first time anal

i've been fantasizing about letting a cock slide in me for the first time but have a reservation or two. over time, i've become more and more bi and actually beginning to like the taste of cock as much as, or more than, pussy. i don't have an attraction to the male physique like i do for the female's, just the taboo act of cocksucking. i do have an attraction to a hot, cut, shaved cock and balls though, nothing more or less. lately, i met a guy who wants to penetrate me, safely and with a condom of course. he has some experience but if this happens i will be the one who manages the experience since it will be my first time. i'm thinking pain will be an issue and i realize going slowly with lots of lube is the correct course of action. but i was wondering which position would be best for a first timer like myself for ease of insertion with the least amount of pain?

Although I am not a virgin "back there", I am no expert. However, it is my recommendation that for the first time, you might be wise to straddle your partner, facing him of course, and sitting on his cock. It puts you in a position to maintain some control of how much, how deep and how hard he fucks your virgin ass. I hope this advice helps a little bit. Enjoy, man......being a bottom is so fun! :sex:

You'll have to experiment. You may have a completely different sensation depending on your position. When I bottom, I prefer straddling or on my back. For some reason getting banged from behind is not nearly as pleasurable for me.

Get yourself a relatively small dildo and lube and have plenty of practice. No pressure like it would be with another guy and just take your time. Best of luck finding the right guy for you :)

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Originally Posted by BiMike

Get yourself a relatively small dildo and lube and have plenty of practice. No pressure like it would be with another guy and just take your time. Best of luck finding the right guy for you :)

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Follow BiMike's advice! Some practice at home with a dildo should be in order for you. It will not only get you used to accepting something in your ass, but it will also loosen up your virgin hole making it so much more pleasurable for your first time. Enjoy, man, and above all BE SAFE!

If you're on top you can control the depth and speed better, but it's also a matter of comfort. I've fucked men and women in that ass and they'll be able to take a pounding in one position and find it impossible to enjoy in another. Work on practicing with toys, and lots of lube!

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I gree I never get the same pleasure doggy-style as missionary.

Dildos are best way to find out about the pain, I did it and found there is more pleasure than pain, and now I'm bottom first, I love it, good luck

thanks to everyone for your advice. as far as initially using a dildo goes, i understand the intention of getting acclimated to taking cock. but, i don't have any attraction to using a dildo since it isn't real which is the reason i am turned on by the thought of getting penetrated - the fact of knowing a guy has his cock in me and he is getting pleasure from the feeling my ass is giving him is what turns me on.

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It is a very hot scenario. The reality of it is a little more difficult than the fantasy of it but it can be very hot indeed. Just be patient. Honestly, it will likely hurt some but if you hang in there, it will likely get quite pleasurable. I can tell you that there is no better feeling than cumming with some hot guy's cock stroking your prostate. The feeling is beyond incredible. Am I right guys or am I right?

To me itdidn't hurt, the satisfaction was in giving myself for him to enjoy, to use so his penis was taken care of, I didn't care if I came or not.

I understand you are not interested in using toys to acclimate your ass to receiving a cock in it. That's fine, but you will feel like you need to shit when he is inside you unless you do some kind of preparation.

Your ass is accustomed to pushing shit out of it your entire life. It will respond the same way when you are penetrated.

Using toys is a good way to "reprogram" to receive something into it. I wore a buttplug to reprogram my ass. My first time was wonderful!