"My friend hasn’t told his partner he has HIV. Should I do it for him?"

Of course you should tell.

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Originally Posted by Adrock-JD

The lesson is: practice safe sex always, even with a "partner" you "trust."

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I disagree.

Using a condom in an monogamous relationship is pretty much saying you don't trust him. A relationship has to have trust for it to be healthy. This does not apply to the first months of the relationship though because he could have it without knowing and has to wait few months until testing is reliable.

Of course it's always possible he will be unfaithful and infect you. But personally I feel that it is worth it. Sex with a condom isn't as satisfying and I won't settle with it being that way my entire life even when I'm married. If I'm in a relationship with someone who demands that I use a condom then I would end it. I need that person to trust me.

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Originally Posted by Coward92

As a top you were not at much danger. The bottom is always at greater risk of being infected.
If you use a condom properly, the chances of being infected with HIV for a top is so remote, that you shouldn't beat yourself up over it. There is a greater chance that you will be struck by lightning, and it never happened yes?
Just check yourself every year and you'll be fine.
I understand that many people doesn't care how much of a risk there is, because they are freaked out by the mere fact that there is a chance at all to be infected, but if fear takes over your ife, than you are already lost.

So the solution: Find the condom that works for you. Use it every time you have sex, and get checked for every STD every year once.
If you don't want to put yourself at risk, don't have sex. If you want sex, accept the risks. No other way exists.

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trill talk, you sound VERY miseducated on sex, bro. VERY MISEDUCATED. with that said, you shouldn't be giving him any advice.

if you think like that, i would suggest you stay away from any sexual activity for your own good. it's scary knowing that a 20 year old is roaming around thinking like this.

When you top you have the same chance as a straight guy to get infected with HIV. If I remember correctly it's something like 10x less risky. The reason for this is that it's almost impossible for the virus to enter your body if your penis is in good health. Usually it's things like cuts or other STD's which make it possible for the virus to enter through it.

But less risk isn't no risk so you should still be careful.

Getting cum in your ass is pretty much more riskier than anything else in sex. The riskiest thing after sharing needles.

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Originally Posted by bankside

See that's the sort of person that should just be locked in a quarantine facility.

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Kind of person taht hsuld be thrown in jail,and in many states would be.