip with my sister to Provincetown. I was so naive I didn't even know it was a gay mecca (even though I knew I was gay by that point). Well, I had to use the bathroom so I went into the one in the city hall.

    There between two wooden stalls somebody had sawed a hole about one foot square. And sure enough, there on the other side was some dude jerking off and trying to peek at me through the hole. I don't know if I was more embarrassed or aroused.

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    Quote Originally Posted by herenthere View Post

    Saturday I was at a local public park for a family outing. I went to use the restroom and their were two guys in the last stall going at it....

    What do you think?????
    If the door was shut... well, not my cup of tea personally, but I suppose it's a free country and I wouldn't complain too loudly.

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    Originally Posted by fliptrx
    Being gay has nothing to do with it. Most of the men cruising the parks and johns are straight married men getting any kind of sex they can because their wife has past that point of no return, and he has to get it somewhere.


    Quote Originally Posted by slobone View Post
    It would be nice to think that's the case, but I don't think it is. I think most of these guys are just plain gay. Now what might be true is that they have a bf waiting for them at home, and they're just trying to sneak in a quickie.

    Video arcades, on the other hand, I think most of the guys really are "straight." See, that way they can justify it by saying, I just came in to see the pussy flicks.
    Laud Humphreys and the Tearoom Sex Study

    Laud Humphreys, a sociologist, recognized that the public and the law-enforcement authorities hold highly simplistic stereotyped beliefs about men who commit impersonal sexual acts with one another in public restrooms. "Tearoom sex," as fellatio in public restrooms is called, accounts for the majority of homosexual arrests in the United States. Humphreys decided that it would be of considerable social importance for society to gain more objective understanding of who these men are and what motivates them to seek quick, impersonal sexual gratification.


    For his Ph.D. dissertation at Washington University, Humphreys set out to answer this question by means of participant observation and structured interview. He stationed himself in "tearooms" and offered to serve as "watchqueen" - the individual who keeps watch and coughs when a police car stops nearby or a stranger approaches. He played that role faithfully while observing hundreds of acts of fellatio. He was able to gain the confidence of some of the men he observed, disclose his role as scientist, and persuade them to tell him about the rest of their lives and about their motives. Those who were willing to talk openly with him tended to be among the better-educated members of the "tearoom trade." To avoid bias, Humphreys secretly followed some of the other men he observed and recorded the license numbers of their cars. A year later and carefully disguised, Humphreys appeared at their homes claiming to be a health-service interviewer and interviewed them about their marital status, race, job, and so on.


    Humphreys' findings destroy many stereotypes. Fifty-four percent of his subjects were married and living with their wives, and superficial analysis would suggest that they were exemplary citizens who had exemplary marriages. Thirty-eight percent of Humphreys' subjects clearly were neither bisexual nor homosexual. They were men whose marriages were marked with tension; most of the 38 percent were Catholic or their wives were, and since the birth of their last child conjugal relations had been rare. Their alternative source of sex had to be quick, inexpensive, and impersonal. It could not entail any kind of involvement that would threaten their already shaky marriage and jeopardize their most important asset - their standing as father of their children. They wanted only some form of orgasm-producing action that was less lonely than masturbation and less involving than a love relationship. Of the other 62 percent of Humphreys' subjects, 24 percent were clearly bisexual, happily married, well educated, economically quite successful, and exemplary members of their community. Another 24 percent were single and were covert homosexuals. Only 14 percent of Humphreys' subjects corresponded to society's stereotype of homosexuality. That is, only 14 percent were members of the gay community and were interested in primarily homosexual relationships (Humphreys, 1970).

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    Quote Originally Posted by ds_writr View Post
    A handy monthly calendar and paying attention to school holidays, community weekend festivities (including art-in-the-park shows and bike-a-thons) will make the cruising easier and more wholesome for all.
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    "Doesn't matter"?
    I guess you could evaluate the "opportunities" on a case by case basis but I have grown quite unsympathetic to the whole situation. Some people seem to lack any perspicacity about the bad impressions they leave in younger people's minds. Or the bad hear-say they confirm in other's minds.
    But maybe the ones that seem especially abusive of public facilities are people that have already been branded as such by our institutions and hence have little reason to care.
    Rambling: Maybe our society should take an ameliorative approach rather than a punitive approach.
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    No way in this day or time....would I ever fornicate in one of those!

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    Quote Originally Posted by elvin1 View Post
    Perhaps but not for me....LOL
    I can't do it anywhere public....

    Who are you kidding....you pooped your pants on the dance floor at Wet! Or was that a side effect of the meds?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tbonez View Post
    About getting caught: There is a park in Oakville where we used to play football when I was a wee twink. (Shell Park, bet some of you locals know it! ) A few times (years ago) the police set up sting operations and busted guys bobbing on knobs. Almost all were married and most had kids. Their names were published in the local paper as soon as they were charged (The Oakville Beaver, no less).

    A few committed suicide, All were eventually acquitted (the police broke the law) most had their lives ruined. Imagine being the wife of the guy who has his name in the paper? Or far worse yet, the kid! Can you even imagine the damage?

    IMO just so wrong on so many levels...and really sad.




    No, never #2! Not unless you can hover. I just can't sit where all those nasty asses have been since the semi-annual (anal?) seat cleaning. NOW you can call me a prude.

    You, a PRUDE? No...never in your life....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kurn View Post
    But maybe the ones that seem especially abusive of public facilities are people that have already been branded as such by our institutions and hence have little reason to care.
    Rambling: Maybe our society should take an ameliorative approach rather than a punitive approach.
    Good observation on the ameliorative approach, but this is in contradiciton with the research Fliptrx cited earlier.

    Either way, I reject the research's implications that this behavior is the only viable outlet for sexual tension, and therefore somehow acceptable. If intimacy and love are not the order of the day, let them masturbate away. Promiscuity is wrong, period.

    Public promiscuity is illegal, and for good reason.

    What a child may or may not witness is a secondary argument. The average Joe Public doesn't have to be exposed to indecent acts either, and foremost. Although another poster was quick to note "this is a free country," the algebra equation is NOT "and that equals doing anything you want that doesn't kill or maim others."

    Private acts are for private places. No different standard applies to peeing or defecation. In fact, defecation is considered more private that urinating, hence the stalls. Sex is universally determined to be deemed more private that defecation.

    Come back in 1,000 years and it will not have changed. World cultures aren't going to take a giant step backward.

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    Man Hard-up1, that post was loaded with personal cultural bias: Promiscuity has nothing to do with it! Doesn't matter if it's your wife of 40 years you are going down on.

    That said, I personally see nothing even remotely appealing about having sex in a place designed, designated and predominantly frequented by people taking a shit...to be blunt. The smells alone, (urine, faeces and chemical pucks) would be an overwhelming deterrence to having a good time.

    The very act of having sex in a place where one can reasonably expect to be caught is a sign of a mental defect and deep psychological issues that need addressing. It shows (IMPO) contempt for one's self and others.
    Even if we are just worm food then we are also the stuff stars are made of... I can live with that.

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    ^ I agree....anyone ever look at those public restrooms....EEEEWWWW! I worry something will try to swim upstream when I pee in them let along sit down, drop my pants or get sexually aroused!

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    Quote Originally Posted by tbonez View Post
    That said, I personally see nothing even remotely appealing about having sex in a place designed, designated and predominantly frequented by people taking a shit...to be blunt. The smells alone, (urine, faeces and chemical pucks) would be an overwhelming deterrence to having a good time.
    Are you sure you're gay? You do realize it involves one man putting his pee-pee tool in another man's pooper, don't you? And ask your sex therapist to tell you about rimming....

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    Quote Originally Posted by tbonez View Post
    The smells alone, (urine, faeces and chemical pucks) would be an overwhelming deterrence to having a good time.
    Quote Originally Posted by slobone View Post
    Are you sure you're gay? You do realize it involves one man putting his pee-pee tool in another man's pooper, don't you? And ask your sex therapist to tell you about rimming....
    Actually, not it doesn't. Being gay just means that you are sexually attracted to people of the same gender...What you as an individual do with it is entirely a matter of personal choice. That would include pathological behaviour like having sex in a public toilet.

    I have a pretty good idea of how to use my cock,mouth and tounge... Thanks for the note of concern. Complaints aren't something I can say I've heard.

    I my dick came out smelling like shit, that would require a time-out and a shower. Likely a change of activities after the fact.

    If my honey's ass smelled like a urinal puck, I wouldn't have my face any where near it. If it smells like shit, I'm not eating it.

    I don't need a therapist to tell me what it means when men get off on the notion of getting caught having sex in a public place. Any idiot with a functioning frontal cortex knows what that's all about. Not to say some poor souls don't still do it. Junkies do junk knowing it's probably a bad idea in the long run...Alcoholics drive to a bar knowing they will likely still try and drive home even if they are trashed. You get the idea I'm sure.

    If I need a sex therapist for thinking having sex in a public shitter is nasty then I wonder who you should be talking to?
    Even if we are just worm food then we are also the stuff stars are made of... I can live with that.

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    Well for those old enough to remember the days when being gay was illegal, then there were no saunas, clubs, gay bars etc etc. So what was a man to do -- the only place to get off with a man were public loos. I guess guys who are married but have gay yearnings still need the annonymity of the public loo. Not every one is out even today. And there is still lots and lots of discrimination against guys who like sex with other guys.

    So don't be too judgemental towards guys who do it.

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    It's not a matter of being judgemental...Two guys haveing sex, is not the issue...but a public restroom in a family park on a week-end is flat wrong!!!

    Go into the woods..whatever but not a park restroom
    Thats TACKY

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    Re: Sex In Public Park Restrooms...

    Quote Originally Posted by fuckmuscle52 View Post
    Well for those old enough to remember the days when being gay was illegal, then there were no saunas, clubs, gay bars etc etc. So what was a man to do -- the only place to get off with a man were public loos. I guess guys who are married but have gay yearnings still need the annonymity of the public loo. Not every one is out even today.

    So don't be too judgemental towards guys who do it.
    It's not that I don't sympathize...Just as I sympathise for a junkie or anyone else who engages in self-destructive behaviour. That said, let's be honest here, people can make excuses for the most reprehensible behaviour.

    The year is 2006, not 1956. It isn't illegal to be gay anywhere in the civilized western world. That dog just won't hunt. Just because someone doesn't have a local bathhouse (shudder) it's no excuse to have sex in a public toilet. It does not provide a justification to subject children, minors or even adults to salacious sexual activities in a public place. Quite aside from the legal ramifications, what do you think it does for the cause of pursuing gay social issues when some members of the gay community conduct themselves this way? It's not just about "your needs".

    As for the married men, well that's perhaps the most disgusting, contemptible and selfish conduct I could imagine. What about the disease (HIV/Aids, syphilis, herpes, hepatitis etc) you are exposing your wife to by having anonymous sex with strangers in a toilet? How much contempt these men must have for their families. As I mentioned in an earlier post, imagine the repercussions if you get arrested. How is your son/daughter/wife going to live down the shame and disgrace when you are eventually exposed?

    Some may see this as an issue of morality, I'm not particularly interested in that side of the equation. For me it is a matter of criminal component, the exposure of children and minors and the damage it does to the gay community as a whole. If these men are married their wives have a right to know, thus the police have an obligation to arrest them.
    Even if we are just worm food then we are also the stuff stars are made of... I can live with that.

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    Re: Sex In Public Park Restrooms...

    To quote one of my fav shows friends.

    Monica - You guys did it in the park?
    Pheobe - Yeah!
    Monica - I can't even get chandler to do it in the bathroom.
    Chandler - That's where you go number two!

    A park restroom? That's gross. It should be illigal, gay or straight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tbonez View Post
    That said, I personally see nothing even remotely appealing about having sex in a place designed, designated and predominantly frequented by people taking a shit...to be blunt. The smells alone, (urine, faeces and chemical pucks) would be an overwhelming deterrence to having a good time.

    The very act of having sex in a place where one can reasonably expect to be caught is a sign of a mental defect and deep psychological issues that need addressing. It shows (IMPO) contempt for one's self and others.

    WELL SAID!!!

    Like they always say, "crazy people don't know they're crazy".

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    Re: Sex In Public Park Restrooms...

    Quote Originally Posted by tbonez View Post
    Man Hard-up1, that post was loaded with personal cultural bias: Promiscuity has nothing to do with it! Doesn't matter if it's your wife of 40 years you are going down on.
    Absolutely true on the personal and cultural bias, and they are chosen, not inherited, so I'm not abashed to put them forward. Mores don't have to be universally appealing, accepting, or palatable. Anti-incest values are cultural biases, too, but I don't see anyone racing to mute them in the name of political correctness.

    Society, by definition, is built on types of perjorative assessments, just to varying degrees in various cultures.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fliptrx View Post
    Only 14 percent of Humphreys' subjects corresponded to society's stereotype of homosexuality. That is, only 14 percent were members of the gay community and were interested in primarily homosexual relationships (Humphreys, 1970).
    That's a fascinating study. It would seem to (mostly) exonerate the gay community. However, it was done in 1970; I wonder what the results would be in today's more permissive times.

    Having said that, my opinion is the same as for a straight couple with excessive Public Displays Of Affection (PDAs): GET A ROOM!

    I don't even like it when I see couples getting all huggy and mushy in church or in the mall. Keep it to yourselves, folks, I don't have a SO and I don't like being reminded of how sad, pathetic and lonely I am (shades of the feud between Beverly Leslie and Karen Walker on Will and Grace )

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