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    What would you tell yourself?

    If you could go back in time and face yourself as a 10 year old child, what would you say to that child?

    The first thing I would do is hug that child and tell him that every thing's going to be alright. That he's not alone and doesn't need to be afraid anymore. I'd tell him to follow his dreams and believe in himself.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I think I would tell him, "Don't be afraid of your feelings. Be who you are, not who you think you should be."

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I couldn't agree with you more. I'd also tell him to take risks and live each day to the fullest. It's a scary world but it is a wonderful place with room enough for all of us - no matter what!
    How naughty can I be and still go to heaven?

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I would tell myself not to wait for things to happen because if I wait, they never will.

    If you ain't got no money take your broke ass home.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    "Be strong, and confident and don't be afraid of new things. Also, watch out for wet patches of tile flooring."

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Don't allow yourself to worry about how others will feel,be strong and speak for yourself.Don't be afraid to open up and ask for help,guidance,and support.
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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I would tell myself never to go to a party in November 2003 because I would just get my heart broken and it would eventually be a day that would ruin my life. I'd also tell myself not to trust the people around me, because they will fuck me over soon enough.

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    I would tell him that I'm sorry that his stepfather is molesting him. I'd tell him that it isn't his fault. I'd also tell him to not be afraid and to tell someone that this scumbag is doing this to him...

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    ^As cynical as I can be, I don't think I'd tell myself never to trust people. Maybe I'd just tell my past self to listen to my insticts first and stop second-guessing them.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I'd say: "Leave your dick alone, you evil little boy!!!"
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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Maybe I'd suggest getting piercings to my past self...

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    If I was able to meet myself when I was 7 or 8 I would of told myself to not let that kid get my game. Then at 10 years old I would tell myself to just accept myself early and come out of the closet early.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I suppose I'd have to tell him:
    "It won't be much longer before the extraterrestrials start taking you."

    Rational Lunacy's Facebook.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    *slap* lose weight the wight.. play some sports, get a hair cut... get nicer clothes, stop being a little bitch and go make friends... draw more.. you get better everytime you do... go take a shower.. I know your afraid of water but smelling nice is more important... one last thing..... even though your smart enough to pass a class without trying doesn't mean you shouldn't put the slightest extra effort in... go to class get an A...

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by puka-pride View Post
    *slap* lose weight the wight.. play some sports, get a hair cut... get nicer clothes, stop being a little bitch and go make friends... draw more.. you get better everytime you do... go take a shower.. I know your afraid of water but smelling nice is more important... one last thing..... even though your smart enough to pass a class without trying doesn't mean you shouldn't put the slightest extra effort in... go to class get an A...
    I'm sorry... are you me?

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I'd tell myself?

    hmmm

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    "Lose the family."

    Or at least, "Deal with the family on your terms."

    "Be proud of what you are."
    The world never changes if you're forever "minding my own business".
    The mindset that no one knows you're gay because you haven't told them,
    is like the dog that thinks you don't see him stealing the steak because he avoids your glance.
    Staying in the closet is like continuing to sit in the back of the bus.
    It's accepting that it's wrong to be who you are.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    "You're going to grow up to be both hot AND cool".
    Gentlemen.... Thank you.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    LOL....I like this reply....




    Quote Originally Posted by Soilwork View Post
    "You're going to grow up to be both hot AND cool".

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by eddielee View Post
    If you could go back in time and face yourself as a 10 year old child, what would you say to that child?

    The first thing I would do is hug that child and tell him that every thing's going to be alright. That he's not alone and doesn't need to be afraid anymore. I'd tell him to follow his dreams and believe in himself.
    I would tell him, that no matter how bad things seems that to be or become, you're going to do some truly amazing things with your life.

    You're going to find strength in places that you never knew existed.

    You're going to know love and friendship in ways that you never thought possible, and through it all you're going to be alright.

    Never regret anything, because in that moment it's exactly what you wanted.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Forget about trying to convince yourself you're normal and just like everyone else. You're not.

    And ... that's A Good Thing!

    Yeah, it hurts that you don't fit in, and that the big kids make fun of you and tease you. Of course it does. But: You don't need their approval. You're meant to do something special in this life that only you can do, and nobody else can.

    Then I'd give him a big one of these:

    dammit, my eyes are tearing up. Must be these stupid onions I'm slicing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaigaStar View Post
    ^As cynical as I can be, I don't think I'd tell myself never to trust people. Maybe I'd just tell my past self to listen to my insticts first and stop second-guessing them.

    I didn't mean like everyone around me but a certain group of people who were my "friends" who really screwed me and my best friend over for years with us being blind to it, that's what I meant. luckily I never have to see or speak to these people again and me and my best friend are still best friends, stronger than ever and content with our lives but I'd rather not have been played around by people claiming to be my "friends" that's what meant

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    hmmm....

    The old, take better care of yourself....Watch out for such and such....

    Oh, and winning lottery numbers for the next three years...

    I'm sorry to have kept you waiting, but I'm afraid my walk has become rather sillier recently...

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I'd say,

    "You're going to become a man, one day, Susan. No need arguing about that party dress with mother..."


    oh just joking.


    Hmm, what would I say? What would I say.

    I think I'd HATE to do it but I would become very morose and tell me that my father would die young and so to enjoy all the time possible with him. Oh, I loved him dearly (we were best friends) but I was always wanting to move away and travel and be in the world when I was young.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    i'de tell little david that there's a shit-load more to life than what you see around you and that mom and dad are doing thier damnest to give you as much as they can.

    then i'de go tell myself to go join some sport because jocks are hot.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    i don't really think i'd tell myself anything. first of all, it would probably mess up the future too much and i like the present the way it is. Secondly, i LOVE the way i turned out, so i wouldn't want those experiences that formed me to change in any way.

    If anything, i'd probably say: "puberty sucks. so do braces. You'll get over it and be extremely cute still for the most part through all of it."
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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    work harder in PE and join the football(soccer) team
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    One fleeting moment, and it is all gone, Crownless again Will I fall?

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by Soilwork View Post
    "You're going to grow up to be both hot AND cool".
    And don't forget modest...

    Seriously, I'd tell him to put in more effort at school and that time waits for no one.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I wouldn't tell him much; I like how I turned out for the most part.

    Just don't sit on the couch all summer and get fat.
    And don't be scared. It all turns out somewhat okay.
    if you pass under a rainbow, you will turn from a girl into a boy.

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    I tell him that everything is going to be just fine! He will grow up to be a really cool and really attractive guy! And when he turns 14 puberty will set in and both girls and guys are going to want him...

    I would also tell him to try out for lacrosse early so that he can have an advantage over the other players. He also should look into starting soccer camp soon, to tighten up on the game.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    To be honest... I woudln't tell him anything.

    Why spoil the surprise?

    Besides, people all told me tons of shit when I was growing up that I ignored and had to learn it all on my own. Glad I did, too.
    Gentlemen.... Thank you.

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    Id say:

    "Kid, you're gonna be just fine. Aged 23, you're gonna be doing well.... just, be careful on those credit cards, loans, overdrafts etc... you'll see what i mean"

    I figure, that we all have to make our own mistakes, and that is what defines who we are. If we listened and followed every single bit of advice we'd been given, we'd never experience life for ourselves.

    Life is about getting hurt, injured, laughing, crying, making friends, losing friends, growing old (without growing up ideally)... Do you not think that each of the experiences you all went through, whilst horrid as they may be, actually helped develop and shape and nurture you into who you are today?

    Think about that for a moment... if you could go back and tell the 10yo to "not do this, or not do that" It would change who you are today. Now, i dont know about you.. but im very happy who i am today.

    Sure, i could do with loosing a few inches off the waist line, toning up some more... but who i am as a person... i like, and im the way i am, because of things that happened in my childhood.

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    Get out more! Make friends! Don't let those bullies get to you because in 10 years, they'll be gone! Be yourself!

    And, get into computers. Trust me: Computers. Do it.

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    Hehe.. yeah.. Sell your shares for Norwich Union Plc first thing on 9/11/2001!

    Dont lose all that cash in the crash!

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    Step in front of the bus.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I would not say a thing.

    Words are usually ineffective, when it really matters.

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    I think I'd tell myself that looking at the posters of David Cassidy in my sisters bedroom and feeling 'funny' was nothing to worry about.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by Soilwork View Post
    To be honest... I woudln't tell him anything.

    Why spoil the surprise?
    Yeah. I was kind of thinking of the same answer, but I might've told myself to be a little less intimidated by Parents, Teachers, and other people.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    The things I would want to tell to my 10-year-old self would take hours. But the gist of it would be that everything would get better. And that I should listen to my feelings instead of putting them away and fighting them.
    ."We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars."
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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Don't be afraid, it is ok to be gay. Don't hide it, but embrace it. Otherwise you will grow up to be extremely sad.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by gsdx View Post
    I think I would tell him, "Don't be afraid of your feelings. Be who you are, not who you think you should be."
    same thing...

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    This is part of an exercise used a lot by those of us who facilitated group workshops during the 80s and the worst of AIDS.

    It seemed especially useful to adult gay men because one thing we seem to have in common is having felt, around the age of 10, very isolated and anxious about our futures. The idea behind it is that our adult self, having survived from there to here, would have a unique ability to speak to the specific concerns of our 10 year old self. What was amazing about the process was how much of our 10 year old self's concerns still created anxiety for us as adults, which we couldn't identify, and that was calmed simply by bringing them forward and addressing them.

    For me, going through it the first time in being trained by GMHC to volunteer was cathartic. It took place in a large room in NYC with maybe 50 other gay men, all seated cross-legged in a huge circle holding hands, eyes closed. By the time the exercise got to us approaching our 10 year old self, placing a hand on his shoulder, I was totally drawn in. The hurt and the fear still living inside me from back then was a big shock -- seeing it, letting it out, addressing it myself was monumentally liberating. Being told by our facilitator, "You may help your buddy next to you if you want," the man to my left and the man to my right let go of the men to their other sides and we three held one another while sobs washed through us. It was, in a way, a ridiculous moment, these grown men sobbing over the release of hurt and fear from so long ago; and it changed my life. It actually changed my life. What happened, what I felt at 10 years old didn't change; it never will because it's done and will always remain as it was. But the 10 year old boy who lives inside me today is not hurt and is not afraid because he knows it's going to turn out okay.

    I remember that afternoon, what I imagined in that exercise more than 20 years ago, like it was last week.

    I walked up behind my 10 year old self, put a hand on his shoulder and said, "Hi, buddy. You're safe with me." He didn't know who I was. "I'm you, all grown up. I'm strong and I'm loved and I'm having a good time." Beneath my hand I felt him tremble, too stoic to cry but too hurt not to. I stepped closer and put my arm around his shoulder. "You're safe with me and I won't abandon you." That's what 10 year old me needed to know.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I would tell him not to believe a lot of what he sees and hears because most people lie through their teeth at the drop of a hat. I'd also tell him not to rely on first impressions because most people are quite adept at putting on airs and trying to make themselves look like something they are not, never were, and never will be. I'd also tell him that in most cases, what he thinks will happen is usually not what ends up happening. I'd tell him at all times he should hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. Then I'd finish up by telling him that overall, what is meant to be will be, what is not meant to be, will not. There's little use in crying over the things that didn't happen because most things happed for a good reason. It just may take a long time to figure out what that reason was.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I would tell him: "If you ever start smoking and drinking, I'm going to come back here and beat your ass!"

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    I'd tell him to be nice to everyone like he knows he should be and that being different is never a bad thing if it's what you are. I woudl then tell hm that things will be okay no matter how awfult hey may be and that your best friend will stick next to you. Don't be afraid of your parents, be yourself around them and be honest with them, and always have the conviction to work hard and do what's right. Do things that may scare you, like a sports, and stick to your guns.

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    let's see.....go back and visit my past self.....It would be 1985 and I'm 10 years old. hmmmmm, ah yes. I would tell myself the following......

    1. Toronto Blue Jays finally win the world series...but it's not until 1992, oh they repeat in 1993. after that....stop watching them cause it's all down hill from there!
    2. Stop watching Toronto Maple leafs....they never go anywhere.
    3. Call Vegas. Place a huge bet on the fall of the berlin wall and communism as a whole and say it's going to happen at 10.30 pm, November 9, 1989.
    4. start investing everything you have in oil.....NOW!!
    5. This thing called the internet. It's not a fad. I got one word for you. YAHOO invest, invest and oh yeah INVEST!
    6. if you have money left invest in a little news company called CNN.
    7. Don't even think about playing a card game called Magic The Gathering.....trust me.
    8. When you meet your a guy named Jeremy in Grade 9. Walk away. Don't get involved and if you only remember one piece of advice...don't go to college with him. It will only lead to heartbreak....trust me...you'll understand later in life.

    then I'd step back into my tardis and see if there's some Daleks or Cybermen that need a good ass kicking!

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Hmmmm... I'm trying to think what I could say to the ten-year-old-me that the ten-year-old-me would listen to. I was a bit obstinate in those days (but I'm all better now, of course...) so wouldn't be likely to listen. But assuming I could do this, and that ten-year-old-me would believe me, I think it would go something like this:

    1. Your mother is a crazy bitch, and she will always be a crazy bitch; it has nothing to do with you, it's not your fault, and she's loving you the best her crazy-bitch heart will let her.
    2. Talk to your Grandfather more often...ask him about his past... he's a really neat guy with some stories to tell about working in movies, dealing with racism, and travelling across the South with his father, but you'll have to prompt him.
    3. I know it's really really boring, but do your homework. Those bad grades really are going to come back to haunt you. And you want to be a novelist when you grow up, so stop wasting time dreaming about being anything else.
    4. Similarly, try harder in gym. Tell Mom you need more meat and green veggies so you can be more manly (she'll totally fall for that), drink a lot more water, and exercising will become easier.
    5. Don't start smoking, don't start drinking, and don't ever bleach your hair.
    6. You're an extremely pretty little boy, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Nevertheless, stop trying to part your hair in the middle, and insist on clothes that fit.
    7. Buy Microsoft and Disney stock the first chance you get.


    And then, in one of those weird Quantum Leap flashouts, I'll return to a present entirely unlike the one I left behind. The question will remain whether or not the present will be better or worse or just different. It would be neat to see what changes happened.

    * Question the Dominant Paradigm *

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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by Robert~Marlénč View Post
    And then, in one of those weird Quantum Leap flashouts, I'll return to a present entirely unlike the one I left behind. The question will remain whether or not the present will be better or worse or just different. It would be neat to see what changes happened.
    Mom would've given your 10-year-old self a nice piece of beef... made from mad cow. And you'd actually die of it. Now wouldn't that be a complete bitch?
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    Re: What would you tell yourself?

    I love reading these. I would tell myself :

    Depression will happen. With you it's inevitable. But don't ever feel that it's something to be ashamed of. Go and get those anti-depressants when you were 16, don't wait until 19 when everyone has disappeared and you're left hiding in your room. Talk. See the doctor about your throat and tell them it's real. Insist on surgery. You won't know how much it'll change your life.

    You are who you are. Love yourself. Go on a date. Kiss. Don't sleep with them. You love love, but the ones who show love to you may not love you as you know love.

    Don't go to uni if you don't want to. Don't be forced into things you don't want to do. Some people will try, but you're stronger than that. Perhaps not physically, but mentally you can pass them by. Scars heal. Heal the scars in your mind by doing what you want to do. Help people. Buy lots of things to make you realise that you don't need them. Read and travel as much as you can. Meet different people. Learn their culture and be open-minded.

    Wear sunscreen.

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