My gaydar is rarely wrong...I was reared by gays & queens & lived with a lessie. Now I will admit there is also a sense of maybe possible a extremely closeted TV There's also that rare case where he could be a bona fide creepy pedophile. Not that I associate pedophilia at all with 'fabulousness'! It's sorta like those 'religious' types whom come across gayish, but really are sick twisted child abusers. I am sure that you've come across those 'christian' types who also seem gay, but it's in some cases the lack of a macho stereotype in that world, but I know a good amount hide behind the bible thinking it protects them.
I am in no way trying to say what absolutely makes a person gay, but like I said, I've been around enough & taught to know duck from swan. This guy just creeps me out & I think it's super seeded secret homosexuality, which has developed it's own monster! He is from the deep (Alabama) south, where undoubtedly christianity runs like rabies & homosexuality is an absolute worst atrocity. I never care if they're married. When you're hiding, you'll do the exact opposite.
Sorry for the rant, but I needed to vent!