I can't figure out why.........

[Peto Antoni]

As a gay man with needs, it's easy to understand how one can go from basic sex to one extreme after another. Not ever having even been fucked, it baffles me....... yet knowing the mind and attitude of many gay men. I'm not so baffled.

But I will still ask why would so many guys risk colon control problems as one ages, according to a best friend and M.D. by being double penetrated for years, fisted all the way up to the arm, using or having dildos used up your ass beyond belief, even 24"+, thick as a wrist? The whole colon and more stretches to the point of no return and my bud says many have to resort to a diapar type device as the years go on as they have no control over bowel movements.

These guys can't get enough no matter how much they get. Where does the buck stop, so to speak?

[diri]

Fistfuckers and the like? Each to his own. I will never understand them either. But then I know a lot of people don't understand a steambath bunny like myself, so who am I to judge?

[ComNavFdgPk]

Gawd help us...Here we go again!

[ds_writr]

Not ever having even been fucked, it baffles me.......

Well, I recommend that you might want to go off somewhere and get fucked then.

[ComNavFdgPk]

Well, I recommend that you might want to go off somewhere and get fucked then.

[ronnie_h]

even the slightest chance that i would have to wear a diaper again at some point in my life would keep me away from just sticking a finger up my butt...

but like diri said.. each to his own

[aneal_lingus]

it feels nice

[hawkia]

Well, I recommend that you might want to go off somewhere and get fucked then.

[iah822003]

I guess some people just want to push themselves to the limit, without thinking about the repercussions...

[CGHJ]

And yet, somehow giant goddamn turds come out of there every goddamn day, sometimes twice or three times a day, without worry. How is that possible that your sphincter gets stretched by your chocolate life-preservers every time you have to take a shit and yet sticking a cock up there is supposed to stretch it out? Bullshit [cough cough]

Let me break it down for y'all---your sphincter is a muscle. Muscles can be trained. If you let your sphincter go flabby it's your own godamned fault. Perhaps, and I am only saying perhaps, because most doctors I have spoken to have said that what you have described doesn't happen, if you jam a fist up there every day or a giant 6-inch wide 3 foot long dong, perhaps you will end up with some sphincter control issues.

But to not fuck because of that? It would be like not taking a carribean cruise because the titantic hit an iceberg.

[closetkeis]

Two words Kegel Exercise.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise

[Goula]

Well, I recommend that you might want to go off somewhere and get fucked then.

I'll try to remember to come back later and post an intelligent response, but right now, I have to run off and change -- I just pissed myself.

[hello_pussy]

If you wish to understand why humanity, and not only gay-men, turn to more and more extreme form of pleasure, then I would recommend reading "Les particules elementaires" of Michel Houllebecq, if you read French. I am sure there are english translation somewhere. It is a novel, and not a sociology textbook and provides a rather wholesome understanding od sexual exploration to the most vanilla to the most bizarre.

My understanding of the issue is that people go to the extreme pleasure department when sexual liberation has attain a rather mature level, generally speaking of course. You will find that many SM and exchangist clubs mainy in very developed countries. other than the fact theat these people can afford it, it also show a pattern which relates to how sex has been "banalised".

When sex is finally separated from love, and is perceived as carnal pleasure, one would naturally seek more of it. It is just like drugs. Once you have more, you will want even more or stronger stimulation. So you go from acid to maybe cocaine etc. Similarly you go from anal sex to perhaps double:triple penetration.

There is a biological explanation of this, which I would spare you all the detail, basically explains that the brain gets "bored" and thus you need more "exotica" to stimulate pleasure.

[tx_doc]

I know plenty of people who have had anal sex longer then some of you guys have been alive and I've never heard of anyone having this problem: http://hillison.com/snl/oops.mpg

Personally, I am not going to get into fisting or anything large and extreme, but what I want to do or not in my bedroom shouldn't stop you from doing what you want to do.

[cjeatc]

It's what limits are made for.

[serious_andy]

Must admit the thought of the pain scares me, but as a heavy smoker who am I to talk about future risks?

[justsimon]

Even MDs are wrong. In fact, they are often wrong.

[VICTORIADON]

Didn't you ever hear "truckers go in for re-treads all the time", but seriously, doctors have just perfected the artificial anus for colostomy patients so go ahead and get fucked, feels good!

[Bareback1988]

I don't understand fisting either. I'll stick to good old raw fucking -with raw cocks, not oversized dildos.