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  1. MNRomantic's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson
    Thanks guys, I will update. We could have met today, but it didn't work for me. It is sad and hurts that in the year 2015, that this still happens. I learned something about the bf who left that gives me some insight into him, but in all honesty, it might make things worse because it make his parents even more influential in his life. I will share that later if it really is an issue. I woke up in the middle of the night two nights ago saying "why didn't I think of that". It dawned on me that my nephew might be helpful here. I blogged about him a few years ago. I think I titled it "I sometimes wonder" or something like that, if you want to check out the archives. I assume it is still there. The problem is my nephew is still not completely comfortable in is own skin. He is doing a lot better and no longer drinking but his "friend" is a sweetheart that is very patient and understanding and would do anything for anyone. I know he would be willing to help.
    I can't allow myself to get overly involved with these two guys since they are basically strangers to me and I don't know alot about them. I do trust my own gut on these kinds of things, however and I will move forward cautiously.
    Whatever I say to them, I intend to be direct with them. Whatever I say will not include me guiding them toward any particular decision. I learned a long time ago that these kinds of life issues have to be decided by the person themselves, since they alone pay the consequences for their decisions.
    I will be watching for the update, if you guys do end up meeting this week.

    You're right - it is sad that this happens in 2015.

    Close. It was actually titled "Sometimes I Wonder." (Right words, different order). I've provided a link for reference for those that wish to read (or re-read as the case may be).

    Simply strangers or not, I think it's a good thing that you are trying to do. With that said, I agree it's best to move forward cautiously.

    Best,
    D.
  2. sixthson's Avatar
    Thanks guys, I will update. We could have met today, but it didn't work for me. It is sad and hurts that in the year 2015, that this still happens. I learned something about the bf who left that gives me some insight into him, but in all honesty, it might make things worse because it make his parents even more influential in his life. I will share that later if it really is an issue. I woke up in the middle of the night two nights ago saying "why didn't I think of that". It dawned on me that my nephew might be helpful here. I blogged about him a few years ago. I think I titled it "I sometimes wonder" or something like that, if you want to check out the archives. I assume it is still there. The problem is my nephew is still not completely comfortable in is own skin. He is doing a lot better and no longer drinking but his "friend" is a sweetheart that is very patient and understanding and would do anything for anyone. I know he would be willing to help.
    I can't allow myself to get overly involved with these two guys since they are basically strangers to me and I don't know alot about them. I do trust my own gut on these kinds of things, however and I will move forward cautiously.
    Whatever I say to them, I intend to be direct with them. Whatever I say will not include me guiding them toward any particular decision. I learned a long time ago that these kinds of life issues have to be decided by the person themselves, since they alone pay the consequences for their decisions.
  3. dpnice's Avatar
    Please update if possible.

    It is so sad that some are still required to make a choice. Then it is still bewildering that some will choose family knowing that they will not support or love them as the way they are.

    That story has clouded my day a little.


    David.
  4. rawcowboy's Avatar
    It hurts that this still happens.
  5. sixthson's Avatar
    Love that is not unconditional is no love at all. Probably because of my own experience, it scares the shit out of me that someone would give up true love to keep a family that couldn't possibly love them when they require that of them.

    I will update if we meet next week. Right now, I am empty. That is not easy to admit since I am a very hopeful person normally.
  6. MNRomantic's Avatar
    Thank you for this entry, sixthson.

    The tears still continue to flow down my face.

    I'm glad you had the time to be able to talk to that gentlemen.

    Hopefully they are able to work things out.

    As a hopeless romantic, I will always support love.
  7. justaguy's Avatar
    Truth sets free.

    Never a truer word spoken. Thanks for sharing your story Micah/Dan, regardless of how much it hurts. I know the saying 'a problem shared is a problem halved' is really corny, but it is so apt in this case.
  8. justaguy's Avatar
    Sixthson, thanks for sharing Micah's story with us.

    It's never a good sign when parents drop their kids off at their neighbours so they can go to the bar, and Micah appears to have been dealt a rough hand in this regard, in more ways than one. I hope he somehow gets around to not blaming himself for either his parents or Mr Newberry's behaviour. Easy for me to say, while sitting on my keyboard in New Zealand, not being able to talk to the adult Micah, as he grapples with his feelings.

    The worst thing a parent can say to their child must surely be to tell him he is no good. What sort of life and confidence builder is that, especially as Micah is turning from boy to man, and hoping to gain more independence from his parents? Perhaps that was the reason? Or perhaps the priest helped in some way. One can only hope. I'll look forward to the next installment.
    Updated December 22nd, 2014 at 01:02 AM by justaguy
  9. justaguy's Avatar
    I'm intrigued. Would love to hear more.
  10. sixthson's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by DR-B
    Another great entry, Sixthson. Thank you for sharing this with your readers. I can understand some of how you felt in your entry, as I once felt a similar way. It is quite funny how people can change as they get older and mature. I'm sorry to hear of Grace's passing, but I'm thankful you were able to connect with her until her passing.

    Kind Regards,
    DR-B
    Thanks, Dr-B

    The lessons she taught me have caused her to still live in me. I think this is one of the great purposes of life.
  11. DR-B's Avatar
    Another great entry, Sixthson. Thank you for sharing this with your readers. I can understand some of how you felt in your entry, as I once felt a similar way. It is quite funny how people can change as they get older and mature. I'm sorry to hear of Grace's passing, but I'm thankful you were able to connect with her until her passing.

    Kind Regards,
    DR-B
  12. freefall's Avatar
    I'm still wondering why you don't write novels. You're so good with your words, be it the beauty of the complexity or the effortless way of conveying emotions between the fonts.
  13. DR-B's Avatar
    [B][FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=2]Thank you for sharing this with us. I truly enjoyed reading it, and hope that you will write more. Great job.[/SIZE][/FONT][/B]
  14. DR-B's Avatar
    [FONT=Century Gothic][COLOR="#0000FF"][SIZE=3]Sixthson,

    My apologies - I have not been on JustUsBoys very much lately, and apparently not since July. Therefore, I am only seeing your response now.

    I am sorry to hear of the drinking again. It is a shame when people do turn to that, it is truly very saddening to me. I am thankful to hear that he has a good brother there for him, but sorry to hear of the homophobic sister. That truly is a shame.

    I understand about him knowing what he wants as well. There comes in a time in our lives when we do know what we want. For me also it was a matter of do I accept this, or do I try to be someone whom I am not? Of course I chose to accept it, and my family was very good about it as well. I sincerely hope that your nephew is able to get to this stage as well, though I fear that he will have more challenges than I did with the background you have shared.

    I also sincerely hope that your nephew does not self-destruct. I would hate to see that happen. I know that you are there for him, so hopefully he will come to you and his friend in times of need to talk about things that need to be spoken about. Hopefully he will not do anything to hurt himself.

    Given the time lapse of my messages (I truly apologize), is there any update regrading your nephew, if I may ask?

    Best Wishes,
    Dustin[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT]
  15. sixthson's Avatar
    Hi Frank, there will be more about the house on crenshaw. JUB keeps logging me out all the time and it makes posting frustrating.
  16. frankfrank's Avatar
    Has there ever been a next visit? I enjoyed reading this so far. I used to love going through vacant houses when I was a kid, and often would ride out in the country with my mother and my two older sisters and we'd go through these places in rural southeast Michigan.

    We never saw anything way that bizarre that I can remember, and it was way too early an era to be stumbling on crack dens or meth labs or squats, so the only danger was loose or rotting fixtures or structures. None of us ever got hurt by any of that stuff though.
  17. sixthson's Avatar
    Thanks, Dustin.
    Since the death of his father, he has regressed, I'm afraid, including drinking again.
    He has a good brother who will be there for him and a sister who is homophobic.
    His best buddy and he have experimented with each other, so he knows what he likes
    and wants. Getting to accept himself is the problem. His buddy is the best thing that
    could happen to him. He loves my nephew and is very patient and understanding with him.
    My fear is that my nephew will self destruct.
  18. REALWILDARKIEHERE's Avatar
    Sounds just beautiful !
  19. DR-B's Avatar
    [B]Sixthson -

    I, too, question whether or not things will get better. Being 24 now, I have to say that things are sometimes difficult for all of us. Much better than in the past, I would say, but still difficult nonetheless. I am, however, hoping that things will get better in the future. The younger gay men need people such as yourself (understanding and caring) to lean on. I am sure that your nephew appreciates you so very much - he's lucky to have a person with whom he can speak regarding his sexuality, and anything else.

    I am very sorry for both yours and his loss. I can't imagine how your nephew nor your family must feel right now. I sincerely hope that alcoholism doesn't take over him. I know how difficult that can be as it is something that I recognize from my own family, regrettably. I sincerely hope that things get better for him.

    I had only seen this message today; I know that it is nearly one week since you posted the entry, however I wanted to share my thoughts.

    Best Regards,
    Dustin
    AKA DR-B[/B]
  20. refujiunderground's Avatar
    wow... my condolesences to him.
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