^ damn. And I was just getting ready to invite him to meet me and some of the guys for drinks when I go to New York. :dead:
I've only got to breath & people know I'm gay.
sometimes, most of the time they do not at first meeting. I have had many people question me in the work place when I haven't talked about dating.
I'm sure he'll be back.
I totally surprised my two closest friends, so I suppose if they can't tell nobody can.
^It doesn't always work out that way. Even your closest friends can be in denial about certain things or simply not perceptive of aspects of one's personality that a stranger might see.
My friends were shocked when I told 'em. Like ''ARE YOU KIDDING?''.
But people I know from school actually tell me I'm faggot all the time :/
It's funny. In our adult life, people are so "shocked," yet the kids that knew us in elementary, middle school, and high school knew it even when we couldn't admit it to ourselves.
Being called a fag doesn't necessarily mean they actually think you are gay.
^ Perhaps where you're from it doesn't, but they made plenty supporting statements to back up their claim(s) on my end. :lol:
Well I said necessarily. Sometimes they are, sometimes they are not.
It's just one of many words used as an insult.
No one knew, but I don't think anyone was really that shocked lol
Only when I grope them.
No...I'm all man.
*squeals with delight*
Everyone I've told has been shocked. The only exception was my mother who told me she knew I was gay when I was 2.
I'm sorry but if you "know" someone is gay when they are 2 it's simply a lucky guess.
A mother is the only one capable of seeing the signs?
What are the behavior patterns of a 2 year old which would indicate it's gay?
No. I keep meeting new people, and it turns out I always need to tell them. Even yesterday, when I was at a party.
It depends. I have been told by many girls that they knew that I was gay because I wasn't looking at them lasciviously at treated them like they were just another person. However, there have also been girls (usually, girls who dislike me), who have accused me of being excessively attentive, to the point of making them uncomfortable... Which is weird, because I was just brought up in a very conservative environment in which it was a man's obligation to treat women as "ladies". However, I have never, ever in my life seen a woman as remotely attractive or desirable.
Men vary. Some men tell me that I am too gentle, and they picked up on the fact that I was gay immediately. Others react surprised when I tell them and say that they would have never imagined that I am (nor cared at all, for that matter). There have been instances of men pointing out my gayness out of sheer spite, just because they don't like me - as if being gay were something shameful that can be used to assassinate someone's character and tarnish their reputation.
I depends on the people I have to deal with and the situation I find myself in, I guess. In any case, I am happy as I am so... As they say, whatever. :roll: I don't lose any sleep because of people's opinions, even though I do find it irritating when men who know that I am gay start behaving as if coercing them into have sex with me were the only purpose of my existence... Funnily enough, it's always the guys you haven't even noticed who react like that :confused: , which, to be honest, I find weird and incomprehensible.
I quickly ran into Lucky on Grindr. Told him y'all miss him. He said " I probably just need space."
Like I said earlier, I'm sure he'll be back.
I'm enjoying all the "no one can tell" replies, especially the ones who have posted pictures in the past on here. :lol:
I don't pass as straight or fool anyone. They know immediately. In fact, I've never been forced to officially come out as it's obvious.
Maybe I need to brush up on my straight acting skills.
People's Gaydar seem to work a lot better than mine, so it is no surprise if they could sense my sexual inclination. ;)
To all my friends, I like to bring out my inner "camp" and a "Diva" just for laughs.
No one knew when I told them, or they were just being polite. I don't really know. My Parents said they had no idea.
Only once was I outright asked, probably because I didn't want to partake in the Hooker they got for a party I attended.
For the most part I'm just too damn average and boring for anyone to guess.
i hope so but it seems a lot of my friends convince themselves they aren't gay...hard to relate with them when they do this.