Nothing against nudity...but masterbating in the presence of each other is a little bit too far...
At least i think so...
Nothing against nudity...but masterbating in the presence of each other is a little bit too far...
At least i think so...
Nudity of course is acceptable, or should be. Anyone whom has a problem with it is viewing it as sexuality, and that is wrong. The human body both male and female is a beautiful thing and should be viewed as such.
My father never created an odd situation/space if he was showing the full monte, but covered himself appropriately. Hence if people are stripped - I feel fine showing it all, but if there are prudes present, I kinda hold back, even if some are naked.
Well, I was disgusted by my father walking around the house naked all the time when I was 15-16, and would always turn away if my mother was undressing. I respected by mothers privacy, and I hated my father and didn't like to look at him with clothing on, let alone off. I would never be naked in front of my family, or anybody else, even if it's just my shirt off. I'm incredibly uncomfortable being nude. If other people are open with it, then that's their choice, I don't see anything wrong with it, I envy them for their ability to be comfortable nude, i wish I could!
I mean, surely once you hit your 20s or so you have what you have and everyone knows its there and there's no need to be freaked out anymore.
Having said that, .za boys of all ages are unbelievably shy about showering at the gym. I know guys in their 30s who are too shy to get changed in a locker room.
there isn't anything wrong with being naked in front of your kids if that is how you are and there isn't anythign wrong with being modest either. Everyone is different and has their own boundries.
One day in school, I heard that in the ancient greek civilization, fathers used to teach their sons and initiate them into their sexuality and they had sexual relations. I'm curious to know more about this subject, maybe someone can contribute with info?
I love being nude. At home in private. At the locker room. At the beach. I'm also the guy who ends every party by stripping completely nekkid. Yeah--that guy.
But I also don't shower at the gym. Not because I don't want to be nude in public--far from it. I leave in my gym clothes because it takes me over an hour to stop sweating. I could take a shower at the gym, but I would just need another one an hour later.
The Brazilian father-son vid was HOT, but both are good looking men. I would NEVER be nude around my dad, but part of the allure of the Brazil pics has got to be seeing the dad with that huge boner. His son must be proud he sprung from that big banana.(!)
Like many people, it all depends on what is going on during this time for me.
My family has always been very open about nudity and sex and I'm very thankful for it. I always come home from school and the first thing I do is strip down naked, it's just how I was raised and when I feel most physically comfortable. My dad and I sit and watch the news together nude, read the paper, etc. but nothing sexual has ever come of it. I'll admit that erections due often occur, but it's not a gross thing, we'll tease eachother about it and move on. It's the same way with my 2 younger brothers and little sister. I share a room with my two brothers, it's a large room (thank god lol) in a three bedroom house, so we're used ot seeing eachother naked as well as sister, my dad and mom. Like I said, it all depends on what goes on during this 'time of nudity' that makes it ok or not. I wouldn't have it any other way.
I can remember when I was in college, I went to the hometown of my roommate. He was kind of an awkward jock, not the smooth jock type, but tall, hairy, and ok looks. I had not interest in him. The odd thing, when I stayed at his house, I heard that his brother was showering with his father (son/father). Odd thing was that the brother was about 14 years old.
I guess I dont have a problem with a son and father seeing each other naked, like if they are changing at the swimming pool, etc. But I am not convinced it is necessary for a father to shower with his son at that age, just seems a little odd to me.
There are a couple photos and stuff (posted on this thread and elsewhere) that have a father/son nudity theme... adult of course! and non-sexual... just naked. I kinda think they're hot.... plus it's fun to compare, lol.
Of course, that's because it's not "me" and my father.... but to see other father/son combos? Ok by me!
Father and son nudity was always treated as natural around our house. Dad and us four boys wore speedos to the beach and pool and showered together naked afterwards in the locker room, while at home we sometimes still shower together if we are in a rush to get together or want to catch up on what the other has been up to. Nudity around the house was the same - not an everyday occurance but my brothers or myself would be quite all right if we saw dad or one of us walking around naked or with just briefs on while at the breakfast table or around the house on the weekend. My father raised us all to be comftable with our bodies and our sexualities, and I think we all came out of it well ajusted and quite liberal and open minded.
If I'm not mistaken, the Playgirl article featured a grandfather, father and son all nude. The father had a really tiny dick, but he was still incredibly handsome. The name was Myette or Myotte, something like that.
I agree with you all...but when it comes to sex between father and son, I think that if they both want it, and are willing to go through with it, and the father isn't purposely taking advantage, than why not?
I don't see a problem with it I always worked out with my dad so we'd change in front of each other all the time he got me into my first jock working out was a kinda guy thing to do together and being naked around each other was just normal
believe it's a good idea for a kid to see his dad naked accidentally in the course of daily life. it takes away the taboo of seeing a naked body. this in no way is connected to someone strutting around 6 hours without clothing himself, showing an erection, or other types of exploitation. we've all got the same body with minor variations.
I have never seen my father naked. I never wanted to. I never thought about it. I never cared.
Maybe I have "issues" (but, I don't think so). I wouldn't care for my children to see me nude. I have no real qualms about nudity, but I also believe that some people (not all) possibly gain some sort of bizarre peurile exhibitionistic fulfilment out of it. That's fine with me, but, leave the kids out of it. I can bond with my kids just as well . . . I don't have to be naked or have them naked to do so. A little modesty can also be a good thing. A little modesty isn't "harmful" either.
educa, that is some new shit to me. I would never in a billion years do my business in front of my mother or father. I have young parents and i could talk them about sex and stuff so its all cool. My father told me about masterbation but I never did it in front of him. My father is almost like an older brother. Also my uncles are real cool. My favorite uncle and I have been naked in front of each other many times. In the school locker rooms, we even fucked in front of each other and the same girl.
He just turned 20. Hes only 10 months older then me.
well, nudists don't really lay in the social norm, no offense. They're sort of a bunch of free spirits and no harm intended.
Guys in the US these days are overreacting about nudity in front of another male. The urinals at my school are almost never used cuz god knows if the guys pee sitting down lol. In the lockerroom they change under a towel like they're afraid someone will see their pu*sy? I think that's a little too extreme. As i recall, guys aren't that modest back in Brit. i don't mean we should go check out each other, but we should be comfortable with our body
As a teen, i would try to get the courage to walk around the house naked...only when my dad was home. i was always comfortable in my skin and had no problems showing it all. finally, one morning i did it, and my dad didn't have a problem. from then on, everytime i was naked in front of him, he only laughs and says im in my birthday suit. when he was a kid, he says he was too embarassed to be naked in front of his dad. to me, this was always normal, seeing how he was my dad. i've seen him naked to a few times, and its perfectly fine
Normal, not immoral
now, whenever i visit home and its only me and the old man, i still go about the house naked, cock swinging back and forth. he just comments how it's just like old times and i haven't changed a bit. also, even when i have a hard on it doesn't matter..we just act like everythings normal. he's even walked past me in my old room jacking off (and i know he sees me) and he just laughs and thats that. nudity between family members is perfectly ok..as long as its not sexual.
I have asked perhaps hundreds of men on line, about how they were introducted to any gay sex situations, only one cited that his father had taught him how to JO. I recalled my Dad and I taking an outdoor shower at his mothers house before i had reached puberty. I had hoped it would occur more often, but it didn't. Later he would get some blisters on his back while working outdoors. He would have me to wash his back in the tub. I had to reach down between his legs to wet the wrag, but he never was turned on by that, but I was. I was probably 16 then. One of our neigbors showers with his young son. I think we all grow up wanting to keep our privates private from our parents.
I've always seen my father nude and hehas always seen me nude too. Since my brother and I were like 12 years old, he taught us how to masturbate but without anyhting sexual, he didn't touch us or did anything wrong. My brother is now 16 years old and the 3 of us continue masturbating ourselves wathcing porn (hetero porn) or talking about sex stories. That's cool beacuse we end with ejaculation and after that everything is normal.
Well, my dad bailed when I was 2, but my mom has never had any issues with my sister or I seeing her naked, even to this day. She's always said it's not a big issue, and preached that all the time when I was younger.
Ironic then that she freaks out if she hears about people streaking, sleeping naked or skinny-dipping, saying it's all so unnecessary. I guess she means the sort of bath or shower nudity only, eh?
Me - nudity doesn't bother me. It did when I was in my teens, probably because of the modesty factor, and because we didn't have to shower at school, so I'd never got undressed in front of guys my age before. These days, since 18 or so, it's not an issue - locker rooms, nude beaches, streaking, skinny-dipping, the lot. I don't tend to hang around naked at home or anything - that does strike me as odd - but in instances where nudity is expected or required (or entertaining haha), I'm there.
Surprisingly, this last weekend, a younger friend of mine and current gym partner finally got naked in public, at the gym in the locker room. Up till Friday he was the standard issue shower-in-boxers-change-in-toilet-stall-or-under-a-towel .za younger guy, but Friday night he just stopped all that and did it, and again on Saturday. By his own admission - I've asked him several times before about it - this is the first time anyone has seen him naked since he was 9, and he's now 22.
Times a-changing - can only be a good thing, I reckon.
I am South African(born in Madagascar). My Father is Dutch/South African and my mother is South African.
I only lived in the US for about 7-8 years. I don't do nudity in front of my parents
I don't understand the taboo over nudity at home. I've been a nudist since I was introduced to nudism in college by a roommate who was raised in a nudist family. As a dad, I'm nude around the house whenever I feel like being nude, regardless of whether the boys are around or not.
That being said, there is a big difference between casual/social nudity and sexual nudity. (One is being nude and the other is being nekkid!)
Well, I think it depends on the person/society as to the views. I mean, my parents were prudish and I live in the US, so just the concept of nudity does tend to be a turn on in that respect simply because it's not a "normal" activity. Though there is a simple artistic beauty to the human form, but I haven't really noticed that until more reciently...
For refernce, I believe I've only seen my father naked one time, that's when he was changing out of a swiming suit into his regular clothes at a water park. I think I was 18 or 19 at the time. First and only time, and I wasn't really looking (I was trying to find a spot to change where people wouldn't see ME changing. -blush- And yes, I did find a nice corner to hide in to change. ^_^)
I've decided if I have sons, I'd like to do things differently because even to this day, I'm really bashful and shy about my body...and I don't want kids I have to suffer from the same hang-up which I'm only now getting over myself (and not really the nudity part, even just being shirtless to swim and stuff.) I haven't decided how to do it yet, but then I don't have to worry about it for a while either. ^_^ I just know I want kids that I have to be comfortable in their skin and their bodies, and who they are as people. Course, then the masterbation thing comes on. On the one hand, it's really private, but on the other, I was never shown how or told it was alright, and I had several years of my life agonizing over it which I also don't want any sons I have going through. But yeah, fortunately, I have plenty of time to think about what would be a right way to do it. As for the puberty thing...hehe, yeah, that kinda freaked me out. ^_^; Course, it also came a touch late and I didn't even see guys my own age shirtless or nude either (no gym, no showers. ^_^) -shrug-
As for normal or perverted...that depends too. But not being a father yet myself, and not having had any such experience of any form with my own father, I guess I can't really give a good opinion on this, just the opposite side.
I do apologise if I sound judgemental, but there is indeed a very creepy incestuous undertone to this thread in many of the posts.
I don't understand it whatsoever. I learned to masturbate without any assistance from anyone . . . let alone my father. I love the man dearly, but I never saw him nude. I never wanted to see him nude. I never cared to see him nude and certainly never longed for him to see me nude; and especially not watch me masturbate. And this is the same for my own children. Yes, having a healthy sense of on'es body is good . . . but so is a little modesty.
we need to stop talking and start showing pix.
I shower with my 18 month old son sometimes. I my culture however, the son should never see the fatehr naked - a respect thing I assume.
I don't disagree with that, I just wonder what's the best way to do things. While you don't want to be incestuous, as you said, I feel that an extreme prudicial view (one that never mentions sex, nudity, or anything of the sort...I'm still waiting on "the talk" myself...I'm assuming my father was either going to wait for my wedding night or figured I'd figure it out on my own :p) isn't a great idea. And, of course, you have to factor in individuals and how they come to accept themselves.
But then, life's too complicated to figure out all at once and boil down into something cut and dry. Modesty is good, but to the point that one is afraid to be shirtless while swiming? Sexuality between non-married family members (that is, the husband and the wife) isn't a good thing, but prudish to the point that the kids curse themselfs for jerking off and the concept of sex (much less masturbation, safer sex, and the parent's values regarding sex and sexuality) are simply unmentioned and not talked about? That's not good either. I'm guessing as with everything else in life, the trick is striking a ballance and tayloring your actions to the individuals you are dealing with. But that takes wisdom and a ballance between wreaklessness and prudence...
As for the first thing you said, I didn't have to be shown how, I figured it out by accident (while conducting a completely unrelated experiment... -blush- Hehe, it's kinda funny, actually...), but though I figured it out at 12, from age 14-17 I thought I was committing some terrible sin which I hated myself for, something that I didn't totally get over until I was almost 20. So while I'm not saying that a father should physically demostrate how to do it for his sons, it might be nice to be told you aren't damning yourself to hell over it...in fact, I'd rather any sons of mine do that than have indiscriminate (or worse still, unprotected) sex with random people. Oh yeah, and I never had any friends that I talked with about it (I HONESTLY thought I was the only person on Earth that did it until I was 18. ^_^; And besides, all my friends came from essentially equally prudish famalies.)
Well, like I said, what do I know? -shrug-
Who is the Hot daddy in this????
Think that's Derek Steel.
Well i am going to be very British about this and maintain nothing stiff other then an upper lip and say it's not really the done thing never saw my parents naked never wanted too and would die of shock if ever they where to have seen me after about my 6th birthday.
Its also beneficial that he doesn't develop a shameful attitude towards his body or a ridiculous exaggerated form of modesty that is evidently common among boys today.
I'm with the pro-nudity guys on this one - my dad ditched us when I was a kid, and we didn't shower after gym or anything in primary or high school, so I had no idea what to expect or anything during The Big Change of puberty, apart from what I'd read in books.
Having your dad see you undressed, and seeing your dad undressed, really should not cause anyone any panic at all, I shouldn't think. There are far too many boys and young men out there who are scared absolutely shitless to get undressed in semi-public (as in locker rooms) for whatever reason, and I honestly don't see the point of being uncomfortable in your own skin.
I was in that terrified camp for a long while as a young guy, but I realised that at some point you just need to get over it, get on with it and get used to it. So at the ripe age of 22, I did.
It took a week's worth of showering at the gym before it became a complete non-issue, and nobody was reduced to a gibbering wreck because of it.