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  • Don't mind.

    27 36.99%
  • Would never think of it.

    3 4.11%
  • Fine, if the feelings mutual.

    41 56.16%
  • Don't like younger men.

    0 0%
  • Don't like older men.

    5 6.85%
  • Older men don't go for me.

    2 2.74%
  • Younger men don't go for me.

    1 1.37%
  • It's easier to say in my peer group; plus or minus 5 yrs.

    4 5.48%
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  1. #1

    Legally Young 4 Older Men

    Hello everyone,

    I'd like to know what everone thinks about younger and older men together. By younger I mean 21 to 35 and by older I mean 36 plus. By together I mean dating, hooks up for booty calls and just hanging together as friends and confidants.

    Both younger and older and learn from each other while having fun. The young keep the older renewed and fresh both mentally and physically and the older assit the you with uncharted territory. Of course your peer group is fine as well, testing the waters to see what both sides generally think.

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    There is no universal truth here. To some, only peer group works. The others are attracted by much younger or much older dudes. Quite a few would swing both ways, if the situation presents itself.

    Commercial media markets what most guys want: hott, young dudes.

    Real life is somewhat different. Most guys would still probably go for a hot, young dude, if they had a free choice. Few people really have that and thus, we all negotiate our way around to finding the guy, who fits our taste best and is available.

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    Thanks SilverRRCloud. Sensible response w/o pretense.

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    Would depend on the younger man and any mutual interests. I find I like my peer group but have been told on more than a few instances by younger guys that they consider me a hot item for them. That is fine and flattering but again, it would depend on other factors and one big one is maturity level. Another is mutual respect. I know a number of younger guys and we have the mutual respect, so it can work. What I have found in my own personal world that is surprising to me is the number of younger guys who have a preference for older guys. Just a personal perspective.

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    I don't see a problem with it if both parties are down with dating, or whatever! Age ain't nothin but a number!

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    I have to go a long with Danno all the way....

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    I started dating men when I was 20, and have always went for men in their late 20's to late 40's. Like Danno said "age ain't nothing but a number".

    I'm 29 now, and I'd personally rather be with somebody in his 30's or 40's who's "grown up" and out of the whole club and gayborhood scene; although I'm not against going once in a blue moon with friends. For me, younger guys and I just don't mix well, because we just don't have enough in common. However, I have met plenty of guys in the age bracket I like who still think they're immature 21 year olds, and have to be at the club every night LOL (or they're really picky, thinking they're some spring chicken or something LMAO).

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    Im 47 and my last two boyfriends were both 24, basically half my age. Both relationships lasted more than a year.

    While the age gap obvisouly can cause some difficulties, I think it is fine as long as both parties feel happy and understand that each other's needs may vary from time to time.

    I also tend only to be attracted sexually to those under 30 (I have a penchant for twinks), so when I am not in a relationship (like now) I hook up with younger guys for fun... and fortunately here in Montreal there are many younger guys willing to date us antiques! hehe

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    I have enjoyed younger men and older, age is not a big deal to me. I just enjoy someone that is secure with themselves, and happy with who they are. My current partner is 32 I'm 39 so not a big difference and its work great.

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    It's all good as long as it's legal............

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    As I tend to relate more to anyone younger (regardless of gender), it'd be easy for me to say 'yes if the feeling's mutual'.

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    I don't think age matters much as long as both are legal. I almost never date people my own age.

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    I've tended to be attacted to men in their late twenties/ early thirties from the beginning, so I've made this smooth progression from dating older guys, to dating my contemporaries, to dating somewhat younger men. I am 37 and my bf is 33!
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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    I think you would have had many more votes (making the poll more accurate and meaningful) if you had opted to make it anonymous.

    As it stands, people can see who voted for what.

    We are a fairly tight-knit community here and many Jubbers are friends on and off the forums. I'm sure there might be a few people who would be inhibited by having it known, publically, that they "don't like older men " or "don't like younger men" for fear of offending their buddies!

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    Quote Originally Posted by elvin1 View Post
    It's all good as long as it's legal............
    ^ I agree with elvin on this. Age alone is not a big issue, as long as both guys have mutual feelings.

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    Not to into the 20 something and the 50 something or older...thing!

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    I think its great when a young guy seek the love and affection of an older guy, age should not matter, the heart knows not what age you are, it only wants to love. Most young guys wonder why they are always alone and lonely, its because they seek guys who mirror themselves and often find they are in a competition and not a love relationship. My bf is 20 years old, we've been together since he was 18, I've known him longer than that but its alwaya been the legal thing with age, he decided he wanted to wait and he's the most kind loving young man I know. Age to him, like Danno stated earlier is only a number.

    I asked another young friend who loves dating older men why he feels that way, he tells me, its because he feels safer and he knows when he's in a relationship the guy loves him. I think the guys who always want to stay within their age bracket is missing a lot, and they can learn what love is all about and how real love is, but we all have the right to love who we want no matter how much it pains us in the end.

    Younger guys and older guys together is SUPER!

    WHY MUST I REASON WITH THE REASON I'M A MAN

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    Wow I have been out numbered....

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    I like older men, but my reason for liking them and being with them isn't to learn from them because they're simply older and have experienced more. I just have attractions to them. And I'm not with my boyfriend specifically because he is older and that I could learn from him. I'm his boyfriend because I love him and seeing something in him that I see in no one else and sharing things with him that I would never share with any one else.

    I think that having the idea that younger men might like older men for the experience and to learn is kind of pretentious, maybe it's just because some one loves that person? I could easily learn from some one who is my age, just because they haven't been around as long, doesn't mean I can't learn from them.

    Not in a relationship to learn, I'm in it to love and to be loved.

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    Yes...if I would have to say the reason why younger guys like the older men...it is due to the lack of experience they have and what they can gain from dating an older man.

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    I guess I'm in the relationship for the wrong reasons then.

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    ^No to each their own.... I myself am not into older men. Never was...never will be!

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    i am 56 my bf is 26 we have enjoyed each others company for over too long he does not want to change i don't want to change just do it live your life tomorow you may be dead enjoy life today

    enjoy the day it could be your last

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chance1826 View Post
    ^No to each their own.... I myself am not into older men. Never was...never will be!
    That is funny, never say never.

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    I wasn't at first....but then he took his teeth out......

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    Actually, a small age difference in homosexual relationships is quite a modern idea. Age difference relationships between men and young men has been going on for centuries.

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    Thanks for the reply DANNO aka Shorty. Nice D-List display. Added you to my favorites.

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    Great attitude Drops of Jupiter!!

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    Outstanding and valid idea Pan-Am. I will make the next poll anonymous to ensure an unbias result

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    Nice response and soberingly honest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chance1826 View Post
    Wow I have been out numbered....
    Keep living Chance, you'll grow into the standard deviation of the norm.

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    My partner is 22 years my junior ... we have been together now for 4 years ... it has been the most blissful, fulfilling relationship for both of us. Before I met my partner I would never have thought that I would be with someone with such a huge age difference. It has not presented any problems, though we thought it would. Not only is he younger, he is from an entirely different cultural background (Japanese whilst I am Australian). It just demonstrates that if you have an open mind it does not restrict the possibilities. If I had put parameters on a relationship such as an arbitary age I would have missed being with the most wonderful man that one could imagine. After 4 years the bond is as strong as ever and has made a pretty wonderful life overall pretty well complete.

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    To TheBled,

    Loving and being loved has many nuances; thus it's a learning process beyond the feel good emotions when in or out of the other's presence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bedbugy View Post
    i am 56 my bf is 26 we have enjoyed each others company for over too long he does not want to change i don't want to change just do it live your life tomorow you may be dead enjoy life today

    Well stated Buggy

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanman34 View Post
    I wasn't at first....but then he took his teeth out......
    ROFLMAO -- At least you won't have to worry about the teeth while he's providing head.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MellowMel View Post
    Great attitude Drops of Jupiter!!
    Thanks MellowMel. Too many people are stuck up on age differences. By limiting themselves they are missing out on what can be very fulfilling relationships.

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    I am 26 and my partner of 4 (almost 5 years now) is 56. I have always found older guys attractive and because I am not a gym rat had trouble with men my own age. Most of them when I was in school were shallow and told me to call them after I got hot. I quickly discovred the bear community and have sinced just been myself. While I am not out to my parents yet I have been wit hthe sweetest scorpio on the planet who loves me for me.

    Age difference shouldn't matter but it has caused problems when we have been at events together. People are often suprised at our age differences and think its because he's a sugar daddy. Which since he is a professional musican would nevver happen. I think the gay community needs to relax its standards and jsut say "Live and let live"

    Age and maturity are not the same thing.

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    i like younger guys.

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    im 20...and i have a thing for older guys...

    no older than 42 for me though...

    older guys are a lot more understand and willing to take their time...younger guys are fucking hot, but they like to rush through shit and im not down with that.


    ...however, i've never been with a guy, so this is all just my assumptions.

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    It just depends on what you're looking for, i mean i kind of like older guys, everyone i've dated has been at least 10 yrs older than me

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    I have no comment..............LOL

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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    Quote Originally Posted by TRUCKiN AaRON View Post
    im 20...and i have a thing for older guys...

    no older than 42 for me though...

    older guys are a lot more understand and willing to take their time...younger guys are fucking hot, but they like to rush through shit and im not down with that.


    ...however, i've never been with a guy, so this is all just my assumptions.
    Well, who is going to be a popular boy around here then!
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    Re: Legally Young 4 Older Men

    Why is the poll closed? I didn't get to vote. :-(

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