He suggested a few names for EJ, but the one that stuck was eJoan, as in electronic Joan (hence the lowercase "e" when I use eJ). I also like Esther...
In case I'm not currently showing my gender, I'll mention I'm female. I was a lesbian before developing an interest in men. I write BDSM (mostly D/s) erotic fiction featuring (usually) male threesomes. For more about me, just ask.